Internet Dating?

[Muse]

What are your veiws on Internet Dating?

[MsTanya]

its a norrr for me

[Azul]

i think it's pathetic.

[lust]

boringgg

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[Jamie!]

uve gotta be messed up in the head to go out with someone u aint even met

[Aeon]

true, It depends if its possible to meet up with them too though.

CAUTION : MEETING WITH PEOPLE ONLINE HAS RISKS.

IM safety guru pls

[4chanminion]

*REMOVED*

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[Nixt]

It's stupid, in my opinion. I admit, people can become good friends over the internet.. yet it is impossible to form a real bond with someone because you don't actually really know them.

[mannequin-like]

i think internet datings fine.

[Nadgers]

I think its pathetic and just an excuse for not being able to do it in real life. Yes, friends can be made online but a relationship through text, webcam/mic now and then? No. Not something I'm for anyway, but whatever floats your boat.

[brandon]

I'm all for it, I go out with kkz,

[:]:]:]:]]

I don't like it.

Too boring.

[Brody]

its odd

[Ree...]

i internet dat bef coz shes buff xxxxxxxxxxxx

[Azza]

sure there was alrdypost b4 saying bout this somewhere ^^ *shrugs*

anyway i wud say internet dating is diff than rl deff ^^
Say internet is best for friends and not relationships but its ur choice
and real is for relationships + friends ^^
Though guess internet one cud be ok if u live close and that u no it aint some sick person ^^

[DMB-Hosting]

Real life is much better over internet, well technically internet is still real life but you know what i mean

Some people prefer inet dating tho, it gives them more confidence

[Ree...]

u carnt snog sum1 on da internet!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[lust]

boringgg

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i meant that as, internet datings boring pft.

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[Jamie!]

suppose it wud b alright if you met them on d internet then met them in r/l but tht hardly happens so yeah its pathetic goin out with someone u aint ever met

[beer]

Im all for it cos I got sarah <3.

[Jamie!]

Im all for it cos I got sarah <3.
have u ever met her in r/l?

[joshuar]

i wouldnt date someone i have never met over the net, and i only plan to meet 1 person over the net which i already have. possibly one more but thats yet to be seen.

it does have risks though m8 but i was talking to the person i met for well over a year, still risky but hey thats me

[lust]

i wouldnt date someone i have never met over the net, and i only plan to meet 1 person over the net which i already have. possibly one more but thats yet to be seen.

it does have risks though m8 but i was talking to the person i met for well over a year, still risky but hey thats me
people make out meeting people from the net a huge thing, its no different to meeting one of your mates mates that you've never met before..

[Nightrose]

Its okay, Im planning to meet like 1 more person soon so yay :D

[Uwe]

Net dating is cool :)
You get to know someone before meeting them ect ect.
I plan on meeting Jack soon [I know hes who he says he is and he knows Im who I say I am - we both have cams]
So yeah lol

[WHANGFACE]

well, i have before but its a bit uhh..

ill go out with someone on the net if i was gunna meet them, and i knew i would, as i have done.. but id much rather rl.

[beer]

have u ever met her in r/l?
Nope but we definetely plan to as soon as I have a drivers license :D. Im 18 so I should have soon.

[chavalater]

Net dating is cool :)
You get to know someone before meeting them ect ect.
I plan on meeting Jack soon [I know hes who he says he is and he knows Im who I say I am - we both have cams]
So yeah lol

Ditto, Its same here with me and aslong as i known thema long time and trust them and have seen them on cam and that i know who they are they know who i am and they live less than an hour away its not a big deal aslong as you go with some mates aswell dont just go on your own.
:)

[Jinxey]

I wouldnt exactly do internet dating however theres nothing wrong with it its upto people how they want to date.

[ilovejordan]

I would if we were going to meet in real life?

[cocaine]

I'm ok with itt

[:Hazel]

I only have mates online, I'd not date because I would prefer to know someone properly in real life first.

[Splinky]

It depends whether you have met them before.. or are going to meet them.. even though it is dangerous. Personally.. i think that if soomeone wants to do it, they can, I have done it like twice but i knew the person.

[JT-Fan]

Meeting is dangerous but if you've seen them on webcam and stuff.

[DMB-Hosting]

Webcam can be fake.

[Nightrose]

Its okay if your actually gonna meet :rolleyes: :eusa_shif

[:James:]

If I formed a really strong relationship/bond with them over the internet and then met them in real life, I would date them :]

[pepperoni nipz]

i think it's alright if you plan to meet

but otherwise it's pointless

[Cassandra!]

Webcam can be fake.

How can it?
I think its okay if you've known each other a while have a close bond andd your gonna meet up. I'd only net date if i'd seen them on webcam heard their voice and was sure about meeting up etc.

[Infractionized]

I think it's stupid because if you think about it if they go on habbo alot and stuff then the chances are they aren't the best looking spanner in the works eh? Or they a right weirdo.
Also people can hold back information over the internet and only chose to say things they want you to hear.
Also, i'd be asking the question of why are they askign to date someone over the Internet? Can't they get someone in real life?

[pepperoni nipz]

I think it's stupid because if you think about it if they go on habbo alot and stuff then the chances are they aren't the best looking spanner in the works eh? Or they a right weirdo.
Also people can hold back information over the internet and only chose to say things they want you to hear.
Also, i'd be asking the question of why are they askign to date someone over the Internet? Can't they get someone in real life?

i think that's *REMOVED*!
yeah lots of habbo people are ugly, but lots aren't.
some of the people on this forum are well good looking.

and that could be the case in some situations, but in others i think it's just that they've been talking to someone online who they get on with, just as well, or better than they do with people they know in rl
then they end up getting close to them and *REMOVED* :)

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[Ree...]

i agree wiv helen
ders well loads of ppl fit on habbo!

but
der is MORE ugly ppl den der is fit
but still
the fit ones are NIIIIIIIIIIIIICE

[Infractionized]

But there must be some reason why they don't have friends in real life heh?

[Cassandra!]

I think it's stupid because if you think about it if they go on habbo alot and stuff then the chances are they aren't the best looking spanner in the works eh? Or they a right weirdo.
Also people can hold back information over the internet and only chose to say things they want you to hear.
Also, i'd be asking the question of why are they askign to date someone over the Internet? Can't they get someone in real life?
I agree with helen when she says thats *REMOVED*.

A lot of people i know off the net don't even use habbo! And looks aren't everything. If you see them on webcam and still like them then its fine? tbh its hard to hold back information because things start appearing to indicate something is wrong.

I know for a fact i can tell people stuff on the internet that i find hard to in rl. I think its utter bs how you say "can't they get someone in rl" Like helen said some people on this forum are stunners & they would be able to get someone but maybe its not the right person? The internet just opens up more choices.

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[pepperoni nipz]

But there must be some reason why they don't have friends in real life heh?

um plenty of them have lots of friends in rl?

i've done the net dating thing before and i'm fairly popular in school :|

[pepperoni nipz]

The internet just opens up more choices.

exactly :)

[Infractionized]

Well i know of alot of people on here, who are on here pretty much 24/7 and they are really popular on here.
But you never hear them talk about their friends outside of the internet?

[Cassandra!]

Well i know of alot of people on here, who are on here pretty much 24/7 and they are really popular on here.
But you never hear them talk about their friends outside of the internet?

like who?
Its their choice if they want to spend time on the internet. Maybe they live too far from friends? Maybe they don't feel the need to talk about their friends all the time?

[Infractionized]

Umm they live in pretty big cities.

[Cassandra!]

um plenty of them have lots of friends in rl?

i've done the net dating thing before and i'm fairly popular in school :|

Yh exactly.
I've net dated and i know for sure im not a loner at school or w/e lmao.

[Cassandra!]

Umm they live in pretty big cities.
your point being?
I live in a big city. But not all my mates live near me.

[pepperoni nipz]

Well i know of alot of people on here, who are on here pretty much 24/7 and they are really popular on here.
But you never hear them talk about their friends outside of the internet?

name one?
and since when do we all post about our rl friends constantly.
most of us talk to them on msn/myspace/bebo when we're online, why would we post about them?


like who?
Its their choice if they want to spend time on the internet. Maybe they live too far from friends? Maybe they don't feel the need to talk about their friends all the time?

cassie talks much sense :)

[Infractionized]

I'm not naming names, coz that's not fair.
But it seems everything i say is going to have an answer.

[Cassandra!]

I'm not naming names, coz that's not fair.
But it seems everything i say is going to have an answer.

Exactly.
It is fair if you name names because no doubt they have answers too.

[pepperoni nipz]

you are right that SOME people who net date probably do it because they're ugly and have no rl friends
eg. Allan

but it's not fair to say all do.
when some of the people on this forum who do it, are really nice looking, and obv have plently of rl friends.

[:James:]

How can it?
I think its okay if you've known each other a while have a close bond andd your gonna meet up. I'd only net date if i'd seen them on webcam heard their voice and was sure about meeting up etc.A pedophile could be putting his niece/nephew infront of the webcam.

[Nightrose]

so what if u spend a lot time on the internet also theres a lot more people on there that could be bf material doenst mean u cant get somebody in rl, hell why does looks matter anyway i thought it was alove personanilty sp? and yes i do know some poeple that come on line 24/7 but who cares its up to them.Doenst mean they dont have friends in rl u see them in school or at work etc

[Cassandra!]

A pedophile could be putting his niece/nephew infront of the webcam.

I think you'd notice rofl.

[:]:]:]:]]

you are right that SOME people who net date probably do it because they're ugly and have no rl friends
eg. Allan

but it's not fair to say all do.
when some of the people on this forum who do it, are really nice looking, and obv have plently of rl friends.

lol helen

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[Tanya]

doesnt do it for me, i like the physical side [:

[Nightrose]

you are right that SOME people who net date probably do it because they're ugly and have no rl friends
eg. Allan

but it's not fair to say all do.
when some of the people on this forum who do it, are really nice looking, and obv have plently of rl friends.

helen thats not nice to say people are ugly, everyone has different taste in looks for people, for example one girl may like a guy who isnt the best looker,

[pepperoni nipz]

helen thats not nice to say people are ugly, everyone has different taste in looks for people, for example one girl may like a guy who isnt the best looker,

i'm not saying ugly people can't be in relationships?
just that they're ugly.

[Nightrose]

heh but what im sayin g is people see different people ugly for example someone might find me ugly and somebody else not :P

[Flumples]

I think its for people with low self esteem, so they find people they can type to instead of actually speaking to them ;>

[WHANGFACE]

I think its for people with low self esteem, so they find people they can type to instead of actually speaking to them ;>
I know people that net date but they take on the phone and stuff so..

[JT-Fan]

Yeah if they contact them in real life its different like juggle sed

[mxavier11]

suppose it wud b alright if you met them on d internet then met them in r/l but tht hardly happens so yeah its pathetic goin out with someone u aint ever met

I met someone on the internet we met after like 3 months of meeting on the net, I liked this person because of their personality and obviously I saw photos of her too, but as soon as we met I liked this person more, i dont think we were 'net dating' as such because by the time we had met we wern't like 'habbo boyfriend and girlfriend'. I ended up loving this person; and still do, so I guess if you've seen their photos and have chatted to them enough I say its ok to internet date as long as you do end up meeting** because why date if you are never gonna see the person face to face? doesn't make sense.

** I do not endorse meeting up unless you are not alone :)

check saftey me out :D

[Jcshua]

its ok if u mess around like omg ilu etc.

but dating is sick on internet.


r/l its kl.

[-Soph-]

It would be a bit boring in my opinion

[tan]

doesnt do it for me, i like the physical side [:

[Tyed]

doesnt do it for me, i like the physical side [:

Agreed, Plus for that person who said it gives you more confidence Like Wth, how does sitting in 24/7 "Flirting" With an online person/pixel give you confidence I would predict it would make you not want to go outside even more. Sitting in all day and not hanging out with ur Unpixel friends woudnt that just make it even worse?

Anyway w.e Its Pretty damn sad.

[Josh-H]

Nope but we definetely plan to as soon as I have a drivers license :D. Im 18 so I should have soon.

18 and still on habbo... PFFT

Anyway IMO you can make a good friendship online but I find it hard to believe that you can fall in love.

[WHANGFACE]

I dunno if I've posted it but.. I think it's ok if you know that you will meet up, and its not gunna be like once a year.

[shenk.]

Lol... i've been really lucky with it:

First person - nothing
Second - found she lives near me - SUCESS! lmao.
Third - No idea where she went.

Anyway... I think it's kinda lame now but when i was 13/14 it was fun and i even got a r/l girlfriend from it so it's all good ;)

[warn]

I don't understand internet dating in the slightest, you cant really know someone over the internet, i guess you just have to pluck up the courage to go and ask that girl you have always fancied, or bloke and ask them out.

[Simplicated]

tbh so many people do it on habbo :s i think its a waste of time just like when people pretend to be babies have brothers sisters mums dads etc its only because they want furni half of the time...

[!clarissax]

i cant get an org..............asm from internet d8in

[simon!]

You can't have a real relationship through a computer. A real relationship is where you'd wake up at 6AM just to pick her up from the airport or something, not waking up at 6AM just so you can go to Habbo Lido and go diving. Besides you get bored with online relationships. I did, Ive had about 6 online relationships, one person I met but thats it LOL

[:Hazel]

Nah, you don't know someone properly until you have met them in person.

[Flumples]

MY REAL LIFE BOYFRIEND LEFT ME FOR AN INTERNET RELATIONSHOP LOL

***.

[Pyroka]

Ive done it once, and its rather suckish really. That was about a year ago so yeah, its quite boring really. You cant do anything so whats the point in it? Seems more like a excuse to say "zomgz i have a girlfriend and u havent", 'accidentally' forgetting to mention that she probably lives 100 miles away from you.

[Splinky]

I have been in an internet realationship coz I felt really low.. but now I think its a farse. Im never gonna meet them, and how can you share affection (:>) Its quite pointless, and you dont know who they are, they could be 15 and they claim to be 12 etc..
Also, I believe that you should have a proper face to face conversation etc to have a good bond, so it is even hard to have an internet mate...

[cocaine]

Its good if you actually text/phone them, it becomes more personal.

[Tuch mi]

net dating is stupidddddddddddddddddd

[sally37]

I don't agree to internet dating but i have done it in the past tho

[Crowquill]

It can do alot of good for people, some people don't have enough confidence to actually approach someone in a pub/club and therefore being online they gain enough confidence to simply send them a message.

This however could also be bad, if someone hasn't the confidence to talk to you in a club. Would you really want to spend the rest of your life with them?

[immature]

Um, I net dated before, but like I met them irl. &We planned to meet alot more.

[camera]

Ive done it once, and its rather suckish really. That was about a year ago so yeah, its quite boring really. You cant do anything so whats the point in it? Seems more like a excuse to say "zomgz i have a girlfriend and u havent", 'accidentally' forgetting to mention that she probably lives 100 miles away from you.

whos da unlucky girl? ;)


i net dated once last year... i hated it. one reason y i hate it is wut ryan has mentioned. and the other reason is..... idk how to put it to words so yeah x]

[Shinigami]

I think its sad and wrong, especially on habbo.

[Shadow16]

My views on internet dating:-

Well to be honest i see nothing wrong with it but ONLY if you have actually seen/heard the person by Webcam/phone because in todays world you can't trust no-one over the internet anymore so just be safe if your internet dating and assure that you know the person your dating because it could be some pervy old man..

[-Dispute]

Desparite people internet date. end of

[Mentor]

Personly i wouldnt want to go out with someone ive never met?

[Pyroka]

whos da unlucky girl?

HARRRRSSHHH!!!!!!! Yeah internet dating is kinda depressing in a way.. :( I mean, when i used to do it i texted and called her like 24/7 x] OH IM SO ROMANTIC *COUGH!*

[camera]

HARRRRSSHHH!!!!!!! Yeah internet dating is kinda depressing in a way.. :( I mean, when i used to do it i texted and called her like 24/7 x] OH IM SO ROMANTIC *COUGH!*

HAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHA! i cant imagine u bein so romantic :$

[Anub'Rekhan]

Wrong...

[Felix$]

Meeting someone on the internet, then meeting them in real life for a date is okay, but dating over the internet is kinda weird.

[Just-One]

Internet dating never works and always ends in tears.

Advice : Go out in the real world for once and find a guy/gal. ;)

I have met people offline via the net mind you, however I am 18 so I am old enough to look after myself. No one under 18 should meet up with people they don't know from online!!! There are alot of nasty people out there, such as Becs.. I mean omg imagine if you chatted Becs up!!! :(

[Originalmoh]

Its for dumb people lol

Because you could be dating a rapist and he wouldnt send you his picture and you send him your pic next thing you know he asks you to meet him
and good bye to your bum lol and rest of your body :'(

[Kotu]

I don't really mind, whatever floats peoples boats. I guess for some people it may be one of the only ways they feel comfortable meeting people.

As long as you weigh up the risks, don't meet the people too soon in real life, and when you meet go about it safely the first couple of times then it's fine.

[Allan♥]

erm, i am on the fence really.
i've never net dated but i have urm like wanted to... then i noticed it's over the net and whatnot. It'd be very frustrating.

i think it is mostly for those who struggle to find real life partners. people lose their 'persona' over the net... in real life they may be very unattractive quiet and shy but on the net they can express theirselves and be whom they want.

i don't really like net dating.