Im so happy!!

[GJay]

well - it's not 'following the rules' of sexuality is it? It's meant ot be boy and girl.

but with parents, they may be scared of not knowing how to treat them afterwards. So they use a defence. Not always the best one but they're just trying to come to terms with it.
My parents told me that if i said I was a lesbian, they'd be upset and shocked but they'd live with it. Mum's totally against gay relationships but she's not a homophobic.

[Karl]

Mum's totally against gay relationships but she's not a homophobic.

But that is what homophobic is... People against gays and their relationships...

[Flisker]

Yup i wanna come open but i can't

[Charlie]

You gotta come out sooner or later. And you don't want them to find out from someone else.

[brodeo]

Heh my mom and dad aren't homophobes and my mom keeps telling me she wouldn't mind if me or my sister were gay - which shes kinda hinting for me to tell her i'm gay. But i'm not just ready.

[Karl]

Are you though?

[Charlie]

Heh my mom and dad aren't homophobes and my mom keeps telling me she wouldn't mind if me or my sister were gay - which shes kinda hinting for me to tell her i'm gay. But i'm not just ready.

If you are gay, And she's hinting at it. Then maybe you could tell her now. I know you said your not ready and it's prob's kinda embarrasing. I know what it's like. But it's gotta come out sometime, Why not when she's hinting? She could all ready know.

[xTom]

I came out last summer (I'm 14 next month).
Before i told my mum, the only people that knew were two of my friends. After then i think everyone just guessed. Now everyone in school knows. I really hate some of the chavs sometimes, but i haven't really been attacked or anything yet.. So i guess it's not too bad. I still haven't told my Dad - it might sound ridiculous but telling your Dad is 10 times harder than telling your Mum.

I guess some people may say it's early as a lot of people come out at an older age, but it felt like the right time to do it. I've more or less known my whole life, and i couldn't keep saying i liked girls anymore so i told some of my other friends and know i think there are over 20 that i've actually told.


Now i'll stop rambling on with my life story

Tom xx

[Flisker]

I hate my Life atm cos of it -.-

I can't even Tell my Mates -.-

Regards,

Snoop

[Nemo]

Heh my mom and dad aren't homophobes and my mom keeps telling me she wouldn't mind if me or my sister were gay - which shes kinda hinting for me to tell her i'm gay. But i'm not just ready.

my mum hints but im not gay :s but she dont hint no more thankfully


question in ur head: why are u in gay and lesbian chat?
answer: i dont no jus seein if theres some stories i like stories lol