I am saying that by holding the opinion you do, you are encouraging other people who would support legislation solidifying the opinion to go further with it. You are a type of supporter. Let me quote myself so you can re-read what I just said in this post in my previous post.
Let me make an example. There is a country called Dystopia and the country is founded on the basis that the state will stay out of the personal lives of its citizens. Everything is fine for a while but, as humans, some of us will naturally form a bias or an opinion on something regarding the personal lives of Dystopians - like homosexuality. It starts with one person. They believe that public homosexuality is damaging in this case. That person is you, Daniel. You are that citizen. They don't do anything about their opinion and sit on it content to believe what they believe. One day they meet another citizen who has independently developed the same opinion because, in Dystopia, people obey the values that the nation was founded on and don't usually discuss things like this. Now, Daniel, you and your peer who shares your opinion that public homosexuality is damaging or immoral have connected over this.You may not support legislation but by supporting and even 'campaigning' that point of view you are encouraging the same around you among others who may and probably would support legislation. Not everyone is content to have their view and sit on it politely.
You may or may not talk about it after the initial realisation but you can be certain that two other people in Dystopia have connected over the same thing. No one can be sure why - perhaps a homosexual has wronged a citizen of Dystopia and they carry a grudge on the whole homosexual population. Perhaps some believe that any public sexuality is wrong but take on public homosexuality because it is a smaller stone to crush since homosexuality is naturally a minority behaviour in humans. In any case, the opinion develops. Periodical connections between individuals with the same opinion as you, Daniel, connect.
Some citizens of Dystopia soon also develop the opinion that some of the founding principles of the nation are not correct. This is not farfetched - slavery was once the dominant paradigm throughout the western world in years past. People like you Daniel, the simple citizen with his opinion that he kept mostly quiet, begin to mutate. Some of you will remain the same and urge for the state to remain impartial to the personal lives of its citizens. Others, unlike you, will support legislation. As humans, so many of us are programmed to desire our views to be in the spotlight. One by one people who want to ban public homosexuality amass in to groups and, eventually, it is quite possible that Dystopian citizens like this enter the political arena of the nation and begin to make change to suit their beliefs.
While it is not totally likely that there will be enough support to change the founding values of Dystopia, there is a change that is large enough to be considered a risk. A small group of determined radicals has just as much power as a huge group of special snowflakes who have no interest in change. Perhaps in this case people who have grown to support legislation against public homosexuality and the children of these citizens who inherited their parents' views get strong enough to pass the legislation they desire. Just like that, my friend, homosexuals like me no longer live in the Dystopia I grew up in. I am no longer allowed to embrace my husband in public, view anything but heteronormative publications in the media and news and admit and act like my true self in a public spectrum. My most important rights have been stripped away.
Daniel, go back to the start. Who did this start with? It started with a person - perhaps you, perhaps not - who had a toxic opinion. I beg you to rethink your position before people like me are forced backwards on to the dead bodies of activists who have fought for my rights over the past fifty years. I don't want to live a secret life. Please think of us.



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