Homosexuality & Gay marriage - Your views

[Richie]

I do not have any view on this personaly i think to be gay is ok.

[Immenseman]

I do not have any view on this personaly i think to be gay is ok.

lol... therefore you do have a view.

[Jord]

If there in love they should be able to get married.

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[MrGazet]

If there in love they should be able to get married

i agree.
nothing is wrong with it tbh

[RandomManJay]

I don't really have an issue with it, if homosexuals want to try and keep a relationship going and/or take it to the next step, they have the right to.

[today]

I don't think that they should be married.. at all.. marriage should be between a man and a woman.

Who says that though?

If a guy and a guy want to live together, so be it.. if they want to ****.. so be it.. if they want to file their taxes together.. so be it. They just shouldn't be married.

They can have their 'civil partnership' or whatever.. and they get all the benefits of marriage, without being 'married'.

I agree there, although i see civil partnership and marrage the same really.
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@Technologic: God didn't make 'homosexuality'.. those people choose to be homosexual.

God made people, and people choose to sin (homosexuality), since God made man in his own image.. (and he is heterosexual, not homosexual), man is naturally and originally heterosexual (adam + eve).

To be honest..

man --- man
------><------- does not go together.. a man and a man do not fit in the terms of reproduction.

man --- woman
------> ()

those fit..

I don't think it's fair on the child growing up with two dads.. or two moms.. that's just my opinion though.

Who said its a 'sin', if its a 'sin' then anyone whos not 100% straight will go to hell, or some sort of 'worse' place then 'heaven' then?

Totally agree there on all of your points. In my opinion its vile but thats just my 2 cents.

Rather harsh and not needed really.

I mean I'm not going to discriminate them because they're gay.. but I don't agree with it, and that's just my opinion. If I can respect their being gay, they can at least respect my opinion.

I would hope most gay's do, being gay doesnt change opinions on others, so if they cant then they have issues, and same for straight people.

I don't see the point in all of the guys fitting into the stereotype.. like it seems most gay guys, who "come out", always almost immediately follow the "gay stereotype" with the high pitched voice, and acting extremely feminine, and just acting really weird..

I don't get it.

It's like being gay is the same as being vegetarian.. you just have to ******* let everyone know that you're that.. and you brag about it constantly.

(gay pride things, "I've not ate meat in 4 days.. blahla (well I've not ate a banana in over a ******* month but you don't see me bragging)" and things like that)

Im not sure where you got the 'coming out' then 'high pitched voices' from, as no one who i know sounds high pitched, either gay or bi. And i agree about flaunting it, its not needed but the argument can be said why do straight people flaunt kissing straight people, in some gay's eyes its 'sick' and straights may feel the same, but its gay kissing which is deemed as 'worse' as its not accepted as much, yet its two sides of a penny argument.

God also made us with a G Spot up there so what's a boy to do He needs to think out his designs more clearly.

LOL!!!!

THAT'S TEMPTATION YOU MUST NOT GIVE IN OR YOU BURN FOR ETERNITY TWICE



The bit where it says Satan did it lol

With him ^^

Firstly you don't choose to be gay, someone whos gay doesn't think "Oh I'll be gay now".

Well said

Secondly I believe God isnt Heterosexual because he doesn't infact have a sex so that argument is bullcrap.

I dont belive in the bible, god or what ever he may be called in several places. So im with you, 'god' to me is a made up word, but thats my view though and some will disagree (going back to the 'sin' thing up there^^)

Finally the fact that Gay guys and Women can't have children is a good thing? The world is overpopulated as it is, to be honest they are helping that. They are contributing to society by having jobs etc but without the strain on society for kids schooling etc.

That werent really needed for?

I definatly think Gay people should be allowed to be married, its their choice and it isnt hurting anyone.

I don't however like all this "Gay pride" stuff, like the parades. Its not something to be proud of its just who you are, you didn't do anything special. Its like having a "High blood pressure pride day".

Again, i dont like it either, its not requried but i guess as 'Gay prides' are newer and being "gay" is slightly more acceptable now then before they feel the need to boast?

What a stupid thing to say :S Not like this world needs children or anything :rolleyes:

I know?!

You're right, an entity referred to as "He" who is a father and a son couldn't possibly have a gender

But who said its real?

I see it this way:

You don't act like a happy happy tree friend to me, I don't hit you in the face and generally get along with you.

OMG. HAPPY HAPPY TREE!!! :eusa_whis

We dont all have the same opinions as you remeber that next time some of think its fine others may think different.

What annoys me is i dont go shouting Im straight. Straight pride ect,

No as everyone was born thinking 'straight' was right. and 'gay/lesbian' was wrong. If everyone thought 'gay' was right then there would be straight prides.. Just the way its worked out..

I think a lot of straight people just make out they dislike gays because they think they should, they have no genuine reason to. Also, I think some heterosexual people flatter themselves too much and think every gay is going to come onto them.

I'm with you.

I don't have a problem with gays, being gay. (the pun on that sounded awful).

bad pun!! :eusa_wall

Not every gay is going to come onto you, although I do not like it when they do. If they see me with my girlfriend, or any girl for that matter.. I don't really find it 'stable' (as it, not annoying) for a gay to be 'flirting' with me.

If they tried too then more fool them and they deserve to be wacked once or twice.. :eusa_whis

And again, I don't like it when they shout out that they are gay, I think that your sexuality is just a preference.. nothing more. I don't really think it's even a lifestyle.

I'm with you

It's simple.. you're choosing to like the same sex, instead of the opposite...

It's like choosing to drive a automatic, or manual.. it's your choice, and your preference.

But its not your choice at the end of the day, your stuck with it, either go with it or try to fight it and be depressed for your life (which i've seen happen).

We don't have stick shift pride festivals and parades.. so why should you have gay pride ones?

Or gay pride week? Why don't we have straight pride week.. or straight pride rainbows.

See up somewhere!! ^^

I just think that being "gay" and homosexuality is really a "rebel" social movement.. because I don't think you just wake up and decide "hey.. I'll be gay! I like looking at guys."

I think there are many many physiological reasons to why you may be attracted to the same sex, instead of the opposite.

Maybe you've had extremely bad relationships in the past with the opposite sex? Things like that can affect your decisions. "Well I can't find a decent girl.. maybe I can find a decent guy.." thinks like that.

Maybe, but some are just born thinking males are hot and females are not, and anyone who does that example is bloodly greedy lol

I think it's sorta like the 70+80s rock scene.. where all teenagers were trying to be rebellious to their parents, and society in general.

LOL!

But not exactly rebellious as in doing "bad things", but in a sense of they want to be different.. and not be like everyone else.. (as in being straight..).

That's just my opinion though, maybe you can get something out of that.

I dunno if i get you here.

FlyingJesus and I agreed a while back in the thread about those views, so you're not alone

To what seems to be the majority of homosexuals, it's just an excuse to rebel. I find it incredibly frustrating talking to some of my gay friends, and indeed looking at how they feel on Facebook sometimes, when they say they "want a relationship" and get worked up about it, when we all are aware it's just for sex.

I hope you dont think all gays want sex, as its not the case and i know many who are really romantic and much better at being soppy then some guys (Who want sex.. and are straight..)

There is no commitment it seems in the majority of homosexual/same sex relationships. I was thinking about this earlier watching Coronation Street (lol). I heard on it "I want to be with you, I want to fulfill my dreams and live through them with you." I don't think I've ever heard anything remotely similar in gay relationships, there's no passion, no deep feelings. I have, however, heard something similar with heterosexual relationships and the ones that have lasted over a year.

Does happen, i guess its harder to stick in a relationship with another man as you've got the world (sort of speak) on your case, or your town at least.

It does make me wonder what causes this rebellious and hypocritical behaviour. Maybe it's society, but society cannot be blamed for the difficulties a gay guy has to find other gay guys and bond like straight couples bond, through time and interests. Looking at my friends, the only time they know about other gay guys is through going to gay nights at University and City Gay Nights. And as we all know, not everyone is confident enough to go find what they're looking for without alot to drink, and it does usually end up with kissing strangers or further, sleeping with them after one or two nights.

*****..

They seem to jump straight into the deep end. The relationship ends as fast as it was to get into it. I would like to see my friends do it the old fashioned way, which is get to know each other and see how it goes from there. It seems to be the only way that works, it's rare to hear that they end a long time when the relationship started with kissing and sex. But it depends if anyone else sees it that way I guess :/

Been with Andrew for a year, met in person by bumping into him in Republic. Hit it off from there, and we've never had sex, (mainly as i find it slightly sickening..) It does happen though. Just not often

I don't really have an issue with it, if homosexuals want to try and keep a relationship going and/or take it to the next step, they have the right to.

Trueeee!

[Dentafrice]

Who says that though?

I agree there, although i see civil partnership and marrage the same really.
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Who said its a 'sin', if its a 'sin' then anyone whos not 100% straight will go to hell, or some sort of 'worse' place then 'heaven' then?

Rather harsh and not needed really.


I would hope most gay's do, being gay doesnt change opinions on others, so if they cant then they have issues, and same for straight people.

Im not sure where you got the 'coming out' then 'high pitched voices' from, as no one who i know sounds high pitched, either gay or bi. And i agree about flaunting it, its not needed but the argument can be said why do straight people flaunt kissing straight people, in some gay's eyes its 'sick' and straights may feel the same, but its gay kissing which is deemed as 'worse' as its not accepted as much, yet its two sides of a penny argument.

LOL!!!!


With him ^^

Well said

I dont belive in the bible, god or what ever he may be called in several places. So im with you, 'god' to me is a made up word, but thats my view though and some will disagree (going back to the 'sin' thing up there^^)

That werent really needed for?

Again, i dont like it either, its not requried but i guess as 'Gay prides' are newer and being "gay" is slightly more acceptable now then before they feel the need to boast?

I know?!


But who said its real?


OMG. HAPPY HAPPY TREE!!! :eusa_whis

No as everyone was born thinking 'straight' was right. and 'gay/lesbian' was wrong. If everyone thought 'gay' was right then there would be straight prides.. Just the way its worked out..


I'm with you.


bad pun!! :eusa_wall
If they tried too then more fool them and they deserve to be wacked once or twice.. :eusa_whis

I'm with you

But its not your choice at the end of the day, your stuck with it, either go with it or try to fight it and be depressed for your life (which i've seen happen).

See up somewhere!! ^^
Maybe, but some are just born thinking males are hot and females are not, and anyone who does that example is bloodly greedy lol
LOL!
I dunno if i get you here.


I hope you dont think all gays want sex, as its not the case and i know many who are really romantic and much better at being soppy then some guys (Who want sex.. and are straight..)

Does happen, i guess its harder to stick in a relationship with another man as you've got the world (sort of speak) on your case, or your town at least.

*****..

Been with Andrew for a year, met in person by bumping into him in Republic. Hit it off from there, and we've never had sex, (mainly as i find it slightly sickening..) It does happen though. Just not often


Trueeee!

I read through most of that Can't be arsed to reply to it all due to the fact, it doesn't need replying to, because I can agree/disagree with it in a sort of way

The part about this though I do disagree with:

Maybe, but some are just born thinking males are hot and females are not, and anyone who does that example is bloodly greedy lol

I disagree with that. You don't have a 'sexuality' gene in you that determines who you like or not.. you can't have a chromosome set that lets you like guys, or a chromosome set that lets you like girls, or a messed up chromosome yet that lets you like both..

You're not in fact "born" with it, it's not a gene that you are born with.. Personally I think it's society that determines in your mind who you grow up liking, or your childhood.

A lot of the gays that I know, or have spoken to, have had either very awful childhoods or very sheltered childhoods, or had experiences with very bad relationships with the opposite sex in their lives.

I just don't think you're born 'liking the same sex', but in turn you decide to 'come out of the closet', you had to make the decision to experiment with the opposite sex.

[GommeInc]

I hope you dont think all gays want sex, as its not the case and i know many who are really romantic and much better at being soppy then some guys (Who want sex.. and are straight..)

Thus the reason I said majority Which usually means "in my opinion and my experience, most gay guys I know are..."

What I don't understand either is, why do some guys who come out the closet have to do the annoying gay thing and let the world know... Especially the ones who said bad things about the sexuality before hand? One of my friends is quite the man ***** now, and he's one of these ones that whines for a relationship, but couldn't hold one if he tried Mainly because he tries to have a go at finding one when way over the driving limit of alcohol, bad move :rolleyes:

[Technologic]

Oh lol, i am now going to a gay wedding in september

[Monopoly]

In my opinion...

Personality > Sexuality.
I'm gay, but it's such a small part of who I am that I never even bother to "come out" to people. They either assume, or see me with a guy and then, usually, a load of questions come. After that things go completely back to normal because it doesn't change me as a person, it just changes who I choose to be with.

The whole Gay Pride thing is so hypocritical that I actually find it embarrassing.
"We don't want to be singled out anymore", cried the ****** community.
"I know!" Exclaimed one simple person. "Let's all get together, and march in leather and spandex about it!!"
"Ehm... yeah... yeah! YES! It's brilliant!" Cried back the ****** community.
No.. it's not. :/
But, not everyone acts that way, or even feels that way - I'm definitely not proud to be gay. Sometimes I even feel quite guilty, or embarrassed, about it. I generally feel the way most of the people who have posted in here feel: it's really unnecessary, attention seeking ********.

I don't like gay marriage, either because I see marriage as a purely religious thing. Also, though, I think straight couples getting married out-with religion is wrong too.

I think gay people being allowed to adopt is a touchy subject, though. I mean, if a child is taken from a **** family with a drunk father, and junkie mother, why shouldn't a "straight-edge", well off gay couple be allowed to adopt them? It's better for the child, surely? But, of course, because - like Dentafrice' lovely diagram showed us - it's not natural for two men to have a child, and there's something unbalancing about it. Ultimately I don't like it, but if the situation above occurred I wouldn't see a problem with it.

That's just my opinion, though. I feel like such a hypocrite. )