First of all, there aren't a lot of cultural differences. The food might be different, they might not speak English very well (try to learn French in France within' a few weeks, without having lessons) and maybe they only give two kisses on the cheek instead of three.
But are those the things that REALLY matter? No.
I think most people just fear the unknown. And because both sides fear it, they just try to avoid each other. That way no one will realy get to know one another and they just try to theorise on what they see from a distance.
F.e.
Say, me, a dutch girl, wants to move to Australia (which I'm planning on doing). I pack my things and plan to get a nice job there.
For some reason no one will hire me. So I have to stay at home and I'm not able to pay the rent because no one wants to hire me.
Suddenly, when I'm walking on the street, I hear someone say: "Those Dutch people are so lazy, they just stay at home and want to live of our taxes."
So is that the reason that no one hires me? Because all Dutch people are lazy? But if no one hires me, I have to stay at home and I'll prove that that position is correct.
Exactly. My best friend (from bosnia) is a muslim herself, but because she's not Turkish or w.e. people sometimes talk to her about muslims ruining the culture and stuff.
I think everyone has the right to live where he/she wants. Do you live in the US? If so, you have a lot of economical fugitives there, right? Have you ever had no money, no house, no food? I would also move to a country where I have more chances in life.
Exactly! There are some bad apples in every country, every culture, every religion. But if an American guy would blow up the Big Ben, would the English declare war against the US? Would they bomb New York to find a terrorist group there? Would they avoid American people because one of them might be THAT one might be a terrorist?
In France I see some people who do that too. I can speak a little bit French, but I was in a restaurant and there was a guy who tried to speak English to a waitress. She didn't understand him 'cause she only spoke French and just walked away waving madly. Don't you think that's a little bit rude?
It's the majority and/or the wealthy people who are the racists most of the time...
I've seen it the other way around, though.
There are some foreign 'gangs', who don't hang with white people.
My grandparents are Indonesian, but they almost didn't leave any traces on me, I'm a ginger (only without the freckles). And there was this girl, she was 1/4 Indonesian, and I had a fight with her over something really stupid. Suddenly she started calling me a racist. I didn't know her, she didn't know me. So I said to her that she had to come with me. My granparents were at some Indosian 'party' so I took her there. She apologised and we even discovered that we were related in some way.
Lmao, sorry for the long stories.
I really can't stand Bush.. Sorry, but the people who voted for him (AGAIN!) are .. (how can I say this politely?).. pretty unintelligent.![]()



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