ending of relationships

[Mrs.McCall]

How long were you together?

[FlyingJesus]

Personally I'd tell my friends that if the person who's dumped them can't see how perfect/pretty/funny/awesome they are, they aren't even worth any time or effort anyway.

But what if the partner was well out of their league then you'd be lying to your friends which isn't nice

Think how the africans live

Good for a laugh for 5 minutes I guess but not really a long term solution

go find some ladies!

Got a feeling he might not do that lol

Anyway enough making fun of people for one post, really the only solution is to keep yourself occupied as much as you can so you're not just sat inside thinking about them and getting upset, drugs and alcohol are a quick fix but they're not the greatest way to go about it. Dunno if you play football or anything but stuff like that's good because it means you're around lots of people (and more importantly for you obv: boys in shorts) and if it's something you enjoy you'll be concentrating on doing it well rather than thinking about *+*WhAt MiGhT hAvE bEeN*+*

If you were serious about trying to fix it all then best of luck to you, but if it doesn't work out then give it up and convince yourself that he's no longer the guy he was when you were together (which will be true if the relationship isn't working) or you'll only be damaging yourself more the longer you try to keep a sputtering flame alive

[HotelUser]

It depends on how long we were together, how fond I was of the other person. But at the crux of things I feel as if I've grown and adapted to having the other person in my life and by losing that person I still have strong feelings for them, but seeing them and talking to them is impossible because it brings back all the memories of what used to exist between us and how I miss it. Then, when you're the person who didn't end it and you see the counterpart person of the former relationship happy without you, whether they have no aspirations to converse with you at all or if they want to retain a friendship-- so you'd become a generic person on the sideline it's almost unbearable.

On top of all that there's also an acute paranoia where you're running through an infinite loop of all his or her friends being suspicious and fearing what has, or could, transpire between them. The transition from being in their circle of trust where they tell you everything, to where you're exposed to just a limited amount of information about them as well doesn't help this latter part at all.

[Jessicrawrr]

If i really wanted to be with the person, and was enjoying my relationship with them, i don't get over them easily, just try to not think about them, and talk to other girls/boys

[Samantha]

I've never been in a proper relationship to realise what to do. And the 2 normal relationships I had, I ended with them. I do remember though, that the 2nd person I was going out with cried. He also cried because he thought I was going to dump him.

[@K]

Not saying it's the right way to go about it, but if I really like the person I try my hardest to get back with them, and in the mean time go down a downward spiral by going out every night and get plastered. And on weekends head down to the coast with my mates, get smashed and try and pull to take my mind off of the girl I was with.

[flatface]

kidnap them and do a joseph fritzl on them

[immense]

all gone to plan

happy jake

[9y]

Try and get over it. To be honest its usually me getting bored of the girl so I am already over her. Except one which I still miss to this day x.x Blurrrghhh sad or what! x