So I kind of like this guy....

[Excellent2]

then what's the difference of being friends & being "boyfriend and girlfriend" only thing it does is make you look sad :S

With the girlfriend and boyfriend title comes a status, you know what I'm on about

[leah]

I sort of agree but I do think it's a bit pathetic in some respect. There is no harm inbeing friends but girlfriend and boyfriend? Come on.

yeh I agree
I think you can like someone online but id never go out with them if I had no plans to meet them.

[Con]

I have a feeling I know who this is about..

Anyway,
My own opinion is that it shouldn't happen.
Yes, you can grow to like someone, occasionally alot. But you shouldn't 'e-date'. Things will just get even more complicated. And all the 'living far away' complicates things even more.

I agree with some of the 'pathetic' comments, as like..you can't really love someone online? Unless you plan on meeting them in real and actually meet each other and talk. And then you know what each other looks like and is actually like. Remember, online you can fake yourself.
Online, I am a different person to in real life. Online, I'm alot more 'outspoken' and open with things. Whereas in real life, I'm REALLY shy. :rolleyes:
So yeah, you don't know someone properlly, until you meet them.

[scott]

I have a feeling I know who this is about..

Anyway,
My own opinion is that it shouldn't happen.
Yes, you can grow to like someone, occasionally alot. But you shouldn't 'e-date'. Things will just get even more complicated. And all the 'living far away' complicates things even more.

I agree with some of the 'pathetic' comments, as like..you can't really love someone online? Unless you plan on meeting them in real and actually meet each other and talk. And then you know what each other looks like and is actually like. Remember, online you can fake yourself.
Online, I am a different person to in real life. Online, I'm alot more 'outspoken' and open with things. Whereas in real life, I'm REALLY shy. :rolleyes:
So yeah, you don't know someone properlly, until you meet them.

Its cause you want him yourself i bet

[RedStratocas]

the question i always ask is would you break it off with him if you found some one else that you liked (and who liked you) in person? if youre committed to the online relationship, then youre going to subconsciously prevent yourself from meeting someone real. you'll give yourself excuses for not pursuing a real relationship, because you have someone online.

a real relationship is nothing like an online relationship. i have a girlfriend that i only see every few weeks (we met and dated in high school for 9 months before i went to college, but now she's still there and im 3 hours away) and i talk to her online and everything but its honestly not the same as being with her.

ive gone years without a girlfriend and had a good time. being single is fun too. you dont NEED a boyfriend. just have fun with friends. im not judging your e-relationship, but you seem to think that its a last resort for something that you dont need anyway.

[,Lexiilu]

I'm not dating anyone online, lol, I was just seeing how people react. And besides, as I've said before, I really like the person. So it's not just a last resort or anything. It's true feelings.

[LouisCollins]

Tbh, My views on internet dating is um, Stupid?, How can you have a relationship with somebody that you have no physical bond with other then seeing him say 3Times every 6Months, It wouldn't work, Yeah the relationship would last, But then you got to remember your MILES apart, So anything could be going on behind your back, Personaly i'd say don't do it but it's up to you completly!

[Middlesbrough]

The content in this thread clearly proves my point in the other thread that there is no such thing as 'e-love'.
Also reading through the threads I see why Tom (Favoroutism) helped you in the debate with e-dating.

[RedStratocas]

I'm not dating anyone online, lol, I was just seeing how people react. And besides, as I've said before, I really like the person. So it's not just a last resort or anything. It's true feelings.

if you just wanted to see how people would react, why would you tell us in the begining "nice comments only"? :S wouldnt mean comments be part of how people react?

[Favourtism]

The content in this thread clearly proves my point in the other thread that there is no such thing as 'e-love'.
Also reading through the threads I see why Tom (Favoroutism) helped you in the debate with e-dating.

Despite that so called hint it actually isnt me lol.... not saying who but you wont guess