This girl I fancy in class...

[la-ur-en]

Okay, first of all...
What to DO -
Stop giving her presents - It will make you look as if you are desperate, maybe just a wee card, and a hug doesnt hurt anyone.

Stop asking her out - Okay, i'm a girl so i should know, she is playing hard to get, it's a girls game, what you have to do, is when she says no, back off for about a day, then the next day, go up to her and just start talking as if you are friends again, she definetly wont want to lose you as a friend!

Look presentable - Okay, so people always say 'wear what you're comfortable in' well, this time, wear what you're comfortable in, but, instead of wearing the ripped jeans, or the muddy trackies, try washing and ironing them, she will know that you are not some grubby pup and that you are a mature 'man'.

Feel confident - Whatever you do DONT shy away and DONT act over confident, you will either look:
a) as if you can't handle a serious relationship
or
b)as if your a 'playa' and you are just using her.
Instead, try being a bit of both, if she says something funny, laugh, don't stare at her, and don't make fun of her, laugh. Usually, if you laugh at a joke, the ice is broken, and it's easier to take to one another, if you don't she will get bored and go find someone who is more 'humouris'

Body language - Okay, this is quite hard, try copying how she looks, if shes tilted on one leg, you tilt on one of your legs, but if she folds her arms, its time for you to stop copying her, and lean into her a bit, whatever you do, don't face each other face on, kind of slant your bodys together, that way, it shows your comfortable. Try and keep eye contact with everything she is saying, and once in a while look at her lips, it will show your interested, and well, i think you should know why you are looking at her lips.
If you lose eye contact, she might feel as if you are trying to dodge her, and she will lose interest in you. If she loses eye contact, try putting your hand on her shoulder and say something funny or compliment her.

What to say - well, you have to plan out the first thing you say, then it will all come to you what to say once you have said the first words, don't say anything cheesey, say 'hey, how are ya?' then ask her what she done yesterday and what she is doing tonight, even if it is something that you find boring like dancing, act interested, tell her that if she ever has a show you will be there!

Compliment her - Don't just speak to her, she might be worried incase she looks awful, so instead, say 'i love the way your hair is today' but don't say 'theres something diffrent about your hair, it looks nicer' that will make her think that you didn't like the way her hair was last time!

What NOT to do -
Dont follow her - She will think that you are a weird person, and, what will also go through her mind is, 'thank god i didn't go out with him, he wouldn't give me any space' so if you talk to her when you see her in the hall or something, don't go searching for her!

Dont pull her away(friends) - What a girl hates most is being pulled away from her friends, if she is with them, don't drag her away just so that you can talk to her alone, try talking to her friends, that way, it will ease her mind, so she will know what you wont split her up from her friends if you did go out.

(boyfriends) - don't try and split her and her boyfriend up, if she doesn't like him she will soon dump him, for now, just do some 'unharmful flirting' don't flirt like mad, just act like she is your friend, that way, she will know that you are there for her, if you keep clinging she will think you are an idiot who needs to get a life, because you are jepordising her relationship, if you are to spaced, she will think that you didn't like her as a friend, and so, wont want to go out with you, as you aren't still communicating. She will also think you have lost interest, and have gone off her just because she is going out with someone, what she really wants is for you to stay her friend, she will need a friend if she has problems, and being good friends is better than not being friends at all!

Call her names - Do NOT call her any type of name that you think will offend of her, if she takes something that you say offencively just say 'i didn't mean it like that, i meant ect ect(explain what you meant). If you are offencsive towards her she will think you are immature little boy, and she wouldn't be bothered about you.

Pass her notes about 'us' - Whatever you do, don't pass her notes in class, if a teacher catches you, she will find it REALLY embarassing, so, instead say 'i need to talk to you after class' this way she wont get embarssed if the teacher catches you sending something to her!
^Tip^ - if you are going to pass a note, ask to borrow her rubber, then, wrap the note around it before returning it, this way, it is camouflaged!


Good luck, if she really likes this guy, and there is no possible way that they will split up, then just stay friends, if you get interested in another girl, don't lose your friendship, as she obviously still wants you as a friend!

[Jacko2kn3]

I disagree with some things lauren, but I will ****yse tomorrow as I am tired |-)

[Mentor]

should i be taking notes :blink:

[P_R_I_N_C_E_S_S*L_E_X_Y]

u g2 get 2 kno her n b m8s wiv her thts wot happened wiv me ryt this guy (now my best m8) kept askin me out n i kept sayin no but nicely n we became really gd m8s n i didnt fancy him wen he was askin me out n now we r best m8s n i fancy him n we went out n it didnt work sadly but if ya ur m8s wiv her b4 u go out wiv her at least if u brake up ur still gna b gd m8s!!

i guess if u luv sum1 enuff as a m8 n b their best m8 ull luv them as more than tht u just have 2 giv it tym ull c it will work out the way u want it sooner or l8r xx

[P_R_I_N_C_E_S_S*L_E_X_Y]

Okay, first of all...
What to DO -
Stop giving her presents - It will make you look as if you are desperate, maybe just a wee card, and a hug doesnt hurt anyone.

Stop asking her out - Okay, i'm a girl so i should know, she is playing hard to get, it's a girls game, what you have to do, is when she says no, back off for about a day, then the next day, go up to her and just start talking as if you are friends again, she definetly wont want to lose you as a friend!

Look presentable - Okay, so people always say 'wear what you're comfortable in' well, this time, wear what you're comfortable in, but, instead of wearing the ripped jeans, or the muddy trackies, try washing and ironing them, she will know that you are not some grubby pup and that you are a mature 'man'.

Feel confident - Whatever you do DONT shy away and DONT act over confident, you will either look:
a) as if you can't handle a serious relationship
or
b)as if your a 'playa' and you are just using her.
Instead, try being a bit of both, if she says something funny, laugh, don't stare at her, and don't make fun of her, laugh. Usually, if you laugh at a joke, the ice is broken, and it's easier to take to one another, if you don't she will get bored and go find someone who is more 'humouris'

Body language - Okay, this is quite hard, try copying how she looks, if shes tilted on one leg, you tilt on one of your legs, but if she folds her arms, its time for you to stop copying her, and lean into her a bit, whatever you do, don't face each other face on, kind of slant your bodys together, that way, it shows your comfortable. Try and keep eye contact with everything she is saying, and once in a while look at her lips, it will show your interested, and well, i think you should know why you are looking at her lips.
If you lose eye contact, she might feel as if you are trying to dodge her, and she will lose interest in you. If she loses eye contact, try putting your hand on her shoulder and say something funny or compliment her.

What to say - well, you have to plan out the first thing you say, then it will all come to you what to say once you have said the first words, don't say anything cheesey, say 'hey, how are ya?' then ask her what she done yesterday and what she is doing tonight, even if it is something that you find boring like dancing, act interested, tell her that if she ever has a show you will be there!

Compliment her - Don't just speak to her, she might be worried incase she looks awful, so instead, say 'i love the way your hair is today' but don't say 'theres something diffrent about your hair, it looks nicer' that will make her think that you didn't like the way her hair was last time!

What NOT to do -
Dont follow her - She will think that you are a weird person, and, what will also go through her mind is, 'thank god i didn't go out with him, he wouldn't give me any space' so if you talk to her when you see her in the hall or something, don't go searching for her!

Dont pull her away(friends) - What a girl hates most is being pulled away from her friends, if she is with them, don't drag her away just so that you can talk to her alone, try talking to her friends, that way, it will ease her mind, so she will know what you wont split her up from her friends if you did go out.

(boyfriends) - don't try and split her and her boyfriend up, if she doesn't like him she will soon dump him, for now, just do some 'unharmful flirting' don't flirt like mad, just act like she is your friend, that way, she will know that you are there for her, if you keep clinging she will think you are an idiot who needs to get a life, because you are jepordising her relationship, if you are to spaced, she will think that you didn't like her as a friend, and so, wont want to go out with you, as you aren't still communicating. She will also think you have lost interest, and have gone off her just because she is going out with someone, what she really wants is for you to stay her friend, she will need a friend if she has problems, and being good friends is better than not being friends at all!

Call her names - Do NOT call her any type of name that you think will offend of her, if she takes something that you say offencively just say 'i didn't mean it like that, i meant ect ect(explain what you meant). If you are offencsive towards her she will think you are immature little boy, and she wouldn't be bothered about you.

Pass her notes about 'us' - Whatever you do, don't pass her notes in class, if a teacher catches you, she will find it REALLY embarassing, so, instead say 'i need to talk to you after class' this way she wont get embarssed if the teacher catches you sending something to her!
^Tip^ - if you are going to pass a note, ask to borrow her rubber, then, wrap the note around it before returning it, this way, it is camouflaged!


Good luck, if she really likes this guy, and there is no possible way that they will split up, then just stay friends, if you get interested in another girl, don't lose your friendship, as she obviously still wants you as a friend!

i cnt imagine how long it took u 2 write all of tht but neways yeh thts wot u gta do!!!!!!

Edited by Jacko2kn3: please do NOT double post, simply edit your previous post by clicking the edit post button

[Sabu]

On the outside, people in my class probaly think that i'm an ugly, horrible little creep. But on the inside i'm a big friendly giant

[KickerFliper]

The Big Friendly Green Giant
Who Grows Sweet Corn?

[Jacko2kn3]

It's the Jolly Green Giant, not The Big Friendly Green Giant.

[Ciaran]

Perfect advice, just adding to that try to be convident but trey avoiding friends when your with a girl, mates bring out the bad side of you

[Evil]

lol strange ideas people get