Not eating?

[AdamCookie!]

So yeah.. I feel stupid but you know.

Im fat (No I really am..) so I've decided not too eat, I've not eat for 2 days. I know I should, but im not gunna.

I just need some advice, please, someone?

[Blue]

hmm a tough desicion(cant spell it i dont think) but starving ur self aint the answer. Y not eat salads and get more exercise like getting a paper round wich can make u money aswell

[infatuation]

Don't starve yourself, that'll do nothing for your body. Do some excercise, even go on a diet if you have to.

[Halting]

That is barely going to help. If you think you're fat then you're doctor can help you and will be able to put you on a diet which should stop your weight increasing and maybe reducing a little. If you're going to want to reduce your weight you will need to work out and take part in some sports.

When I was once Ill I didn't eat for two days (I couldn't) and on my Third day I woke up and I couldn't move a muscle. Every move was hard and I was dizzy. Moving my arm to get out of bed took a few minutes.

If you're going to starve yourself you won't do nothing but make yourself poorly.

[IDK]

whatever you do, don't starve yourself..

[Blue]

whatever you do, don't starve yourself..

yeh thats basicaly the message we are trying to get through

[AdamCookie!]

I don't want too eat though, I feel dizzy but thats about it.

[IDK]

I don't want too eat though, I feel dizzy but thats about it.
just eat please. even if its an apple or something.

[Blue]

maybe a banana. I mean u cd eat a lil bit not loadz if u really really dont want to eat, but if u dont eat u wd av no energy to do exercise or many other daily tasks

[brandon]

Don't starve yourself, it will have serious effects on your body, if you're that worried just eat things that are good for you.

[AdamCookie!]

I don't want to eat, i'll get fatter. No matter what I eat, so I could just not eat and not get fatter.

I sound arkward, but it's getting me really down :(

[infatuation]

actually, if you don't eat, you won't lose weight. You're body will hold onto the fat it has, so you wont have a chance to lose it. Just eat healthier.

[brandon]

I don't want to eat, i'll get fatter. No matter what I eat, so I could just not eat and not get fatter.

I sound arkward, but it's getting me really down :(

keep exercising, do whatever exercise you like best

[Blue]

seriously m8 dont starve yourself plzplzplz dont Plzzzzzz just for me

[AdamCookie!]

But.. It's like.. Oh I can't explain.

It's a mental thing, I wouldn't even eat when the person I <3 lots was begging me ;(

[velvet]

starving yourself will acctually make you put on more weight. As when you do eventually eat, your body will store ALL of it as fat.
Just eat healthily, and eat sencible ammounts.

[brandon]

But.. It's like.. Oh I can't explain.

It's a mental thing, I wouldn't even eat when the person I <3 lots was begging me ;(

It would be good if your mum said if you ate healthy foods she gives you tommorow you will be able to go to a theme park the next day ;D

[Blue]

m8 like the others have said u wont looses weight by starving urself. I mean someone i kno had 2 go to hospitol for almost 2-3months becasue she wasn't eating

[AdamCookie!]

It would be good if your mum said if you ate healthy foods she gives you tommorow you will be able to go to a theme park the next day ;D

My mum doesn't know, and she's not going too.

Besides, I could go to a Tussauds park anytime I wanted - Just a train ride away :P

I should eat.. I know, but I just don't want too :S

[Assid_Rane]

If you dont eat, it will seriousely damage your body, you will have loads of side effects..

will start with feeling dizzy
then you'll start fainting..

think about it, how can you keep it from your mum if you keep fainting? at some point you will end up in hospital + then they will know why.

so keeping it from your mum isnt going to work man, she WILL find out.

if you carry on not eating, you body will not be able to get any of the nutriants it needs to work. and will eventually shut down. then your in serious trouble. if you dont get to a hospital fast after that it could be fatal.

plus, when you do start eating again (which you will have to do, or you'll die) your body will put on soo much weight... you will probably be bigger than you are now.

i understand its a mental thing, but you have to understand that not eating doesnt work...

youve got to start eating again man, there are plenty of ways to lose weight without damaging your body, if youve been able to not eat at all for this long, then you will be able to only eat healthy food as well.

honestly, you have to start eating again. even if its not for your own sake, how would your mum feel if you died of starvation? ad she didnt even know you werent eating? she would blame herself for the rest of her life.. do you really want her to feel like that?

think about it man.

[AdamCookie!]

She won't find out, i'll just stay in my bedroom.

At the minute, im not even thinking about eating again. :rolleyes:

[Assid_Rane]

She won't find out, i'll just stay in my bedroom.

At the minute, im not even thinking about eating again. :rolleyes:


you'll stay in your bedroom for the rest of your life?
and you didnt reply about the fact that your mum will blame herself if something happens to you. do you not care how she will feel?

[Blue]

she will find out. If she comes into your room and sees u on the floor unconcious your life could be in danger

[AdamCookie!]

I would care, but she wont know so it wont matter.

Well, I seem to think in my head that she wont know anyway!

I just don't want to eat, I know I have too.. But, Oh I just don't know. :(

[Blue]

i think we should leave this to peer pressure: eat eat eat eat eat eat eat eat .Seroiously we have been on this thread all night now plz get something to eat, even if its just a slice of cheese. U need 2 get it out ur head that if u starve urself u will loose weight, but u wont!!!!!!

[AdamCookie!]

I've been on here all night because I cannot sleep because im too stressed.

I can't get it out my head, it's all messed up.

[Blue]

aww poor sausage (lmao) i av a good link 4 u wich may help u get to sleep :http://www.habboxforum.com/showthread.php?t=211737

[AdamCookie!]

Hmm, i'll try it soon.

I feel sick and dizzy so I won't be able to sleep just yet.

[Blue]

and the sick an dizzyness comes from the not eating part so apart from feeling drained from energy from not eating u will also feel tired after staying up l8

[AdamCookie!]

Im confused.

I don't even know if I want to wake up again..

[Blue]

noooooo now its suicidal thoughts clear ur mind dude. Dont think of anything like dat. U av ur wholelife to live for

[AdamCookie!]

How do I clear my head?

[Blue]

just think of black. tht works for me if i get a song stuck in me head. or just dont think at all. Just sperate ur self from ur mind and try an get rid of the bad thoughts

[mat64]

I remember when I went to Cyprus this year, It was real hot so I didnt eat much during the day. I can remember standing up sometimes and been dazed for about 5 seconds. Not very safe really I could have fell off or in something. Anyway that's my experiance. I'm a stick so i can't really contribute but the whole starving thing; Vitimen defincencies = Organ failure = death

Good night.

[AdamCookie!]

I just want to die :s

[Blue]

dude i can see u confuzzled and ur not gonna get unconfuzzled by stayin on here now turn off ur comp an try an get sum sleep!!! Its doin u no more good stayin on ere

[AdamCookie!]

Im having a skype convo, the computer is my life.

[Blue]

lol mine too

[mat64]

Just read abit of your start posts. The reason i'm so unbelivable thin is the fact that i have a high matabalism, Yours is most likely quite low that could be one of the reasons you gain quite alot of weight. Nothing i can say will change your mind though. You need to talk to someone in person; and who knows what they are on about..

Another thing, I'm sure the last thing you want is to be put on a drip at hospital, You probley won't go just like that i can imagine you feighting a couple of times then someone will find out and you will go to hospital. If it's a depression a mental instaution. I sound abit cold but i dont mean to be ;)

[AdamCookie!]

I dunno, my head is soo messed up atm.

Im just gunna lay in bed and speak to these weirdos on skype :)

[mat64]

Aw i feel helpless, Here have some rep.

[Blue]

Aw i feel helpless, Here have some rep.

lol in times like these its often the best thing to do *hint hint*

[mat64]

Aw here have some rep =]

[Blue]

yay tyvm mr doggy poodle

[Homesrfan]

Eating nothing is not the answer. Why not just eat better?
Fruits, Vegetables, and other healthy things will help you lose weight. When you eat carrots, lettuce, and some other fruits/vegetables, you actually lose calories because it takes more calories to chew them then is in the actual food.

So just eat better, and go walking and jogging around the neighbor each day after school some time. You'll see a difference. Also, when you want to get somewhere, walk faster because you will burn more calories that way.

[sarey]

Ok.
Adam.
You said i was blablabla for feeling blablabla, now you are feeling blablabla, so i'm going to help.

Read this, it is about anorexia, it is were you are heading if you continue what you are doing, it was writen BY a girl, so its basically for girls, but it will also happen to you, except for some of the girl things, either way....;

So...you think starving is a good way to lose weight, do you? I think you've read too many fairy tales. Well, this isn't one. Neither are eating disorders. They are sheer & total hell. But, since you want one, I'll go ahead & prep you for it. I'll let you know exactly what will happen to you. If this doesn't make you realize how completely stupid running out there & trying to develop anorexia is, then I wish you the best of luck in killing yourself. Because that's all you'll be doing.

The completely ironic part about people trying to lose weight by starving is that half the time it does not work. I bet you think you'll wind up insanely thin & gorgeous, right? Wrong. You won't be gorgeous & you might actually GAIN weight. One thing's for certain though. Insane is a definite part of the package. Your mind won't be yours anymore. Kiss it goodbye, I hope you didn't enjoy it.

The less you eat, the lower your metabolism goes. You might starve & starve & barely lose anything...or you might be extra lucky...you might starve & starve & gain weight. Your body might just shut itself down & the weight go nowhere. & even though you aren't losing, you'll still be hooked. You still won't be able to stop. By the time your body shuts off from malnutrition, you'll be too far in it to *snap* think "Oh...this isn't working...I think I'll eat again." No...you'll be desperate & eat less & less & work out more and more. Eventually, you won't be ABLE to work out. Your muscles will eventually stop cooperating. Then you'll panic & try & eat even less to compensate for not being able to work your *** off (simply a figure of speech, since you're not losing any weight, of course). By then you can't eat less though. You're barely eating enough to stay alive as it is. & you can't stop. It isn't working & you still can't stop. & whether its working or not, you won't see the truth. You'll never actually know what you look like. Nope...no matter what you'll think you must weigh at least four hundred pounds. This is true if you weigh 150 or if you weigh 70. You will be fat. Insane is the proper term for it, isn't it? Yes, you might just be one of the lucky ones, one of the ones that doesn't lose weight. But don't sit there & think that means you won't be sick. Not true...not true at all. Your skin & hair will be dry, your teeth sore, your period gone(girls), your bones aching, your muscles cramping...well, no need to go on. You still want this, of course. After all, you won't be like that. You won't be one of the failures. You'll be successful; you'll be thin & perfect. Beautiful.

Well, since you're going to win, why don't I tell you about your prize, hmm?? It’s quite nice. You will be skinny. You will be sickly thin. Your ribs will stand out & your hipbones will be sharp. You won't see it. You'll look in the mirror & see fat. You'll see rolls. You'll look at girls who weight fifty pounds more than you & wonder why you can't be as thin as they are. You'll look in the mirror everyday & swear that you've gained at least ten pounds. Other people will see you shrink but you won't get to watch. You'll never see the truth. Others will though. You'll be sickly skinny...but you won't be pretty. & they'll all see that. You won't though...you'll be too busy staring at your *** & wondering when you turned into your fat Aunt Bertha. You will not be attractive. You won't. You'll have huge dark circles. Your skin will be pasty pale & have a lovely gray tint to it. Makeup will NOT help this. It won't, so don't think it will. Don't even bother to attempt it. You'll be wasting your time; time that could be better spent doing your usual pastime, staring into the pantry to watch the food. Of course, people might not notice that you're gray. They could be too busy staring at the dark black, blue, & purple spots you're covered in. Everything you do will result in a bruise. Everything. Do you have pretty hair? You won't anymore. It will be straw dry & dull. It will not shine. Think conditioner will help? It won't. It won't & there's no sense in trying it. It might soften your hair for a while (after you use half the bottle, of course) but it won't make your hair look any better. Buy a ponytail holder. You'll need it. You'll probably be wearing it all the time. You'll also need some hair dye. I sincerely hope your hair isn't a nice color....because it won't be soon. Yes...the color of your hair will fade out. You might even get grays. But gray is a nice color, isn't it? I rather like it. I think the grayish brown color where my natural red and blonde highlights used to be adds a bit of...oh...dignity to my look. Speaking of hair, do you like facial hair? I hope so. You'll have it. I have some lovely sideburns. Quite gorgeous. Actually, I have sexy hair everywhere. Fuzz, fuzz, fuzz. It’s hot. All the guys love it and all the girls I know ask how to get some. They're jealous, you know. I tell them how I got it, starving. They never attempt it...I know why though. Its not because they're smart & healthy...no, no. Its because they're weak. Not strong like me. Of course, my muscles are deteriorating as we speak & I can no longer use even my five pound weights but I'm still strong, aren't I? Yes...because I don't eat. & that's true strength, isn't it? Denying yourself the basic fuel you need for life. Yup...strong & smart.

I don't enjoy sports. I used to. Not anymore...you won't like them soon either. Baseball? Nope. You won't be able to hit or catch. Goodbye reflexes & goodbye hand eye coordination. You won't be able to run enough to play basketball & if you play football you'll break your hip. Never needed that hip anyway. Your new plastic one will get you through just fine. Its not like your hip was going to stay intact forever, not with your shrinking bone mass. But the stooped look is good. I hope you think so, since you'll probably be sporting it by thirty. Since you're one of the special ones, one of the anorexic ones, I'll bet you enjoy ice water. Pour it out. Drink plain water, warm diet coke. It hurts too badly to drink iced drinks. You're taking sensitive teeth to a new level. Forget those special toothpastes though. They don't work when your teeth are slowly dying from vitamin deficiencies. Never liked those teeth anyway. Dentures are nice. How do you like to sit? Oh...you like your legs crossed? Hmm...too bad. Can't do that anymore. Your legs will fall asleep all the way up to your hips. Painfully asleep. This isn't like what you're used to, that tingly feeling. This hurts. A word of advice. After uncrossing them, just sit there. Don't try moving them or hitting them to wake them up. Bad idea...very painful. Don't stand up either, unless you enjoy collapsing.

Which would be a good thing, since you'll also be doing that. A new hobby, falling. Your legs won't like holding you up anymore. Falling out from under you will be their new favorite activity. They'll like collapsing. You'll be spending alot of time on the ground. Fainting is common too. & don't think this is something you can hide. Whenever you pass out dead in the living room in front of your mom or brother they'll wonder why...and unless they're complete idiots they'll probably know why...especially if you're 30 pounds underweight. Get ready for nagging. Eat this, eat that, why are you doing this to yourself?? You could always go to your room to escape though. Then you can lie in bed & bite your lip until it bleeds...why would you want to do that, do you ask? Because of the leg cramps, of course...oh! I must've forgotten to mention those! Oooh...the cramps are nice. Your muscles are balled into excruciating knots. You'll double over to massage the knots out and...what? There are no knots. There IS no rubbing the knots out because there are no knots. It just feels like it. There's nothing you can do. You just get to lie there & try not to scream. & trust me...you'll want to. Of course, you could always rub your legs anyway...it might make you feel better to pretend there's something you can do to help them. But you might not be thinking about your legs...you might be distracted by the headaches. Take some aspirin...oooh...or don't. Your tummy's too empty; it'll only make you throw up everywhere.


You'll probably get chest pains. Maybe heart flutters. This is scary too, because you never wanted to die, you just wanted to be thin. But remember, you can't tell. Telling is forbidden & asking for help is weak.

Do you have problems with depression? You do now. The less you eat the more depressed you become. Partially from vitamin deficiencies, partially from your lovely eating disorder. Do you have problems with insomnia? That's right, you've got that now too. You're exhausted beyond belief but you still can't fall asleep...& when you do you can't stay asleep. Who needs sleep though?? Not you. Staying awake burns more calories anyway. Do you do well in school? You don’t now. You can’t concentrate. Your mind won’t function, & the only thing you can actually think about is food anyway. You'll become more nervous too. Jittery. You'll also have difficulty talking. Oh...have you never had a stuttering problem? Well, you do now. You also forget what you wanted to say alot. Goodbye memory.

Triggers are everywhere & you want to kill yourself more with each bite you swallow. Maybe you will kill yourself. Maybe you'll fight & fight & enter recovery only to die while in recovery or even afterwards from complications caused by your years of having an eating disorder. After fighting for the longest time, maybe you will get out. Maybe, after numerous slip ups & times that where so hard you thought you'd die, you recover. It takes a while. Even after you've eaten right for months & months your body still isn't the same. You start to wonder if it will ever be the same again. It might, but you won't. No. This will always be a part of you, it will never go away. Years later it will still be with you, you will still have those moments. Sometimes you'll pass a mirror & suddenly be 200 pounds larger. You'll panic & shake your head, trying to clear the image away. Something will happen in your life, maybe you'll lose your job. Something will happen to take away your control & you'll try to gain it back through starving. You will NEVER be the same. You'll see an article on a someone with an eating disorder & you'll start to cry, remembering that terrible pain. I'm not talking about the physical pain. That's the only pain I described, because it’s the only part that's describable. There are no words for the mental anguish. It can never be described. It’s unimaginable. You'll never feel another pain like that, another pain so filled with self loathing, vulnerability, terror, rage, desolation...

WHY do you want this?? WHY?!? I know, even after reading this, that you're still sitting there, wanting this. Why? What is it you want?? Is it beauty? Do you honestly think you won't be like this?? Do you honestly think malnutrition won't steal your looks? Is it glamour? READ THIS. Show me the glamour. Is it control?? Let me tell you, you'll NEVER be more out of control than you are when you have an eating disorder. You don't control what you put in your mouth. Hell, you don't even control your thoughts. You have NO control. None. Do you honestly think that you'll be able to do this & not wind up this way? Do you think you are the one person on earth who can control this, who can just stop??? Do you think that maybe you can just do this, get thin, & stop?? WRONG! It doesn’t work that way. Do you WANT to die? Do you want to be a martyr or something? Do you think this is beautiful? I bet you think its some sort of tragic beauty. Its not. There's nothing beautiful about it. Do you want some attention? Buy a new eyeliner, dance naked in the streets. Needing attention is a natural thing but there are a hell of alot better ways to get it. Do you want to look at your family’s faces & know that you're killing them too? Imagine watching your child killing themselves, imagine your helplessness, imagine KNOWING that they're dying & KNOWING that there's NOTHING that you can do. Imagine fearing the day you'll come home to find them dead from this. Just sit there & try to think about it. Of course, while you're starving yourself you won't see that anguish. You won't be able to. You can't see anything, you're too self absorbed. You're too busy thinking about your weight, about food. You'll see it when you recover though & you'll hate yourself for doing that to the ones you love. You'll wish there was something you could do to erase it but there is nothing. You just have to live with it...& living with it is hard. Especially when you think of how many times your anger came out on them, how many times you got nasty when they were only trying to save your life.

If you do this, one day you will wake up. One day you’ll wake up & realize how much you wasted. Maybe you’ll realize that you wasted your teenage years. That you threw away your chance at a normal education, possibly even college. You tossed prom, homecoming, parties, & friends out the window. Those times are gone & you can never get them back. Maybe you’re older, maybe you threw your career away. You’ve probably *****ed your job record completely & there is no erasing this. You’ll regret this more than anything & there’s nothing you can do about it….& there’s nothing you can do to get back those wasted years. & do you know what? You probably won’t even remember most of what occurred during those years. I don’t.

You probably want this for the beauty, for the thinness. You probably hate yourself & think this is a way to fix it. Its not. Do you want to know about self-hate? Do you??? Then go ahead & start starving, because I can guarantee you that however much you hate yourself now, it’s nothing, NOTHING, compared with how you'll feel about yourself once you get in this. You will despise yourself; you'll hate yourself more than anything. You'll hate yourself more every single day. You're the lowest scum on the earth. You deserve death but death is too good for you. You're lower than murderers & rapists. Child molesters are better than you & no matter what torture you think of, you know for a fact that you deserve something worse.

But do you know what? Self-hatred is the least of your worries now. Because you've likely just signed your own death warrant...& you likely don't even care...yet. But you will. You will care. You will care & you will cry & rage & swear you'd give anything to take it all back. But it’s too late, because by the time you're in deep enough to care, you're already dying. Its too late to snap out of it now, no matter how much you want to.

[luke-p]

Starving yourself will not work because after you start eating your body will put it into fat/energy/reserves Thinking that your going to do it again and you could end up larger, You should eat Fruit veg fish meat and do about 1-2 hours of exercise per day

[sarey]

Then you'll panic & try & eat even less to compensate for not being able to work your *** off (simply a figure of speech, since you're not losing any weight, of course).

Oppsie, i swore.
It was in the post, shoulda edited.
Anyway, its meant to be the term of 'butt'. ;]
Not the other word referring to that. ;p
Anyways, yes, i apologise for that.

[AdamCookie!]

Hmmm, Sarah im speaking to you on MSN anyway so I won't reply too that.

Im not eating, I only had half a slice of bread because I kept going soo dizzy I fell over..

[Mentor]

If your planning to kill yourslef, you plans not to bad.

Although if you actualy want to loose weight, the longer you stop eating for the harder it will be, since your metabolism is slowly dropping, meaing your body will put on more and more weight the longer you stop eating for.

To sum it up, Not eating will make you fatter. Hence if you try this you are an idiot. Want to loose waight, stop being such a prat and eat ya meals.

[AdamCookie!]

Thanks for trying to help everyone, but I might aswell kill myself.

[Victimized]

You do know that if you starve yourself you'll PUT ON weight.

[Mentor]

If you not going to take any advice why the hell did you bother with this thread? Attention seeking is just annoying...

[sarey]

You do know that if you starve yourself you'll PUT ON weight.


At first, yes, but then you loose weight.
Have you seen pictures of anorexic people?
They are sickly.

Adam, we are on a computer, we cannot physically help you, if you want to kill yourself, i advice seeking professional help, if you just gonna ignore our advice and be stubborn, then close the thread and continue what you are doing, i've told you what will happen, you've said you wanted it, and want to die, so there isn't anything i can really do now, you want to die, you want to die like that, then be my guest, but you've been warned what will happen, and been told what to do otherwise.

[AdamCookie!]

If you not going to take any advice why the hell did you bother with this thread? Attention seeking is just annoying...

It's not attention seeking..

Im being deadly serious, and im not attention seeking.

My life is ***. Im fat, and people like to make me remember it every fking second of my life.. I don't care that im evading the stupid filter, go ahead mods.. BAN ME.

Yeah, call me what you like, because I won't need to take it for much longer.


Ostinato (Forum Moderator) - Please don't avoid the filter.

[sarey]

It's not attention seeking..

Im being deadly serious, and im not attention seeking.

My life is ***. Im fat, and people like to make me remember it every fking second of my life.. I don't care that im evading the stupid filter, go ahead mods.. BAN ME.

Yeah, call me what you like, because I won't need to take it for much longer.


So what, you'd rather just be made out of bones and have hardly any skin or fat on you to keep you going, rather than having fat and being healthy?
I am fat, i don't give a damn, i'd rather be fat than just skin and bones with a side dish of death.

You are asking for an eating disorder, so many would fricken love to turn back time and reverse what they did.

Soon enough, you will regret every second of what you are doing, or planning.

If you succeed at this, yes, you may well die, but that's what you want right? So, there isn't much people can say or do now, because looks like you have made up your mind.


He isn't attention seeking, he is asking for help, but Adam, we have offered you help, yet you are sticking to your oh so wonderful plan.

[Mentor]

It's not attention seeking..

Im being deadly serious, and im not attention seeking.

My life is fk'd. Im fat, and people like to make me remember it every fking second of my life.. I don't care that im evading the stupid filter, go ahead mods.. BAN ME.

Yeah, call me what you like, because I won't need to take it for much longer.


You are attention seeking, as proven by your responce to my comment, I dont know you, ive never met you, i dont know your ****. if you dont want to listen to peoples advice, if you dont want there help, then what other possible reason other than pure attention seeking is there for you to start lectureing everyone on it. Today in africa a few 1000 kids starved to death becuse they didnt have any option, so no im not going to feel sorry for some attention seeking little kid whos own fault it is...

[AdamCookie!]

Thats your opinion.. Sarah if you like you can share the PM that I sent you with everyone.

[sarey]

Today in africa a few 1000 kids starved to death becuse they didnt have any option, so no im not going to feel sorry for some attention seeking little kid whos own fault it is...


That is true.
Some do not even have a choice, yet you are asking for it.

I am not ganging up on you Adam, but i'm just pointing out that some don't have a choice, yet you are literley asking for it.

Explain to me on msn when you are back what you wanted to explain.


Thats your opinion.. Sarah if you like you can share the PM that I sent you with everyone.

Um.. ok:

*IMAGE REMOVED*

Ostinato (Forum Moderator) - Please do not post PM's on the forum.

[sarey]

Sorry for double post, thought the edit button was gone. o.O

[AdamCookie!]

Look, i've eat a little bit more now.. I'll start eating again, but it's not that easy.. I've ate a bit of a sandwich and feel really sick :(

[sarey]

Adam, trust me when i say that eating will more than likely make you loose weight faster than starving.
Starving takes longer, and by the time you do loose weight, you won't even see it, the illness - anorexia, takes over your brain and makes you insane, trust me.

Keep eating, and don't throw up or anything, keep it in you, don't starve yourself.

[AdamCookie!]

Im trying, im trying.

Thanks to people that helped, it's someone really special to me that made me realise something..

Although my head is still messed up.

[Drewar]

Look, i've eat a little bit more now.. I'll start eating again, but it's not that easy.. I've ate a bit of a sandwich and feel really sick :(
Man, you've only been fasting for two days. It should be /really/ simple to go back to eating.

I regularily do 3 day fasts/cleansings, and I've gone much longer than that. I am an ex MIA/ANA, and I am pro-ana and pro-mia.

2 Days is hardly even enough time to let your body adapt to not eating, therefore you should be able to eat no problem. The fact of the matter is, in order to be a good ana, you have to have will power, which you obviously don't if you caved after 2 days.

Sure, ana is not the healthiest way, and has lots of disadvantages, but if you are going to do it, do it right ;\

Best of luck,

~Drewar

[AdamCookie!]

It's not exactly hard..

But it just makes me feel really sick, but yeah.. At least im eating.

[Mentor]

Man, you've only been fasting for two days. It should be /really/ simple to go back to eating.

I regularily do 3 day fasts/cleansings, and I've gone much longer than that. I am an ex MIA/ANA, and I am pro-ana and pro-mia.

2 Days is hardly even enough time to let your body adapt to not eating, therefore you should be able to eat no problem. The fact of the matter is, in order to be a good ana, you have to have will power, which you obviously don't if you caved after 2 days.

Sure, ana is not the healthiest way, and has lots of disadvantages, but if you are going to do it, do it right ;\

Best of luck,

~Drewar
Granted 2 days is nothing, and shouldnt realy have any major effects, but alot of thats crap, Pro ana / pro mia is just a self delison to convince themselves that it takes will power to maintain not eating, why in reality, its becuse they have to little will power to start eating properly.
I kinda pitty the owners of the pro ana/mia site though, since i have a lower bmi than them, yet can still eat like nobodys busness o.0

[Ostinato]

Okay, this threads received a big response in just one day - 7 pages long is something to be proud of. This alone simply shows to me how much people do care, and how much people really are determined to ensure you are better and live happily, so for that, I want to congratulate everyone (hehe) and I also hope you can see this.

Now. As it's been made clear to you already, starving yourself is not the way outof your problem, and will in fact only worsen your problem. If you really are serious about losing weight, then you wont need to starve yourself.

If you honestly do care about your image that badly and are so determined to lose the pounds, I suggest you speak to your mother, and ask her to ensure you eat a health, nutrional meal each day. Aswell as this you should be doing some excercise each day - it's not as bad as it sounds, but at the end of the day this is the only way you will lose weight and stay healthy.

Think about it... You feel 'fat' and unhealthy at the moment... but by starving yourself your just going to feel extremely ill and even more unhealthy! It isn't worth it - trust me.

If your still feeling suicidal, or your even still so cut up about your weight problems, I suggest you perhaps get in contact with childline.

You can speak to a professional councellor for free, who will keep everything you say completely confidential, and who can help you get the correct help which you really need.

Please go to http://www.childline.org.uk/ for more info, or phone 0800 1111.

Good luck mate.

[sarey]

Ostinato, he said i can post that image, JEEZ.

[Ostinato]

Ostinato, he said i can post that image, JEEZ.

Sorry, but the rules are there for a reason and are set by Habbox Staff. Just because a member tells you to break a rule, doesn't mean it's ok. If he told you to create a racist post with loads of swearing in it, you know yourself you wouldn't do it and it wouldn't be acceptable - it's the same principle.

However, I'm only doing my job, nothing personal! <3

[AdamCookie!]

Ostinato, he said i can post that image, JEEZ.

Take it you got an infraction aswell as me? :rolleyes:

Ostinato in all fairness I said she could post it, I didn't know it was against the rules.. Give me the infraction for it, not her. <3

[sarey]

Take it you got an infraction aswell as me? :rolleyes:

Yes, my lovely dovely first infraction
Pfft, now i won't pass my mod application.

[AdamCookie!]

Yes, my lovely dovely first infraction
Pfft, now i won't pass my mod application.

Awww im sorry <3

This infraction business is getting out of hand, you infraction for anything.

I've got 5 infractions in the space of 5 hours, *rolls eyes*

[sarey]

lol, i jst dont, i didnt even kno it was against the rules if u had ther permission. -.-

[AdamCookie!]

lol, i jst dont, i didnt even kno it was against the rules if u had ther permission. -.-

Didn't know it was against the rules full stop, but I don't read rules sooo!

[sarey]

i know showin pms is against the rules
but i thought if u had the persons permission u wos aloud
OH WELL.
;/

[Mentor]

Sorry, but the rules are there for a reason and are set by Habbox Staff. Just because a member tells you to break a rule, doesn't mean it's ok. If he told you to create a racist post with loads of swearing in it, you know yourself you wouldn't do it and it wouldn't be acceptable - it's the same principle.

However, I'm only doing my job, nothing personal! <3

if your gonna try and inforce the rules, id advise acutaly reading them first.


for example in a Private Message or in a private forum, without the author's permission.
Notice the bit in bold, and then whos permission he had?

[smurf-you]

More you talk about it, more it sounds like attention.

Stop before it becomes a habit and we're all humans and equal, everyone is different, geehh i had spots on my head, didn't affect me in anyway.

[Bear-Max]

Don't not eat. (And don't use double negatives.)

Not eating will do you no good at all - and it certainly won't lose you as much weight as you would on pretty much any diet. Not eating means your metabolism doesn't get kickstarted. This means your body won't start breaking down fats properly into glycerol and fatty acids; which of course is essential for weightloss. You can't lose fat if it isn't being broken down.

Just try and stick to three regular, healthy meals a day, try doing a bit of daily exercise, and you'll do fine.

[Kardan]

Don't not eat. (And don't use double negatives.)

Not eating will do you no good at all - and it certainly won't lose you as much weight as you would on pretty much any diet. Not eating means your metabolism doesn't get kickstarted. This means your body won't start breaking down fats properly into glycerol and fatty acids; which of course is essential for weightloss. You can't lose fat if it isn't being broken down.

Just try and stick to three regular, healthy meals a day, try doing a bit of daily exercise, and you'll do fine.

Why did you bump? ;x

[entor M]

maybe he though the issue rased here is still relivant, and had something to contribute to it?

Plus what he said is true

[Bear-Max]

Why did you bump? ;x
Because health issues don't just disappear in a matter of weeks.

[:Hazel]

This thread is stupid. What sort of advice are people going to give? They are going to say "don't starve yourself" etc. *its bad for you, your damaging your body" which is plain obvious. Anyone even with a pea brain would know that. :rolleyes:

[Bear-Max]

This thread is stupid. What sort of advice are people going to give? They are going to say "don't starve yourself" etc. *its bad for you, your damaging your body" which is plain obvious. Anyone even with a pea brain would know that. :rolleyes:
Anyone with a pea brain would also know that comments like "Don't starve yourself" don't help in the slightest. Explaining HOW he is damaging his body by not eating and SUGGESTING ways he can go about getting healthy weightloss is what matters.

And calling a thread made by a person with worries and insecurities "stupid" is completely inconsiderate and downright rude. Go flame elsewhere.

[:Hazel]

Anyone with a pea brain would also know that comments like "Don't starve yourself" don't help in the slightest. Explaining HOW he is damaging his body by not eating and SUGGESTING ways he can go about getting healthy weightloss is what matters.

And calling a thread made by a person with worries and insecurities "stupid" is completely inconsiderate and downright rude. Go flame elsewhere.

It is obvious HOW he is damaging it anyone with a pea brain would know that too. :rolleyes: He knows the answers to his own post and has said that so why bother posting attention seeking crap like that in the first place?

[-Illusions]

i dnno if this is true but ifu dont eat ur body stores fat so u wouldnt lose weight
just eat healthy & play sports

[FlyingJesus]

I know this is an old thread that shouldn't have been pulled up again, but what the person above just said is absolutely true. Not eating doesn't make you lose weight on its own, it's actually been proven that not eating can make you put on weight (don't know how so don't ask).

[sarey]

I know this is an old thread that shouldn't have been pulled up again, but what the person above just said is absolutely true. Not eating doesn't make you lose weight on its own, it's actually been proven that not eating can make you put on weight (don't know how so don't ask).


Sometimes it can make you loose weight fast over time, but i think if you eat a bit during starvation, then your body hangs onto it, and thinks 'oh i dont know when he/she is next going to eat' and it hangs onto the food and reproduces it into fat for the body, as every body needs SOME fat, plus it does maintain heat for the body, hence why some people who are underweight are sometimes cold alot more than often.

Anorexia basically kills you in the end, you dont just loose weight and think 'ill stop now', because anorexia kicks in more so around then, and sooner or later, it kills you. So you wont even see it anyway, anorexia takes over your mind and makes you see a completely different image in a mirror, whether your skinny or fat, all you'll see IS fat. Plus you die, so you wont even get a chance to see your 'beauty'.

Just maintain a healthy diet, 3 healthy meals a day, and 1 or 2 snacks during the day and exercise frequently, its much more better than starvation and developing an eating disorder, ect.

This post is also for those who are thinking not eating is a good way to loose weight, its not, its utter and total torture.

[FlyingJesus]

Food's too good not to eat anyway.

[sarey]

Food's too good not to eat anyway.

Some have very strong willpower.

But yes, why waste months of your life not eating, when you could be eating and loosing weight much better than starving yourself from delicious food!

[@K]

So yeah.. I feel stupid but you know.

Im fat (No I really am..) so I've decided not too eat, I've not eat for 2 days. I know I should, but im not gunna.

I just need some advice, please, someone?


Don't do it, I didn't eat for 3 days because me and my girlfriend split up and I just felt like ****, and I lost half a stone and felt so ill.

[sarey]

Don't do it, I didn't eat for 3 days because me and my girlfriend split up and I just felt like ****, and I lost half a stone and felt so ill.

3 days?
I doubt that, it takes at least a week to go into starvation mode?

If you dont eat for a few days, then yes, you'll feel ill, but it takes a while to loose weight, not just 3 days.

[@K]

Nah I have a high matablsm anyways so I'm skinny, but even I was amazed at the weight.

[sarey]

Nah I have a high matablsm anyways so I'm skinny, but even I was amazed at the weight.


Well, you dont just really loose weight in 3 days just because you havent ate.
It takes a while for your body to go into starvation mode, usually you gain some first, and then you loose weight.

But whatever ;], everyone has different experiences when they 'experiment' with starvation.

[Bear-Max]

It is obvious HOW he is damaging it anyone with a pea brain would know that too. :rolleyes: He knows the answers to his own post and has said that so why bother posting attention seeking crap like that in the first place?
Maybe it's not obvious to him? Contrary to what you might think, there are people that have insecurities and need help. Not everyone with a problem is an attention seeker.

[:Hazel]

So yeah.. I feel stupid but you know.

Im fat (No I really am..) so I've decided not too eat, I've not eat for 2 days. I know I should, but im not gunna.

I just need some advice, please, someone?
[/B]



Maybe it's not obvious to him?

Point made.

[-Undiscovered]

So yeah.. I feel stupid but you know.

Im fat (No I really am..) so I've decided not too eat, I've not eat for 2 days. I know I should, but im not gunna.

I just need some advice, please, someone?


Sorry if you know its bad then why? and also it makes you fatter not eating, why not just llive on salads like i do and im doing ok.

[exploit]

Excersise, and a bit of dieting are what you need :)

[Metric.]

I don't eat sometimes.

[sarey]

Sorry for double post!

Lag on forum.
>.>

[sarey]

Of course, naturally sometimes you dont feel like eating.
But theres a differance between not wanting to eat and not feeling like eating.

The most important thing a body needs is food, and of course water, warmth and shelter. But by cutting of that supply, its very life risking.
Starvation can cause depression, eating disorders (anorexia nervosa, anorexia, bulimia) and can damage your insides.

Like ive advised, dont starve, eat the healthy standards of 3 meals a day, and a snack, have healthy fruit and yogurts, and exercise.

This is also advised to people who are thinking/planning/in the middle of starving themselfs to loose weight.

I think this thread should be locked as the thread starter is banned and im not sure if hes even aware this thread is still continuously being posted by us.

[Bear-Max]

Point made.
Knowing you should be eating and knowing what not eating does to your body are two completely different things.