Slitting Wrists

[Wootzeh]

IMO if you slit your wrists you're a complete ****.

[Rockstar]

I WILL NEVER DO IT AND NEVER WILL ASSWELL this girl in my class me and a mate where just slagging her off it quit funny but if you do it your well just crazy

[sarey]

Okay, opinions are aloud. But 'we' are not crazy. You wouldnt understand you people who arnt one of 'us'. You need to have selfharm to understand 'us'.

[Imagine]

IMO if you slit your wrists you're a complete ****.

just because people cut themselves doesnt mean they arent human. you wouldnt like it if someone started slagging you of because of something you couldnt help doing. people who suffer from self harming usually self harm because it helps to relieve any anger or help with depression.

it really annoys me how people **** you off as being "emo" if you self harm. many people who arent "emo" self harm.

[Heinous]

REGARDLESS OF ALL THAT CRAP YOU JUST WROTE.. YOU HACK AWAY AT YOUR WRISTS WHICH IS GAY ;llllll hello?!?! appreciate ur life... urm kids in africa die each day and you're there slicing and dicing ;p;llllll

Translates to me;

omg im a idiot who cant spell appreicateeee ur life m8 ppl r dyin in africa!111 ;llsaofsaspfas;;;

Idiot.

Grow up before you get into a discussion.

[sarey]

Okay emos are totally different to selfharmers, goths aswell, also, african people are unlucky/unfortunet, Selfharmers lives, (well most of them), are unfortunet too, because of the life they are going through, ect ect.
Okay changing subject now arnt we, well have been for a while, so lets go back onto the topic of slitting wrists, how? Hm.

[louder]

I suggest you dont do it..
But, blade from a sharpener works well.

[Ryan+Joe]

well at my school they get a coke can, stamp on it so you get the sharp edges and then slit slit slit!

[FlyingJesus]

Sorry, im 13, not 12. And im quite sure the message was how do you cut yourself, so why not give them the lecture on how to, and what to use?

Oh I'm so sorry, you're extra mature because of being 13. Also, the question implies that he simply didn't know what instruments people used.

I hid my selfharm for 3 years, i told no one at all, i didnt TELL my mom, she seen me do it, i should really get a lock for my door, hm, so anyway, you should really actually look up attetion seeking, when someones trying to hide something, thats actually the complete opposite,

No. In many suicide cases, no-one knew previously that the person was depressed. They conceal their self harm, but they still need attention. The reason they conceal it and don't tell anyone is because they're afraid of the consequences - don't want to be labelled as crazy, don't want people to know that they have problems, but nonetheless they need people to know.

you really dont understand selfharm at all, even if you have done that little thing to urself on purpose, you know nothing about selfharm, or you wouldnt be saying its attetion seeking, its a coping mechnism, some people dont even need a reason to do it, they just see a razor, and just destroy their body,

A coping mechanism yes, but it only works because it takes the form of a placebo. You know what that is? I'll give you a clue: it isn't just the name of a transvestite band.

you really dont understand selfharm sweetie, you should really learn more about it, or better yet, do it urself and feel how we feel.

I do understand it, I don't need to learn, I have done it myself and I know how people feel. Sorry to burst your bubble, "sweetie".

Asher, 'IM EMO, OH LOOK AT ME IM EMO, SO SLIT MY WRISTS N BLACK MY EYES' Soz, but i dont slit my wrists.And btw, 'flying', i aint no goth, i dont wear whitemakeup, and wearblack clothes, with whatever goths wear these days, i aint no emo/goth/punk/whatever. Im me thanks.

I love that last bit. Seems these days everyone wants to be "individual", no-one wants to be part of subcultures any more, yet you still say "we" when talking about self harmers, using the collective term as though every self harmer is part of some underground society.

Regardless of your 'opinions', i do not take notice of what you say, because those kids in Africa were born in a different unwealthy Country than us. Besides, I dont see them kids being abused emotionally/physically do you?

Umm.. yes? Kids out there are beaten, raped, sold for slavery, all sorts. Many Africans have to turn to prostitution from the age of 8 in the poorest areas, I'm willing to bet that nothing that bad has ever happened to you.

I have a choice, yes, but i choose to cut myself, instead of living in this crap life of mine, which may i say, sucks beyond question.
If you want to lecture about how fortunet i am, your wasting your time

You're still alive I see, so you're not doing very well. If you truly hated your life and really didn't want to live anymore, you'd actually kill yourself. It isn't that difficult, you're just a spoilt brat who gets "depressed" whenever things don't go your way. Grow up.

Okay, opinions are aloud. But 'we' are not crazy. You wouldnt understand you people who arnt one of 'us'. You need to have selfharm to understand 'us'.

One of us? So what I said above is true, you think self harm allows you to join some club, where no-one can understand you. Well let me tell you, you're wrong. People can still understand you. People will always know how to understand, and nothing that you can do will ever make you any more individual or original or mysterious than anyone else. This is the truth my dear, and it's not pleasant, but you should learn to live with it rather than trying to live with the lies that you know.

Selfharmers lives, (well most of them), are unfortunet too, because of the life they are going through, ect ect.

The life they are going through? You should read the books written by Dave Pelzer and other books like that, those people have it bad, they're abused for most, if not all, of their young lives, and it's all true stories. Oh and get this, these people don't self harm. They get on with it and live through. You maybe do bad at school, or don't get on with your parents, or get angry easily, whatever. You're allowed access to a computer with the internet, so obviously you're not being beaten black and blue every day, or raped by your own family, or subjected to fire and poisonous substances, or forced to eat your own vomit and faeces. Get over yourself, you're nothing special, you have no reason to hate life.

[sarey]

I read all the Dave Pelzer books, and yeah i felt sorry for him seeing of what his drunken sick mother did to him, but i REALLY do not care what people think of me selfharming, because its what ive been doing for over 4 years, and its apart of me. So say what you like, i wasnt abused physically, or sold for slavery, but thats just Africa for you hm? So, say what you want, i dont exactly care what you fools think of selfharming, it isnt emo, or goth, or suicidal. End off. Byebye. (No reason to reply to THIS post because i do not care whatsoever what your opinions on i, myself, and other people who selfharm. And further more, i am not a spoilt brat who cuts themselfs if things dont go my way, because i used to cut to express my feelings, now i just do it if i see a blade. People who cut themselfs and threaten their family members if they dont get their own way, their selfish spoilt idiotic brats.