Do you want children?

[Shar]

yeah that's fine and everything but the field and career i'll be going into 30-45 is a crucial age for advancement, or the time I plan to have the money for a PhD and start a new career as a university lecturer, not really ideal times to be having children.

If I do it'll probably be sooner rather than later. Or adopting/fostering an older child...

Fair dos. I think adopting/fostering is a wonderful.

[lawrawrrr]

Fair dos. I think adopting/fostering is a wonderful.

The only worry is that you can get really badly behaved children because of their past, and sometimes it'll be children with something wrong, which is why the parents felt like they couldn't cope, and I'm not sure how I would cope with that :/

[Shar]

The only worry is that you can get really badly behaved children because of their past, and sometimes it'll be children with something wrong, which is why the parents felt like they couldn't cope, and I'm not sure how I would cope with that :/

I think even if you had your own kids they'd have the potential to turn out really badly behaved too. It's all about the way you handle that kind of situation because you just would never know how something will turn out until you face it.

[lawrawrrr]

I think even if you had your own kids they'd have the potential to turn out really badly behaved too. It's all about the way you handle that kind of situation because you just would never know how something will turn out until you face it.

yeah but if they did then it'd be your fault, bad parenting (most of the time) - some times adopted kids would have been treated so badly in the past and all they know is violence, for example.

[Shar]

yeah but if they did then it'd be your fault, bad parenting (most of the time) - some times adopted kids would have been treated so badly in the past and all they know is violence, for example.

I don't disagree with you. There's pros and cons to everything I suppose.

[lucaskf390]

Of course, when I get a stable life. Maybe 2, girl and boy.
Normally teenagers will say 'no', but in future this answer will change.

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[Gibs960]

Yeah but only if I have a stable relationship and job. And I also want to have lived life before I have kids.

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[Aiden]

yeslol

[Aaron]

At some point in my life yeah, when I'm settled down and comfortable. Want to enjoy my life first.

[Daltron]

Maybe with the right person but I hate kids ~.~