Argument on a Habbo Retro

[Accipiter]

apologizing does not always mean that you are wrong and the other person is right, it just means you value your relationship more than your ego.

Done, apologising is for someone who couldn't care less how they look

[Gibs960]

And tbh it's pointless me apologising to her because I'm still gonna get done for it if the school take it the wrong way, apparently she's saying I've been bullying her for weeks and all that.

[Accipiter]

You not apologising is all to do with ego, you'll think you've lost because you apologised, but not really, you just foiled all her scheming plans with a single word.

[Gibs960]

But what have I got to be sorry for, for sticking up for myself? I do have an ego, yes, but that has not a lot to do with me saying sorry. What I do not understand is why she started an argument and then when I called her a name back she gets her mum to take a picture of it?

[Accipiter]

Because she's a silly little cow

I can call someone a silly little cow still mean it and say sorry

Learn to play the world we live in or you'll sit at the bottom worrying about silly things

[AgnesIO]

But what have I got to be sorry for, for sticking up for myself? I do have an ego, yes, but that has not a lot to do with me saying sorry. What I do not understand is why she started an argument and then when I called her a name back she gets her mum to take a picture of it?

You've done nothing wrong and neither has she.

Just ignore it.

[Gibs960]

Thing is though, she's got just as much to apologise for but doesn't have the courtesy to do so.

[Accipiter]

Then neither do you have the courtesy at the moment, man up and be bigger than her.

I'm sure you can apologise and feel proud that you did so...

[Gibs960]

I just tried to apologise and she can't for the life of her see that she's done a thing wrong. And she then went on to say "It's not worth me speakin to him".

[Accipiter]

You aren't suppose to say

"I'm sorry now I think you need to apologise for being a ****"

as

"I'm sorry now I think you need to apologise for being a ****"

Counters

"I'm sorry now I think you need to apologise for being a ****"

I'm sure you didn't mean what you called her, so say the truth "I'm sorry I didn't mean to call you those things, you just hurt me."

You don't force an apology off her, you just express that she hurt you, which tends to lead on to an apology.