Online RelationShips - What's Your Say?

[Mentor]

Online friends, sure. But i don't really thing a real relationship can exist purely online, sure a real relationship can happen with someone you met online or were originally friends with online. But until it moves in to the real world, it i'snt a real relationship in my view.

[buttons]

Well I think that if you meet online, get to know her through msn and that but dont go out with her/him until you've met him/her irl and spent a bit of time with them. Also I just want to say, if they live really far dont bother. At first you will want to but then you just get annoyed and give up.

Yes, this is the only time I find it acceptable. When you meet someone online, yeah you may like them but if you decide to start dating before you meet it's just ****** up :/ I'd rather meet someone before deciding on my feelings anyway, if I was to meet them first and then continue meeting them afterwards I think that'd be the only time it would be acceptable to have found a relationship online. I don't think there is anything harmless with flirting online, I'm sure a lot of us do it

[Wahey]

Yes, this is the only time I find it acceptable. When you meet someone online, yeah you may like them but if you decide to start dating before you meet it's just ****** up :/ I'd rather meet someone before deciding on my feelings anyway, if I was to meet them first and then continue meeting them afterwards I think that'd be the only time it would be acceptable to have found a relationship online. I don't think there is anything harmless with flirting online, I'm sure a lot of us do it

Yeah, me and Jen are meeting up at T in the Park next year and then we're getting married


I agree with what the guy said Jen quoted

[buttons]

we could meet this yr at aviemore > n then get married k

[Wahey]

Wouldn't you prefer to get married in King Tuts tent?

[GrandTheftAudio]

I don't mind it if it's other people. I wouldn't do it myself though, I've had my fun and at the end of the day you have to move on. It makes me laugh though when you're playing some game and some random guy's like "will u be my gf???" errrr no.

[kuzkasate]

Yes, this is the only time I find it acceptable. When you meet someone online, yeah you may like them but if you decide to start dating before you meet it's just ****** up :/ I'd rather meet someone before deciding on my feelings anyway, if I was to meet them first and then continue meeting them afterwards I think that'd be the only time it would be acceptable to have found a relationship online. I don't think there is anything harmless with flirting online, I'm sure a lot of us do it

Yh but mostly you get noobs like *snogs* *"Bobbas"* and then pretend to have some e-life which is quite scary...

[Skaboy15]

I can't see the point in online relationships, because I don't believe you can have the same feelings for someone you've never met, compared to the feelings you have for someone that you have met in real life.

That's kind of hypocritical of me as if I talk to me people online that live outside of Essex (nothing silly like Manchester, or even another country...) I sometimes get attached to them and really want to be with them But I know it won't work out, not at my age, so I don't let myself get that attached.

[Pixet]

I don't really see the point okay I might sound like a hypocrite too but I know what I'm thinking.
There's a guy who said he loved me more than anyone else, "he hates his parents" etcetc. but we had only spoken online but for ages we both said in the summer we should meet up. He spent apparently £500 (LOL) on train and hotel tickets, anyway we met and he was lovely that was that.

But I think habbo e-dates are a joke.
Like someone said, flirting online is no big deal because chances are you'll have stopped talking to that person in a few years, maybe months. I could rant on but I want to watch Space Chimps

[Hollyish]

I went out with a girl in Wales once but we did actually meet up a fair bit until I couldn't be bothered

didn't know you went out with Bef

tbh you CAN make an online/long-distance relationship work, but i wouldn't personally do it myself.