Scared?

[PhanesGotPerm]

Ok for some reason like
whenever i go away from my family
weather its 1st day of school
or going on trip ( 2 1/2 hrs away from home )
or other things such as that when im alone without family or friends
( immediet family )

I like cry and get all sad =\
idk why

[lust]

hm maybe you just like being near home & having your family close -shrug-

[WHANGFACE]

It just seems as you get homesick easy. How old are you? It will probaly go away when you get older, as you will get more independant.

[Wayne]

Erm, home sick? I'm not sure.

[PhanesGotPerm]

Im 15 -.-
Like tommrow im going to a new school
and im really afraid
ill prob stay up crying/worring all night about it

[Wayne]

Im 15 -.-
Like tommrow im going to a new school
and im really afraid
ill prob stay up crying/worring all night about it

Don't worry about it, you'll make new friends etc. Show that you're cool and maybe all the kids and teachers will like you. I would be quite scared of going to a new school, since nobody knows you, and you don't know what to do. Don't worry, you'll be fine.

[WHANGFACE]

I think its because you're not very independant, I think. You normally get more as you get older, move out, get a job, and stuff.

Maybe you're just going through things a little bit later than most? I'm sure its nothing to worry about.

[PhanesGotPerm]

=\
Its not like im going to a new school where i dont know any1
its all my grade 9th graders are going to the new school
lol
but still i just dont know >.<

[Ostinato]

Well think about it!

All your life you've most likely been under the guidance of your close friends and family a lot, and you will have always been around people you trust, and it's very unlikely you've actually been seperated from either of your parents for a while, therefore it's understandable you are experiencing 'homesickness'.

There is no 'immediate' cure for this unfortunately. All I can say is, you need to start by taking breaks away from your family etc. and show how you can cope and manage without them being their to guide you constantly. Start off with a period of an hour, and gradually build it up until you should finally be able just to go places and do things without the need for someone you really know to be with you.

Good luck with starting your new school, as I think I've already said in another thread? :s Anyway, it's always difficult starting a new school but just try and be confident and get on with people and get conversations going with them!

[PhanesGotPerm]

Well think about it!

All your life you've most likely been under the guidance of your close friends and family a lot, and you will have always been around people you trust, and it's very unlikely you've actually been seperated from either of your parents for a while, therefore it's understandable you are experiencing 'homesickness'.

There is no 'immediate' cure for this unfortunately. All I can say is, you need to start by taking breaks away from your family etc. and show how you can cope and manage without them being their to guide you constantly. Start off with a period of an hour, and gradually build it up until you should finally be able just to go places and do things without the need for someone you really know to be with you.

Good luck with starting your new school, as I think I've already said in another thread? :s Anyway, it's always difficult starting a new school but just try and be confident and get on with people and get conversations going with them!

thanks ;)
you guys have helped a lot i guess

Like see every weekend i used to go to my friends house and stay the night
Stay up late playing halo ect

and then like 1 time i almost got sick O.o
and like now i cant even stay there i usually end up going home

[lust]

thanks ;)
you guys have helped a lot i guess

Like see every weekend i used to go to my friends house and stay the night
Stay up late playing halo ect

and then like 1 time i almost got sick O.o
and like now i cant even stay there i usually end up going home
i used to be like that, i couldnt sleep away from home. this was a few years ago though. i grew out of it.

[PhanesGotPerm]

Ya but idk i mean i really hate having this
because like last summer i went on a trip like 2 hrs away
and i could of said no i dont wanna go but i decided to do it to prove to my self that i could go through with it so i did :)

[lust]

Ya but idk i mean i really hate having this
because like last summer i went on a trip like 2 hrs away
and i could of said no i dont wanna go but i decided to do it to prove to my self that i could go through with it so i did :)
kl, and you were alright yh?

[PhanesGotPerm]

Ya i was fine but i was glad to get home lol


but still every year of school even though i know the building i cry cause idk
i guess it is home sickness

[lust]

Ya i was fine but i was glad to get home lol


but still every year of school even though i know the building i cry cause idk
i guess it is home sickness
aww you'll be finee! -pats on the back-

[PhanesGotPerm]

Yea but like when i was little i was even afraid i used to
like stand where all the lunch boxes where at school ( against a wall ) and i used to lie to my parents saying i watched the lunch boxes =\
when it was because i was sad i didnt want any1 else to come and laugh at me but that was like in 1-2nd grade

but like when i get to school ( now ) im fine once i find my 1st class and such ;) but still ill be fine tommrow cause i dotn have to run from Building a to e ( half day )
but monday ill be worried =[

[Ostinato]

Well like you've said, you know it's just the initial fear thing and you have proved to yourself before, more than once that you can do it!

I think it's all just a mind over matter thing.

The more you think about how much your going to miss them, then it's going to hurt and upset you more, but if you just try and block it out of your mind and be thinking about other things all the time, then you should be alright! Just try and keep yourself pre-occupied.

Good luck mate!

[PhanesGotPerm]

ty =]
any advice on what to do while im leaving my house tmz and getting onto the bus?

[PhanesGotPerm]

Like so i dont look like a baby infront of the neighbor hood kids?
=[
cause yea .......

[Orangeesh]

home sick.
i ws like that once when i was away for 3 weeks.
i was 7 at them time

[PhanesGotPerm]

ty gaz
as some1 said before im probbly going through it at a late stage..
like even as a lil kid i was almost 3 or 4 before i got all my teeth
and i finally just had to get my last baby tooth pulled like 2 weeks ago.




Still no answer on what to do when im leaving home

[Ostinato]

You could maybe just listen to an mp3 player or something, or just play a game with yourself?

Something like... see how many red cars you can count, or how many white doors you can count or something? lol...

[PhanesGotPerm]

LOL
i live at like the middle of the block
and all u got to do is go to the corner + go up a block lol
so i dont have time
but its a long ride there soo yea i mean i might have a few friends to talk too
but my friend who lives across the street is in 12th grade

he wont be at school 1st day or 2nd >.<
so yea

[PhanesGotPerm]

sorry bout double posting but i need advice =]


Um i dont wanna look like a baby infront of all the neighbors
or infront of ppl on the bus

so like idk i cant get school out of my mind if im going to it on a bus o.o
and like i think its gonna be the hardest thing tommrow how i have to go through the bag searches and such its gonna be annoying i might bust out in tears infront of every1 waiting inline cause im afraid of school

idk im just a big babyy =[

[Ostinato]

sorry bout double posting but i need advice =]


Um i dont wanna look like a baby infront of all the neighbors
or infront of ppl on the bus

so like idk i cant get school out of my mind if im going to it on a bus o.o
and like i think its gonna be the hardest thing tommrow how i have to go through the bag searches and such its gonna be annoying i might bust out in tears infront of every1 waiting inline cause im afraid of school

idk im just a big babyy =[

You just need to be strong, and if you think things are getting hard just think of a nice good time which you enjoy, or maybe think about how if you just get on with it the day will be over quicker and easier, then you can be home again.

[PhanesGotPerm]

Had a great day today :D
lol i got alot of friends in my classes

i know some1 to take me from each hour to hour lol
( not take me but some1 to go along with )

[luke-p]

Lol well glad that you had a good day :)

[Dudey!]

I go to boarding school, and i know what it feels like to be away from family, you'll get used to it as you get older. If it helps, you could keep a picture of your immediate family with you. Whenever you feel home sickness creeping on, pull it out. I Dunno might work. =]

[Ostinato]

Had a great day today :D
lol i got alot of friends in my classes

i know some1 to take me from each hour to hour lol
( not take me but some1 to go along with )

Aw I'm glad, I really am. Today when I was at school myself I had a wee thought about you and hoped everything would have turned out ok for you. :]

[MrGazet]

I go to boarding skool and yeah at 1st it was real tough.My home sick was kinda bad lol but after few months everythig's kl now.Juz gta be strong eventhou it's hard ;]

[123fisher123]

you jus need 2 go with out thinking about home ,, i was away from all my frinds and family for 1 month , doing an army trainin course , i found the easy way to cope with being away from home was not to think about it,,

[Muniflex]

i remember the first day i went to spanish school, i was nervous and scared about for a few weeks before because i didnt speak any spanish at the time, on the day i walked into my class and luckily for me there was a english kid infront of me, so i know just how you felt about school and im glad it worked out for you like it did me!

[Machine Head]

This happens to me aswell.

When I'm not near my parants, or don't know where they are etc, I always think they're in danger, or when I'm returning home to see them, they're hurt or something.

[ReInfected]

I usually dont like sleepovers cause im not used to the fact of not being out of my house and into a new bed or floor. Its normal for you to be scared. Its like taking an animal whos adapted to there father and mother and putting him as a petstore or shelter. Poor aniamls..Thats probably how they feel..

[-Soph-]

I used to get really bad homesickness when I was a bit younger, It will probably go over time, Theres no need to worry about going to your new school, I'm sure it'll be fine:)


and then like 1 time i almost got sick O.o
and like now i cant even stay there i usually end up going home

That happened to me once too, I still don't really like going to sleepovers, I prefer having them at my own house.