Should I have sex with my girlfriend even though Im gay?

[y2kt]

Dude.. Don't have sex with her if you think you are gay. I don't think she would be too happy if she found out after having sex with you.

[FlyingJesus]

and lets face it, would she rather you tell her the truth and dump her or have sex with her and then find out it wasn't real and you wernt really that intrested.

If she's 13 too and is pressuring him for it I'd guess that she'd actually rather have it with a gay person than not have it at all. Mitchell, we have words for people like that here in England, but we also have a filter for those words.

[JackHb]

WTH? Thats illegal if he's 13!

Lol, i don't think many people care about the legal age limit anymore.

If your gay then why are you with her....if you don't like her then finish with her instead of stringing her a'long.

[@K]

[QUOTE=Typpi]u can have sex at the age of 14 in iceland.... land of ****** realy

Same as here in Spain

[iluvben]

[QUOTE=@K]

u can have sex at the age of 14 in iceland.... land of ****** realy

Same as here in Spain

Oh really ;] I'm going to Spain soon heh.

[Ostinato]

Don't have sex with her, it will be a huge mistake.

When you grow up, you hormones are crazy in your body, which causes a lot of teenagers to confuse their sexuality, from perhaps liking girls to boys or vise versa. Don't worry, this is most likely just a stage and the majority of teenagers go through it.

However, the fact you were already in a relationship with a girl, is a bit unfair and I think you should have ended the relationship and soon as you started having feelings for boys, but it's obviously too late for that.

Now that you have already strung her along making her think you still like her when you really have feelings for boys at the moment is bad enough, but the fact you have went and had intercourse with another person makes it even worse.

If you now have sex with her, your heart will definetly not be in it and it will most likely be a shambles as your not sexually attracted to girls at the moment. Also, I presume you will both be each others 'first' in sex? Well, I know that if I had my first time sex with someone whos heart wasn't in it and I found out they wern't actualyl even that attracted to me, I would be raging as it's not only immoral but it's unfair.

You should simply talk to her and tell her you think the relationship is perhaps rushing a bit too fast, or your just not looking for a relationship at the moment, and then sort your head out and decide what you really do like.

[Nemo]

I have. so your saying im not a person?
And why last year in school we learned about sex. They obviously want us to have it if they teach how to do it.

wen i was in year 5 ( i was ermmm 9 :s ) they tought us bout it, we watched videos but it dont mean they want us 2 have sex

[Zenzi]

No. You're miss-leading her. End the relationship so that she can get with someone that actually wants to be with her... Physically and mentally.

[foxyfox00]

Just put it off for a bit and think about it.
Yio have to decide or you will hurt her more by going along with being straight and not saying anything.
Good Luck

[Zenzi]

Lol, i don't think many people care about the legal age limit anymore.

If your gay then why are you with her....if you don't like her then finish with her instead of stringing her a'long.

Never the less, he's still underage and shouldn't be doing it. The girl could say anything.