Scared?

[PhanesGotPerm]

Ok for some reason like
whenever i go away from my family
weather its 1st day of school
or going on trip ( 2 1/2 hrs away from home )
or other things such as that when im alone without family or friends
( immediet family )

I like cry and get all sad =\
idk why

[lust]

hm maybe you just like being near home & having your family close -shrug-

[WHANGFACE]

It just seems as you get homesick easy. How old are you? It will probaly go away when you get older, as you will get more independant.

[Wayne]

Erm, home sick? I'm not sure.

[PhanesGotPerm]

Im 15 -.-
Like tommrow im going to a new school
and im really afraid
ill prob stay up crying/worring all night about it

[Wayne]

Im 15 -.-
Like tommrow im going to a new school
and im really afraid
ill prob stay up crying/worring all night about it

Don't worry about it, you'll make new friends etc. Show that you're cool and maybe all the kids and teachers will like you. I would be quite scared of going to a new school, since nobody knows you, and you don't know what to do. Don't worry, you'll be fine.

[WHANGFACE]

I think its because you're not very independant, I think. You normally get more as you get older, move out, get a job, and stuff.

Maybe you're just going through things a little bit later than most? I'm sure its nothing to worry about.

[PhanesGotPerm]

=\
Its not like im going to a new school where i dont know any1
its all my grade 9th graders are going to the new school
lol
but still i just dont know >.<

[Ostinato]

Well think about it!

All your life you've most likely been under the guidance of your close friends and family a lot, and you will have always been around people you trust, and it's very unlikely you've actually been seperated from either of your parents for a while, therefore it's understandable you are experiencing 'homesickness'.

There is no 'immediate' cure for this unfortunately. All I can say is, you need to start by taking breaks away from your family etc. and show how you can cope and manage without them being their to guide you constantly. Start off with a period of an hour, and gradually build it up until you should finally be able just to go places and do things without the need for someone you really know to be with you.

Good luck with starting your new school, as I think I've already said in another thread? :s Anyway, it's always difficult starting a new school but just try and be confident and get on with people and get conversations going with them!

[PhanesGotPerm]

Well think about it!

All your life you've most likely been under the guidance of your close friends and family a lot, and you will have always been around people you trust, and it's very unlikely you've actually been seperated from either of your parents for a while, therefore it's understandable you are experiencing 'homesickness'.

There is no 'immediate' cure for this unfortunately. All I can say is, you need to start by taking breaks away from your family etc. and show how you can cope and manage without them being their to guide you constantly. Start off with a period of an hour, and gradually build it up until you should finally be able just to go places and do things without the need for someone you really know to be with you.

Good luck with starting your new school, as I think I've already said in another thread? :s Anyway, it's always difficult starting a new school but just try and be confident and get on with people and get conversations going with them!

thanks
you guys have helped a lot i guess

Like see every weekend i used to go to my friends house and stay the night
Stay up late playing halo ect

and then like 1 time i almost got sick O.o
and like now i cant even stay there i usually end up going home