Sex before marriage

[Richie]

Boys lie. No offience to any guys out there. They will say they love you, and want you, and only you. But, they don't. They just want a few seconds of pleasure. Plus, you don't truly know where he has been. You could get any type of diease that may lay dormat on them. My advice, if he truly loves you, he would marry you first. -Katie

Love is such a strong word. Personally if I dated a girl and she started yapping on about marriage I'd be a little scared. Without some sort of sexual intimacy technically they aren't your boyfriend / girlfriend, they are just a close friend. That makes me sound like a *** but at the end of the day if a girl said she wanted to "wait" I would wait until she's ready but if she said "I want to wait until marriage" I'd back up straight away, not because I'm a *** and want sex asap but because settling down is a huge step and is one of the scariest things anyone could do in life (imo).

[HotelUser]

Boys lie. No offience to any guys out there. They will say they love you, and want you, and only you. But, they don't. They just want a few seconds of pleasure. Plus, you don't truly know where he has been. You could get any type of diease that may lay dormat on them. My advice, if he truly loves you, he would marry you first. -Katie

Im guessing you're younger, or haven't had that good experiences with guys in the past. I honestly would say the opposite to what you said. I would have said I've seen a lot of girls who date boys as so they can be like the rest of their friends who have boyfriends - sort of a bragging right. There is one incredibly ditsy girl in my Global course last semester that comes to mind especially. Every time she opened her mouth it was always about boys boys boys. Relationship status hot tubs kissing, urgh. I know it doesn't apply to every situation but from what I've seen and in several current situations I can see, the girls of the relationship carry most of the weight and have the guys on a short leash. Jumping through hoops blindly quite really trying to please the girls and it's not really working out all that well!

Boys lie? Girls lie too, everybody lies. I think a lot of boys like to see their girlfriends as sweet and angelic and so it's really disheartening to see them lie and to have that idea of them be tarnished. I'm sure you could make a similar comparison about when your boyfriend lies, too.

What you said about a few seconds of pleasure, there are boys like that but again there are girls like that too. It's just not incredibly advertised or common. Also I don't think it's fair that you say all boys lie and just want a few minutes of sexual pleasure - not true at all. Yes most boys think about sex often, but girls think about sex too, and that doesn't mean our one and only objective is to try and have sex. A lot of us want to take things slow and make it special just like girls do. Most boys want to be in a relationship because they don't like being lonely, and because the other person genuinely makes them happy and means a lot to them. It's not sex sex sex.

[Zeptis]

All i have to say about sex before marriage is "HHEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEELL YES", well at an appropriate age of course, which would be eighteen.

[PaulMacC]

What you said about a few seconds of pleasure, there are boys like that but again there are girls like that too. It's just not incredibly advertised or common. Also I don't think it's fair that you say all boys lie and just want a few minutes of sexual pleasure - not true at all. Yes most boys think about sex often, but girls think about sex too, and that doesn't mean our one and only objective is to try and have sex. A lot of us want to take things slow and make it special just like girls do. Most boys want to be in a relationship because they don't like being lonely, and because the other person genuinely makes them happy and means a lot to them. It's not sex sex sex.

In addition to this boy's gain their sex drive fairly young (14/15) while girl's don't receive their sex drive until their early 20's.

[Rozi]

In addition to this boy's gain their sex drive fairly young (14/15) while girl's don't receive their sex drive until their early 20's.

WHAT lmao I definately know some girls who have a very healthy sex drive

[buttons]

In addition to this boy's gain their sex drive fairly young (14/15) while girl's don't receive their sex drive until their early 20's.

what the **** are you talking about, there is no limit to when you 'receive' a sex drive... I know both males and females with high and some with low. where you getting your sex ed from?

[ben]

In addition to this boy's gain their sex drive fairly young (14/15) while girl's don't receive their sex drive until their early 20's.

lmao where did you find that

[FlyingJesus]

Since when ??

so god put himself inside a virgin and he is his own son ? huh ??

One of the most basic Christian beliefs is that the Father, Son, and Holy Spirit are all one entity. Not making logical sense isn't really an issue when you're a god

Boys lie. No offience to any guys out there. They will say they love you, and want you, and only you. But, they don't. They just want a few seconds of pleasure. Plus, you don't truly know where he has been. You could get any type of diease that may lay dormat on them. My advice, if he truly loves you, he would marry you first. -Katie

And all girls hate sex and only ever do it because boys want to, right?

[Snooki]

my mum already knows she read my texts ARGH

[Snooki]

my mums aware i'm sexually active my dad would murder me though lol

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