Internet b/f's and g/f's

[Rebecca]

Yeh wats the point.. i think it is silly. i eman some one comes up to you and says your hot. i mean i kno i say that to my m8s as a joke. but some stranger.. its just creepy.

[Owen]

'tis cause they're desprate

Kay, desperation then
LOLOLOLOL!

[Kannae]

internet dating is idiotic. I think its for mainly desperate people, or people who are worried about their apperance but confident about their personality. Why have an internet date? if they don't like you and your 'packaging' then they are sad and you should get over it.

[kasi]

is desperation even a WORD

[Owen]

Yer
Well since i last heard whicjh i think was 100 odd years ago
LOLOLOL!

[kasi]

LOLOLOL OOKAY THENN

[ASHFELT]

Do you think internet b/f's and g/f's are good or bad?
Explain why you think this.

whats the point you might not meet and its not real love

[Crying-Angel]

Do you think internet b/f's and g/f's are good or bad?
Explain why you think this.

i dont think its good or bad really, you just cant help who you fall for...

Its a bit stupid going out with someone you dont know...
Youre never going to see them so whats the point.

theres nothing to say you wont see them, ive met ppl off the net before (only ppl i trust 100%)

I think having an internet ''relationship'' is silly. Basically because
1) The person might not be who you think they are if you've never seen them before.
2) There's like a 10% chance that you will see them in real life.
3) Usually they're just after furni (If they're on habbo)

1) ever heard of a webcam?
2) depends on the person, i know that me n matt are gonna meet up in the future... ive promised him that n i dont break promises to the ppl i love.
3) ummm no.

Good. In the sense I have one.
And their great companions. They help you through tough times. They're just like real life ones, except you might not see them in reality, Althought that is a possiblity. So I'm all for them. =]

i agree, just because they cant be physicly there they are still there for you emotionally, n yea if u have been together a long time n u do trust eachother u may meet up ^_^

to true
Plus loads off people make fun off you saying stuff like:
Ha Ha, i bet you cant get one in real life and all the rest.
Friends are better

1) i could get one in rl if i wanted, but im not gonna settle for second best just because its more "conveiniant"
2) why should you care what ppl think, if u love the person then nothing should come between that.

Its quite sad really lol, If you can't get a bf/gf in real life so your going tio hook up with some 40 year old creep?

ok let me ask you this.... are you sum 40 yr old creep? i guess not... then whats to say that everyone else whos on the net is a 40 yr old creep?! it is a small percentage that actully are like that.

Perverts.
Enough said.

same as i said to the above post...

it is stupid and pointless and a lil bit sad

your opinion but people cant help who they fall for...

You're all being stereotypical.
''They're all perverts or whatever''
They're not. Jesus. Wake up and smell the coffee

exactly.

haveing friends on the internet is normal, but i dont realy see much point in bf/gf as chances are youd never meat them, plus on the intenet i dont realy think you can get to know someone well enogh "/

actully the chances on meeting them isnt small if you really do love them, ive met up with guys on the net?

HmMmM... its a bit 50/50. The only thing is people get a little too hooked on to the relationship like omg I love you and stuff and when it leads to that it more likely to lead to meeting up which isnt very wise.

omg everyone seems to have this perception that everyone online is a pervert or sumthing... if you have seem sumone on cam, talked to them over the phone, known them a long time, have told ur parents, taken a few mates along, the chances are tht things WILL be ok if u meet them. its not likly u will meet up with a pervert, because im sure you would have better jusgement than that...

It was in a news paper that over 300 odd chilren since 2001 have gone missing after trying to meet up with there internet b/f or g/f.

yes but they will not have been playing it safe when meeting them, they prob met up in sum secluded place, didnt tell parents, didnt take noone ect...

It is quite sad, although I have nothing against someone that has one. Reasons;

1. The person you are dating could actually be a 70 year old paedophile.
2. It gives people the impression you are unable to get a gf/bf in real life.
3. It makes you look really desperate.
4. You are never going to meet up with them anyway.
5. Even if you do, you might get a nasty surprise.
6. I cannot remember what I was going to write here.

1) i wouldnt meet sumone i havent talked to over the phone and seen on cam... i have to be 100% sure that they are who they say..
2) i can, but i dont want to settle for sumone over matt because of conveiniance and i dont particully give a **** what ppl think about that.
3) im not desperate at all, im just with the guy who i want to be with there is nothing wrong with that, also i dont care what ppl think about it.
4) bs - how the hell u know that?!
5) true but not likly if ur safe about it...

why do people go out with people on the internet and not just be friends with them?

For most people its for Furni, just for the crak or just cause there desperate. :s

then you forget about the ppl who have fallen for sumone online, its hard to refuse feelings like that for sumone...

'tis cause they're desprate

thats abit harsh and general... your thinking of them ppl on habbo who sell themselves... you aint even giving a tort to the ppl who actully do care about eachother who are in an online relationship...

Yeh wats the point.. i think it is silly. i eman some one comes up to you and says your hot. i mean i kno i say that to my m8s as a joke. but some stranger.. its just creepy.

again, its not always like that... me n matt were good friends for a long time before we got together, he helped me through really hard things, hes the reason i even get up on a morning and yes it may sound "sad" but hes the reason im living.

internet dating is idiotic. I think its for mainly desperate people, or people who are worried about their apperance but confident about their personality. Why have an internet date? if they don't like you and your 'packaging' then they are sad and you should get over it.

its not idiotic... im not an idiot, im not desperate, im not worried about my appearence, i am confident in my personalitty. ppl do like my "packaging" -_- darlin i could get any guy i want, i just happened to want matt...

whats the point you might not meet and its not real love

you cant say that because real love if different to everyone.

[ASHFELT]

i dont think its good or bad really, you just cant help who you fall for...

theres nothing to say you wont see them, ive met ppl off the net before (only ppl i trust 100%)

1) ever heard of a webcam?
2) depends on the person, i know that me n matt are gonna meet up in the future... ive promised him that n i dont break promises to the ppl i love.
3) ummm no.

i agree, just because they cant be physicly there they are still there for you emotionally, n yea if u have been together a long time n u do trust eachother u may meet up ^_^

1) i could get one in rl if i wanted, but im not gonna settle for second best just because its more "conveiniant"
2) why should you care what ppl think, if u love the person then nothing should come between that.

ok let me ask you this.... are you sum 40 yr old creep? i guess not... then whats to say that everyone else whos on the net is a 40 yr old creep?! it is a small percentage that actully are like that.

same as i said to the above post...

your opinion but people cant help who they fall for...

exactly.

actully the chances on meeting them isnt small if you really do love them, ive met up with guys on the net?

omg everyone seems to have this perception that everyone online is a pervert or sumthing... if you have seem sumone on cam, talked to them over the phone, known them a long time, have told ur parents, taken a few mates along, the chances are tht things WILL be ok if u meet them. its not likly u will meet up with a pervert, because im sure you would have better jusgement than that...

yes but they will not have been playing it safe when meeting them, they prob met up in sum secluded place, didnt tell parents, didnt take noone ect...

1) i wouldnt meet sumone i havent talked to over the phone and seen on cam... i have to be 100% sure that they are who they say..
2) i can, but i dont want to settle for sumone over matt because of conveiniance and i dont particully give a **** what ppl think about that.
3) im not desperate at all, im just with the guy who i want to be with there is nothing wrong with that, also i dont care what ppl think about it.
4) bs - how the hell u know that?!
5) true but not likly if ur safe about it...

then you forget about the ppl who have fallen for sumone online, its hard to refuse feelings like that for sumone...

thats abit harsh and general... your thinking of them ppl on habbo who sell themselves... you aint even giving a tort to the ppl who actully do care about eachother who are in an online relationship...

again, its not always like that... me n matt were good friends for a long time before we got together, he helped me through really hard things, hes the reason i even get up on a morning and yes it may sound "sad" but hes the reason im living.

its not idiotic... im not an idiot, im not desperate, im not worried about my appearence, i am confident in my personalitty. ppl do like my "packaging" -_- darlin i could get any guy i want, i just happened to want matt...

you cant say that because real love if different to everyone.

you have many strong points

[Yayse]

Meh ^^ I don't think it really matters whereabouts person is, you don't have to be face to face to get to know someone, although it helps most of the time ;D I think its possible to fall for someone over the net, I know its happened to me twice.. I was with the same guy at least four times before it was over for good, and the second guy was probably my most serious relationship via teh web ^^ i ended it when i realised there was no chance in hell it was gonna work out.. ='[

As long as you know who this person is, you share interests and u genuinely like this guy/gal it doesn't matter if its over the web or not ^^ well thats my opinion which i'm entitled to so.. meh