Parents - Seperated

la-ur-en · 27-01-2005, 10:40 PM

My parents spilt up when i was 4 years old, my dad found someone else and made a fresh start, same with my mum...
I used to get so upset about it, i would cry all the time, 'cause when i was about 4 or something, i'd have to stay with one at diffrent times, and i didn't know what was happening, so i was confused, but now that i look back on it, it all worked out for the best, 'cause i would be even more depressed if they didn't, cause there would be arguements and fall outs, and that would be the worst type of atmosphere to live in...
The only experienced advice i could give is, Be strong, look ahead, don't let what HAS happned come in the way of what COULD happen (aka. Dont look back at your misfortunes, look forward to your dreams)

AngJum · 27-01-2005, 10:45 PM

Aww la-ur-en, sorry to hear that. But you are absoultly right - think of the future and don't let the pass make you down

Thanks for making me feel better hun! I will keep that in mind

Arcanum · 31-01-2005, 09:14 AM

Originally Posted by Scripted

I think my dad's girlfriend is pregnant, bobba, I dont want them to start their own family. My dad is an old man! They are too old to have bloody kids.
If they have a kid, im leaving home and finding a new life somewhere else... like the bush or something. or maybe I should steal my dad's boat and sail somewhere for a while. I dont want to have step brothers or sisters, thats all just one big sham. It shows how much they dont care, but i was on the boat with my dad this weekend, and one of my dads friends was there as well, he goes "You might have a step brother soon sam", my dad looked at him shocked like it was some sort of secret that he had revealed. Maybe that's why my dads girlfriend is in england, whilst my dad is in New Zealand. Then my dad tried to make it into a joke, and said all this stuff.... yeah.
anyway, I need suggestions on where I should go. I dont want to live here anymore, I want to fly somewhere... I thought of stealing my dads boat, but that would be too dangerous. I want to start a new life, Like he did dammit.

I really suggest talking to him and knowing all the facts before doing something as drastic as what you speak.

**GommeInc** · 31-01-2005, 04:53 PM

I have a friend, who's blood dad was the 3rd or so father his mum had.

His mum has had about 5 husbands and my friend has had 9 or so grandparents! I really feel like he is missing having a real proper father, but you cannot say anything as he might find you nosey (which he will)

Mined · 31-01-2005, 04:56 PM

Its great that you are expressing yourselves please carry on

**GommeInc** · 31-01-2005, 05:03 PM

It upsets me seeing my friend have so many parents but it is funny that he see the funny side!

MORE PRESENTS AT CHRISTMAS and Birthdays

AngJum · 31-01-2005, 11:23 PM

Presents?! I don't care about presents, presents can bring you happyness, maybe just for a couple of weeks then you get bored of the presents. If my mum and dad were together my happyness would last a life time

It's never ever the same

Butcher11 · 01-02-2005, 01:13 AM

My Dad left when I was 12, and since it was my mom, me and my sister. Howver, sadly my mom passed and now I don't live with either, but it's ok I guess, life goes on, and I still ahve my sister, and I have a dad in again just not my bilogical one. And I can trust him and confide in him

Mined · 08-02-2005, 09:37 PM

I think that there is nothing we can do about it,
but i do think that when they sign the marriage certificate, then that should be it, you have signed and agreed to all.
But its not like that anymore.

Butcher11 · 09-02-2005, 08:47 PM

No, and when they divorce, I sometimes wonder if they even think of their kids :rolleyes:

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