have u ever cut?

[IzzyUhh]

You clearly do not understand

[oli]

You clearly do not understand

cutting doesn't help anything whichever way you look at it.

[Cerys]

everyone should just be me
happy and proud of who they are
determined to live a happy life even if theirs is ****

You know what.
*REMOVED*

I think you should just step back for one second and take your head out from up your ass and realise that what your saying is inconsiderate, insensitive and it is hurting people, causing more damage than you could ever imagine in your perfect little world.

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[Succubus]

everyone should just be me
happy and proud of who they are
determined to live a happy life even if theirs is ****

If you've got mental health or problems, such as depression or severe anxiety, you have a higher risk of self-harming. But if you do self-harm, it doesn't necessarily mean that you have a serious mental illness - it may just be that you're feeling alone, isolated, stressed, frustrated, or angry about issues out of your control. Such issues might include one or more of the following:

• Low self-esteem
• Poor body image
• Bullying or discrimination
• Unwanted pregnancy
• A serious illness that affects the way you feel about yourself
• Worries over sexuality
• Cultural/racial difficulties
• Feelings of rejection, lack of love and affection by parents or carers
• Parents getting divorced/family breakdown and conflict
• Physical, sexual or emotional abuse
• Domestic violence
• A bereavement
• Work pressures
• Money worries
• Depression
• The self-harm or suicide of someone close to you
• Isolation and loneliness
• Anxiety
• Drug and alcohol misuse
• Relationship problems

"everyone should just be me" - sorry, but everyone is different. People come from different backgrounds. People have different education. People have different issues. People can cope where others can't. How can people be happy and proud of who they are when it's people like you criticizing them for coping. People try to be happy but it can be others who bring them down. It's probably not their fault for some of the issues they have.

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cutting doesn't help anything whichever way you look at it.

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[myles]

this has been taken way too seriously
end it

[oli]

You know what.
*REMOVED*

I think you should just step back for one second and take your head out from up your ass and realise that what your saying is inconsiderate, insensitive and it is hurting people, causing more damage than you could ever imagine in your perfect little world.

ok so you're saying i care for nobody but myself, yet im not in anyway showing that so ok

my perfect little world isnt so perfect, but im happy n thats all that counts.
and i am being open minded, im just sharing my opinion with the group.

you're really mean you know cerys
unfriending u

[IzzyUhh]

@vls i know but alot of people care about it and have down it, olis pretty much saying theyre idiots for it

Oli
its does
emotionally for a while

[Cerys]

ok so you're saying i care for nobody but myself, yet im not in anyway showing that so ok

my perfect little world isnt so perfect, but im happy n thats all that counts.
and i am being open minded, im just sharing my opinion with the group.

you're really mean you know cerys
unfriending u

Yes, you do only care about yourself. If you didn't you'd realise that people have their own problems and they have their own method of getting through it.

Yeh but it must be perfect because according to you nobody has problems, and if they do have problems they can just forget them in a flash!!

If you were being open minded you'd understand that people are DIFFERENT and they manage their lives in DIFFERENT ways.

w o w you just ruined my evening there mate, unfriending me is a low blow
heartbroken.

[sex]

@oli; do you agree that all kinds of self harm are stupid or just cutting?

[Gina]

am surprised this is all going on
tbh im not saying i agree but everyone has their opinions on it
no point in trying to back up your side because oli obv thinks different
same as you're saying everyones different, he obv thinks differently like even if you think he isnt right
its his opinion and he obv isnt gna be changing it