Sex before marriage

[Zak]

That is not the issue though. If the male did not want to have sex with the girl without any protection he has that choice as well and I am sure there are many sensible males who would not in these circumstances. Responsibilty for conceiving a child is an equal thing. Males who do not accept this are abrigating their responsibilities unless they have been assured by the female that they are on the birth pill.

Ooo I can relate on this one. Personally, I hate wearing a condom.. haven't in years don't plan on it. There was a time not long back when she came off the pill for health reasons, I then refused to have sex with her until she was back on the pill. As that's where I feel safest. I don't trust condoms anyway..Waste of time and money. Only really good for one night stands which I've never had anyway - gota stay away from those STIs!

[HotelUser]

That is not the issue though. If the male did not want to have sex with the girl without any protection he has that choice as well and I am sure there are many sensible males who would not in these circumstances. Responsibilty for conceiving a child is an equal thing. Males who do not accept this are abrigating their responsibilities unless they have been assured by the female that they are on the birth pill.

Rosie if you read the post you quoted I said:

I think it's equally the male and female's fault. However females obviously hold all the power thereafter in terms of deciding to keep it or not, and things (duh-- it's in their bodies).

Getting pregnant = both their responsibility
Decisions (life/choice) after baby conceived = completely female's decision and male only has as much say as she gives him

[Shoe]

Personally I don't plan to have sex until I'm married with children ;|

How can you have children if you want them to be your own without having sex ?? lol

[Wig44.]

People in this thread may need to crouch, there is a chance that a joke may decapitate them as it flies over their heads.

Edited by Shar (Forum Moderator): Please do not post pointlessly, thanks.

[-:Undertaker:-]

That is not the issue though. If the male did not want to have sex with the girl without any protection he has that choice as well and I am sure there are many sensible males who would not in these circumstances. Responsibilty for conceiving a child is an equal thing. Males who do not accept this are abrigating their responsibilities unless they have been assured by the female that they are on the birth pill.

Indeed but like it or not, the outcome means the girl will suffer the most as she will carry the baby - because men and women are not the same despite the mad cultural drive for equality which can never be reached as shown by scenarios such as this, so the fault lays with the girl as well - infact perhaps more so, as the girl will be aware of the consquences of her act far more than the male who can simply wake up the next morning and leave.

..thus meaning her stupid acts should not be put upon the unborn baby.

[AgnesIO]

Married with children? you gtta have sex to have children, :L i get what you were saying though just thought i'd point the mistake out cos im a ***** like that.

FINK E WUZ JOKING!!!

Oh and Jesus doesn't need sex if he wants kids

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Can I be god parent to baby Zak? !!!


And I don't think my parents mind about Sex before marriage as long as I'm safe.

Last week I went to see my boyfriend and their last words before they went out were 'Don't do anything stupid x 2' 'I'll get you to doctors' 'There's durex in the cupboard' so I don't think they would mind but they don't want me pregnant and nor do I plan to be! !

Who's families keeps durex in the cupboard for their kids to take :p

[Zak]

FINK E WUZ JOKING!!!

Oh and Jesus doesn't need sex if he wants kids


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Who's families keeps durex in the cupboard for their kids to take :p

I thought that was God who impregnates virgins

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Lmao mine are in my top draw. I've never seen parent's keep condoms for their kids either!

[FlyingJesus]

Not that it's really the subject but God and Jesus are the same entity in Christian beliefs

And yeah I must have overestimated this forum when I thought people would actually get the joke lol oh dear come on people

[Narnat,]

Well, if you love someone and your not married it shouldn't stop you from having intercourse to show love and affection to your partner.

[Accipiter]

There's no point in marriage anymore, but I agree that you shouldn't have sex until you find the person you are truly in love with.