Help me... Please

[Lord_Gig]

I'm deeply sorry for your loss

My best friend died from leukemia when i was 15, I know it's not atall the same sitiuation but i just want you to know, you will feel bad for a few weeks/months but things do get better. You will realise that she has gone to a better place and life does go on, one persons influence on another persons life is great, especially if you were in love with them, but you will find someone else to fill the void in your heart (sounds way to cheesy ).

Once again i'm very sorry for your lost

[Metric.]

i really don't want to say "i'm sorry for your loss", because that won't bring her back, but that's all i can really say.

life goes on, you'll always remember her and she'll always be in your heart.

[---MAD---]

I am sorry for what has happened. The best thing to do is treasure the happy moments and slowly pick yourself up and start moving on. What you might want to do is keep somethings that you and heard enjoyed, maybe a nice photo, a T-shirt she loved or something like that, to remind you of her and her happy times with you and the love you shared .

Once again I am sorry for your loss. Going through what you are going through is unimaginable as I have not gone through it and I hope not to go through it any time soon.

[Jackie Jack™]

I am sorry for what has happened. The best thing to do is treasure the happy moments and slowly pick yourself up and start moving on. What you might want to do is keep somethings that you and heard enjoyed, maybe a nice photo, a T-shirt she loved or something like that, to remind you of her and her happy times with you and the love you shared .

Once again I am sorry for your loss. Going through what you are going through is unimaginable as I have not gone through it and I hope not to go through it any time soon.

Nice =P i know it might be painful but if you were really close with the family maybe spend the night ( or alot of time ) over there with them and you can comfort eachother..
And another thing you could get a pic of you and her or like a close item and keep it by your bedside

[Bun]

Dude... sorry to hear that. She sounded amazing, I can't possibly even imagine the pain you must be going through right now, I really am sorry for your loss.
The only thing I will say is that, she wouldn't have wanted you living your life in misery. She would have wanted you to be happy, I know it will be difficult but life moves on .

[Tbh]

Dont wanna break up all this fuss, but someones gotta say it..LIAR.

Damn i hate you tbh..
you unsympathetic *******!

Nate i know how you feel tbh,
but i hope it will work out in the end
Sarah was awesome and i know how much you loved her..
but as most people including myself have said..
it will take time but you will get over it «3

[luke-p]

Dont wanna break up all this fuss, but someones gotta say it..LIAR.

Got any proof of that?

If not then **** off and don't post you ****... Posting on a forum is obviously his last resort because he is upset and he doesnt want attention he just wants to keep his mind off the hurt!

I'm sorry for what has happend, even know you feel like you will never get over it, you will eventually... It just might take some time

[Cwmbran]

Well, I've heard that to get over a loved one is just to move on with your life. They say that's what your loved one would want. So, I think you should just live life one day at a time. It's hard to cope without her. But just give it a try. I'm not a fan of this advice like move on with your life, but it's what I've hear.d I say live life on day at a time. Don't forget about her, but don't be sad because she'll always be with you.

I'm moving on slowly, it will obviously hurt for the time being but ergh I can't help thinking that if I had been there for her when she said she needed time alone this would not have happened.

I send my condolences (sp?)
Sorry to hear for your loss, I can't imagine the pain and heartache you are going through.

Thank you, just as people have said I'll get over it eventually but she will also be in my heart.

I'm deeply sorry for your loss

My best friend died from leukemia when i was 15, I know it's not atall the same sitiuation but i just want you to know, you will feel bad for a few weeks/months but things do get better. You will realise that she has gone to a better place and life does go on, one persons influence on another persons life is great, especially if you were in love with them, but you will find someone else to fill the void in your heart (sounds way to cheesy ).

Once again i'm very sorry for your lost

I'm sorry to hear about your friend, I have lost many people that were close to me but it has never hurt as much as loosing her, I still love her.

i really don't want to say "i'm sorry for your loss", because that won't bring her back, but that's all i can really say.

life goes on, you'll always remember her and she'll always be in your heart.

I know nothing will bring her back, and I really did not expect so many replies from this many people.
Good luck to you.

I am sorry for what has happened. The best thing to do is treasure the happy moments and slowly pick yourself up and start moving on. What you might want to do is keep somethings that you and heard enjoyed, maybe a nice photo, a T-shirt she loved or something like that, to remind you of her and her happy times with you and the love you shared .

Once again I am sorry for your loss. Going through what you are going through is unimaginable as I have not gone through it and I hope not to go through it any time soon.

Thats a nice idea, I have a few photos I really like of her and her green top she always wore well not always but most of the time, I'll try and get that.
I hope nobody has to go through anything like this especially around this age, thank you.

Dude... sorry to hear that. She sounded amazing, I can't possibly even imagine the pain you must be going through right now, I really am sorry for your loss.
The only thing I will say is that, she wouldn't have wanted you living your life in misery. She would have wanted you to be happy, I know it will be difficult but life moves on .

She was and still is, and your right she wouldn't want me living life in misery it'll take time but I'll be over it, thank you.

Nate i know how you feel tbh,
but i hope it will work out in the end
Sarah was awesome and i know how much you loved her..
but as most people including myself have said..
it will take time but you will get over it «3

Thank you for being there Jord, you've been a great help and well it's not over yet is it.

Posting on a forum is obviously his last resort because he is upset and he doesnt want attention he just wants to keep his mind off the hurt!

I'm sorry for what has happend, even know you feel like you will never get over it, you will eventually... It just might take some time

Posting her death on the forum was my last resort, I've dealt with a lot of deaths in my time and this one has hurt the most, as it would because she is my girlfriend, I have found posting on the forums has taken my mind off things even if I'am posting about her, I spouse it is helping in some way.

I will get over it eventually, but I will not forget her I will always love her and nobody can compare to her. Thank you.

[Bomb-Head]

I'm sorry for your loss - at least now she isn't in pain anymore

I still don't belive you.

Please, have some respect :rolleyes:.

[Ostinato]

I don't know where to post this in relationships or here.

Well... I'm crying writing this, and you guys are the last resort ive turned too.

I'm just going to be blunt with this as I don't know how else to put it.
My girlfriend who I love so much (Im 17 so dont give me ******** about I dont know what love is) has passed away. She had been ill for the past week and she sufferd from breathing problems she passed away in her sleep.

And I just don't want this pain, I don't know how to stop it. Other people in my life have died but nobody that meant as much to me as she did.

I know people will say theres others out there, but I need her.
I had never felt the way I felt and still do about her I truly love her and I told her that I would never stop loving her which I wont.

I have no idea what to do I have turned to my friends, turned to my parents spoken to hers and i just have no idea what to do.

So im going to stop there as its taken me like an hour to type this because i cant stop crying.

Thank you for reading.

EDIT: And before some of you **** heads say that im looking for attention you can all go **** yourselves.

I give you my sincere condolences. I'd like to apologise for not posting sooner but have been busy and only saw the thread now you brought it to my attention.

I'd like to say I have a lot of respect for you for having the guts to post here about it. It seems you have tried all the things you can think of to help you get over this grief and hopefully posting here for some friendly advice might be useful to you.

Out of my own experience the only thing I can tell you that is gonna help you get over it - is time. Trust me. Right now you will be feeling so bad and as though everything just isn't worth it etc. It is completely understandable as when you do lose someone it is completely natural to mourn and go through several stages of grief as you clearly are. All I can say though, is that from my own personal experience time really does help.

No-one is ever expecting you to just one day wake up and forget about your girlfriend and no longer love her. I know that close people to, me such as one of my best friends, who I have lost are always going to mean something special and have a place in my heart. I think about them every single day of my life in one way or another.

At the moment I presume it's all still pretty fresh on your mind and it still will be for the next couple of weeks. There is no denying at all that your going to face a difficult struggle over the next few days and weeks. However, if you can overcome it, it really will make you a much stronger and better person and will also prepare you for just about anything life can throw at you.

As it is still quite fresh to you the pain and hurt is going to be at it's maximum right now - hence all your crying and upset. It is completely normal and understandable so don't worry about it. Even if you think your way of grief is a bit strange or anything - just don't worry as everyone really does cope with things like this in their own way.

There is also no point punishing yourself and making it even worse by thinking of things over and over and wishing you where there. Unfortunately what's done is done and you can no longer change that. Therefore, rather than beating yourself up over the past and what you could have done - you should focus on what you can do now to help you get over your grief but ensure you always have a place for your girlfriend.

I definitely recommend, like suggested by MAD and others, perhaps making a wee shrine or something... It really is helpful even to just have a wee box of stuff to help provoke your memories and help remember your girlfriend. Just stuff like photos of you and her together, just her etc.

You will probably be able to see your girlfriend before she is buried/cremated in her coffin and say a proper goodbye. Just think about some stuff you maybe wanna say to her, as although she is not here in lifeform to hear it - I promise you just letting out stuff thatyou've got to say and reassuring her that you will always love her will make you feel better.

I really do hope you get through this mate and I promise you - if you do it seriously will help develop you as a person and make you a much stronger guy. If you ever need someone to talk to I really do suggest going to your parents, friends, family friends, neighbours or even phoning up a help line such as childline. Also, I am always here for a chat if you ever wanna drop me a wee PM and can hook you up with some numbers for confidential chat and help lines.

Dont wanna break up all this fuss, but someones gotta say it..LIAR.

I still don't belive you.

Earthquake nobody actually cares about you. We do not actually care whether you believe it or not. Your sitting here trying to provoke some sort of turn against the guy claiming it's fake and all. You have no reason at all to say so apart from the fact you are an immature little imbecile who needs to get a grip of reality and grow up. I seriously suggest you take a look at yourself and your posts within this thread. I seriously have no respect for you in the slightest - and nor does anyone else who has posted in this thread going by their reaction towards you.

Fair enough you are entitled to believe he is lying, but why post about it? Your doing nothing but adding fuel to the fire and make it worse. If you think it's a load of crap and don't wanna read about it then you know exactly what to do - ignore the thread or log off... and with a bit of luck don't log back on again. To be honest, the sort of posts you are making in this thread simply aren't welcome and it shows the people who really do contribute to Habbox's community and care for other members of it.