How old is too old?

[.DnB]

'A moron' for stating my opinion, I literally don't know ANY mum that goes on games for ages on the computer when they have a very young DC... I mean please tell me what world ya living in? You obviously have not read me posts properly as half of what you said makes no sense as a reply to what I've said..

---------- Post added 29-04-2013 at 06:23 PM ----------

You're also ignoring that there aren't only newborns, what about older DCs, toddlers... you can't just turn your back while they entertain themselves, everyone knows this!

[Yawn]

dnb why do u keep saying "ages". who said any parent is coming on habbo for a long period of time to neglect their child zzzZZzzzZzzz

[.DnB]

subo you said yourself you've been on all day

[Yawn]

yes so?

wat about any parent who isn't on for ages. u said urself

if someone has kids it is COMPLETELY WRONG for them to be playing habbo

this is a fairly large generalisation to make

[Spiffy]

Um, you're the only one here telling mothers how they should raise their child based on your personal opinion and you're acting as if they're neglecting their kids, etc. Tone down the hyperbole and take a deep breath, thanks.

[.DnB]

There's so so much a mum needs to do in a day you know, sitting on a game all day means those things aint getting done, simple. And what world do ya live in seriously... no mother I know sits playing a game instead of looking after their little ones, same goes for the mums that just stare at the telly instead of you know,cooking, cleaning, feeding their kids, taking them out, playing with them, activities, reading to them, cuddles, talking etc. I have never met a mum who would just sit doing their own thing while DC has to entertain themselves. I live in england by the way

[Yawn]

again u have said SITTING ON A GAME ALL DAY. no1 ever said that it was acceptable for a parent to spend their entire day online....has the possible thought that there is a responsible adult doing caring duties allowing the parent time to themselves to not slave away non-stop (which u seem to think is the only acceptable thing a parent should be doing). but of course u dont know any parent that does that so it cannot be acceptable!!!11

how old r u dnB

[Spiffy]

My mum was a young mum, and a gamer, she taught me how to play Doom (yes the 1993 DOS version LOL) and she still took me out to parks and went to my school plays AND the cinema AND piano lessons AND AND etc not gonna bore you but you get the idea. My mum is awesome and still had hobbies and time to herself while I was with my school mates. I think I turned out just fine (H)

[.DnB]

again u have said SITTING ON A GAME ALL DAY. no1 ever said that it was acceptable for a parent to spend their entire day online....has the possible thought that there is a responsible adult doing caring duties allowing the parent time to themselves to not slave away non-stop (which u seem to think is the only acceptable thing a parent should be doing). but of course u dont know any parent that does that so it cannot be acceptable!!!11

how old r u dnB

I turn 20 in a few days, probably most my mates have babies/kids, and i dont know anyone, family included who think being a mummy is 'slaving away'
lifes all about the little things, seeing your precious little loved ones laughing and smiling when you play with them, cluddling up and reading a story, doing activities etc. its so sad when you miss the precious moments, so so sad it really is... really heartbreaking. and you did say you have sat on habbo ALL DAY when you have 2 DCs! As a woman and a mum you surely understand this...
I suppose there could be another adult in the house doing these things but thats not usually the case, usually the dad is at

[Kardan]

again u have said SITTING ON A GAME ALL DAY. no1 ever said that it was acceptable for a parent to spend their entire day online....has the possible thought that there is a responsible adult doing caring duties allowing the parent time to themselves to not slave away non-stop (which u seem to think is the only acceptable thing a parent should be doing). but of course u dont know any parent that does that so it cannot be acceptable!!!11

how old r u dnB

There's not many times I agree with your posts, but hell are you right here. +Rep.

I know plenty of people on online games that are new mums. Babies and children take up a lot of your time, but not 24/7.

---------- Post added 29-04-2013 at 07:10 PM ----------

I turn 20 in a few days, probably most my mates have babies/kids, and i dont know anyone, family included who think being a mummy is 'slaving away'
lifes all about the little things, seeing your precious little loved ones laughing and smiling when you play with them, cluddling up and reading a story, doing activities etc. its so sad when you miss the precious moments, so so sad it really is... really heartbreaking. and you did say you have sat on habbo ALL DAY when you have 2 DCs! As a woman and a mum you surely understand this...
I suppose there could be another adult in the house doing these things but thats not usually the case, usually the dad is at

Babies sleep.