I need help

[Rapidshare]

Penis problems? - Go to a GUM clinic.

Edited by Infectious (Trialist Forum Moderator): Please do not make pointless posts that have no relevance to the thread subject, thanks.

[blackops121]

Oh god. 'I'll leave it a little while and if she hasn't dumped me I'll go and beg her for sex'

You're the man in the relationship. Get an answer from her or leave her. Don't let her play her stupid games. If she absolutely refuses to talk about it then she isn't a girl you want to waste time on. If she says no (basically not sexually attracted to you) then there is no point in having a relationship with her, move on. Don't say 'it's only sex' because if there is no sex then she may as well be a friend and you both find other people to have sex with whilst maintaining a friendship with each other. You have no obligations to this girl!

But I love her, its not just about sex?

[Neversoft]

Well you came here looking for help. I gave you solutions to all your problems and gave you an example of how it can be much worse. Nothing else i can do for you other than tell you 3 words. Deal with it.

Dude, you're far too harsh. You don't know blackops in real life, you can't fully grasp the problems they are going through, so stop acting like it's so simple and your posts are the answers to everything. Everyone knows to talk to a teacher if they're getting bullied, everyone knows confronting your friends and relatives in a tough situation is a step forward, but things quite often aren't so simple. Sorry, but if I was suicidal and I read your posts I don't think they would help one bit. Love you, but you're not the Gandhi of Habbox. Sometimes your posts are far too insensitive and ignorant so just chill out.

[TheEclipse]

Go and see a doctor. It's done me a world of good.
Or, like others have said, call a hotline.

[ChickenFaces]

It may sound silly but suicide hot lines do more than just convince people to not jump off of the nearest building. Call them up, I'm sure they'd be happy to help you with anything you're feeling bad about. There's always someone willing to listen, even when it doesn't seem that way.

[blackops121]

My girlfriend dumped me today when I went to see her, .

Also I've told a friend about my situation and they are trying to help me.
Thanks for the help guys, I'll try not and take too extreme an action.

[Catzsy]

My girlfriend dumped me today when I went to see her, .

Also I've told a friend about my situation and they are trying to help me.
Thanks for the help guys, I'll try not and take too extreme an action.

Well what you suspected would happen has and now it has you can go through the natural stages of 'grief' over a broken relationship. It will take time but at least you know where you stand now. You probably think you will never feel any better but you will given time.

[blackops121]

Well what you suspected would happen has and now it has you can go through the natural stages of 'grief' over a broken relationship. It will take time but at least you know where you stand now. You probably think you will never feel any better but you will given time.

Thank you Catzsy, but I don't really know where I stand at the moment, Shes very confused at the situation and has not sure shes made the right decision or not, its kind of hurting me knowing shes crying over it cause she really doesn't know what to do.

[Stephen]

How old are you? Soz if already posted but I'm lazy

[Catzsy]

Thank you Catzsy, but I don't really know where I stand at the moment, Shes very confused at the situation and has not sure shes made the right decision or not, its kind of hurting me knowing shes crying over it cause she really doesn't know what to do.

I think you should be more concerned about yourself at the moment tbh. Breaking up with someone can be just as hard as being 'dumped'. You obviously had some good times together and I am sure he appreciates that. She needs time too.