How does anyone know if they're gay etc...

[Frisky]

Well, this girl said to me once (not directly but to person next to me) 'How does anyone know if they're gay if they've never tried it?' then she started saying how she would consider having sex with a girl to see if she liked it or not.

I mean shes completly right.

Everyone just assumes everyone else is straight. Its completly stupid. Most people are just like 'oh im straight, no question about it'
Yeah there might be urges but im talking about convinced straight people. Still you'll never know if you've never tried it, right?

Not that many people will.. just i thought maybe some people can relate to what ive just said ;]

Tah for readin'

Jamie x

[Callum.]

Being attracted to the opposite sex.

[Demi]

I've tried it, honesty.
I'm straight.

[Browney]

I have NOT tried it, so I don't know.

[FlyingJesus]

Doing it has nothing to do with it, if you're attracted to people of the same sex then you're gay (or possibly bi). Going by your rule you'd also have to try every single fetish and every single hole that's available just to check if you like it or not.

[DiscoPat]

I tried it.. mentally.. I didnt like it so im not gay..

[FlyingJesus]

bet u werrnt finkin ov me ;) if u woz den ud b turned

[DiscoPat]

lol, maybe :P

[Casanova]

Lusting after the same sex, where you feel sexually attracted to one or more sex's determines your sexuality.

[8Freak8]

Lusting after the same sex, where you feel sexually attracted to one or more sex's determines your sexuality.
Although in teenagers it can change, so they should refrain from classing themselves as gay/straight/bi until they're completely sure that it's not a phase.

[Casanova]

I totally agree, but i believe in following your heart and your deep-down thoughts as no matter what they're always right. You can lie to yourself, but the truth will always be there in your heart, or the part of your brain involving sexual attraction.

All i can really say, is experiment if you can ;)

[MusicPalace]

for me i was attracted to both sexes and so i jus kind of knew...and then i kissed 2 girls and so now i like really now. I guess like getting physical would really help to determine your sexuality, like you could definatly tell better. But me c i've got to kiss a guy and c if i like it...thats how i plan to determine my sexuality. Kiss a girl and kiss a guy...which one do you like, which do you not like, do you like both? see here you don't have to have sex...:P

[king_maxx]

OMG SO TRUE!

like if you havent tried it how do you know. Of course you have too see it my way, how do you dont like killing gays if you havent tried it and hell why not, how do you know you dont like beating up black kids until you have tried it. Thanks gave me a much better perception on gays :)


Max

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[MusicPalace]

uhm...idk if that was sarcasime, but i wouldn't try either one of those lol.

[benjamin]

OMG SO TRUE!

like if you havent tried it how do you know. Of course you have too see it my way, how do you dont like killing gays if you havent tried it and hell why not, how do you know you dont like beating up black kids until you have tried it. Thanks gave me a much better perception on gays :)


Max
you're really sick?

and um well i was attracted to men, lol. all i can say is if you're curious, try experiment.

[king_maxx]

you're really sick?

and um well i was attracted to men, lol. all i can say is if you're curious, try experiment.


Aye yes and If anyone is curious about abortion or cannabalism please go right ahead

[MusicPalace]

dude just get out of this forum section...all i've seen you do on like all the threads is joke around,make fun of people, you just cause trouble, dude just leave like before all of us hate you...that won't b too much fun for you, stop ruin this thread and all the others.

Anyways again in different words you know without doing anything physical, but your not like 100% sure, physical things just help you to be sure of your sexuality. Thats only what i think though.

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[king_maxx]

[quote=MusicPalace;2805770]dude just get out of this forum section...all i've seen you do on like all the threads is joke around,make fun of people, you just cause trouble, dude just leave like before all of us hate you...that won't b too much fun for you, stop ruin this thread and all the others.

Comment withdrawn, take care

[StripedTiger]

took me a while but ive fallen in love with 2 people in the past 2 - 3 years (both same gender as me). and i dont mean lust i mean proper love ^^ id die for them, id go to heaven and hell for them if i had to.

[Frisky]

OMG SO TRUE!

like if you havent tried it how do you know. Of course you have too see it my way, how do you dont like killing gays if you havent tried it and hell why not, how do you know you dont like beating up black kids until you have tried it. Thanks gave me a much better perception on gays :)


Max


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[DarkSound]

dont put it down unless uve tried it altho i wudnt try it, incase i liked it

[danlee15]

people no there gay or les wen they look at someone who is the same sex and likes wat they c

[Lukeh]

Tried both ways.

I know which I prefer :)

Even before that, I knew I had a strong physical and mental attraction to males, you dont need to experience the physical side of stuff, your brain is just as powerful

[unit]

I knew I was gay the day I saw a naked woman.

[Paulio]

i wouldn't be able to try it, id be sick..

[Psychonaut]

DON`T KNOCK IT `TIL YOU`VE TRIED IT.

haha nah, it`s more about love than sexual urges for me. i dunno.

[Lozzoling]

I knew I was gay the day I saw a naked woman.

LOL sorry you made me snort

+rep

[Samishlol]

I did stuff with both and i found i kinda liked iwth more with the boy. But i think i'm now bi then gay

[Virgin Mary]

I'm pretty sure that, logically, you're gonna prefer the sex to which you are subconsciously attracted. Unless you're truly bisexual, but then people are always like 60% gay 40% straight or whatever.

[liquid]

enjoying the sex is nothing to do with it.

[CJW93]

Havn't tried either but im not going to have sex with a boy thats just plain wrong imo

[lew!]

I could say being straight is plain wrong. Its opinions tbh.


Im like 70% gay and like 30% lol.. Im bi but i prefer bein gay. and im probberly a little camp.. NO I DONT HAVE THE ANNOYING VOICE..! but i like singing.. dancing.. good fashion sense LOL

[Mentor]

Well, this girl said to me once (not directly but to person next to me) 'How does anyone know if they're gay if they've never tried it?' then she started saying how she would consider having sex with a girl to see if she liked it or not.

I mean shes completly right.
Im gona disagree and say thats stupid, within the limits of bicuriousy and the general norms with sexually in a given society, telling if your preference is towards men or women doesnt requre you to have sex with both.

I could ask, how do you know you dont want to have sex with goats?
From the above your answer would have to be, you need to try having sex with a goat to find out.

To a normal person though, im pretty sure its quite easy to tell weather you find a goat sexually attractive or not and thus determine that you probably wouldn't want to have sex with it. The same is true with both men and women, straight people find those of the oppersit sex, sexually appealing. And those of the same sex, not sexually appealing. Because of this its quite easy for them to tell, theyed rather have sex with the oppesit sex than the same sex. Homosexuals tell in pretty much the same way, the same sex is attractive, the oppesit sex is not attractive.

Normal people REALLY dont need to **** everything that moves... or even some stuff that doesnt, just to be able to tell if they want to have sex with it or not...
Although, maybe im wrong? maybe you do need to **** every animal in the zoo to find out weather you like it or not? But im reasonbly sure that isnt the case for the great majorty of humans.

[WarezKid]

Im gona disagree and say thats stupid, within the limits of bicuriousy and the general norms with sexually in a given society, telling if your preference is towards men or women doesnt requre you to have sex with both.

I could ask, how do you know you dont want to have sex with goats?
From the above your answer would have to be, you need to try having sex with a goat to find out.

To a normal person though, im pretty sure its quite easy to tell weather you find a goat sexually attractive or not and thus determine that you probably wouldn't want to have sex with it. The same is true with both men and women, straight people find those of the oppersit sex, sexually appealing. And those of the same sex, not sexually appealing. Because of this its quite easy for them to tell, theyed rather have sex with the oppesit sex than the same sex. Homosexuals tell in pretty much the same way, the same sex is attractive, the oppesit sex is not attractive.

Normal people REALLY dont need to **** everything that moves... or even some stuff that doesnt, just to be able to tell if they want to have sex with it or not...
Although, maybe im wrong? maybe you do need to **** every animal in the zoo to find out weather you like it or not? But im reasonbly sure that isnt the case for the great majorty of humans.


Good points, but we dont really need to know about the goat part :P


Funny as well, REP+

[Frisky]

Some people just go over the top to prove people wrong :P

I mean.. who ***** goats anyway? When was a goat involved? Any sain person would know I was talking about HUMANS. y'know.. those things? Might not see many of them in ur life xx

[Mentor]

Some people just go over the top to prove people wrong :P

I mean.. who ***** goats anyway?
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/africa/4748292.stm


When was a goat involved? Any sain person would know I was talking about HUMANS. y'know.. those things? Might not see many of them in ur life xx
Where talking about human sexualty, human sexualty is a very broad spectrum, chances are theres at least some people in to anything. From car (in a sexual way) to goats, food or what ever else.

If your saying you can tell if you find somthing sexually attractive without haveing sex with it, assumeing you havent ****** your toaster your obviously dont know if you find it sexuallty attractive.

I assumed the goats example was obvious enough for everyone, but it appears not for you. You havent tryed ******* a goat (i hope) so HOW can you know weather or not you want to have sex with one? People/goats makes no difference on this issue.

I assumed like a normal person the fact you probably wouldn't want to **** a goat would be quite apparent, thus u could see you can very easily tell if you find somthing, human or not, sexually attractive. To me, men and goats both look equally unattractive, which leads me to the assumption im probabaly not gay. But since you lack the ability to tell via this method which most humans seem to have a grasp on, i pitty any zoo you happen to visit...

[Frisky]

Lmmfaaao at you :)
I knew you'd waste your time replying some huge paragraph..

Pathetic Habboxians.

[Charlie]

I'd say you'd find someone sexually attractive if you looked at them or thought about them in a way that turned you on or whatever.

Therefore, I know I am gay because I thought about it, and I know that thinking about guys that way doesn't do anything for me, whereas for the same sex, it's different. Having sex with someone doesn't prove that your sexually attracted to that sex because you'd need to like the person to like the sex in a way to know that you enjoyed it. Having sex with someone of the same sex doesn't prove anything.

[Frisky]

Yeah, I realised that like on page 1. I think I said something about it also...? I have no idea.
anyway, yeah i get what your saying rawries ^_^

[Stephen]

When your watching gay tv and the next moment your humping the screen? :S

[today]

When your watching gay tv and the next moment your humping the screen? :S
Then you'll break it. ;[

[Alkaz]

During puberty alot of boys go through a patch of feeling gay/bi attracted to the opposite sex but it dont normally last that long and you will almost grow out of it. But some people are actually gay/bi and know they are before they go through this period in life. Being gay/lesbian isnt something you gain, it is something you are born with. Most people get the gene that attracts them to the opposite sex but some people get the gene that attracts them to the same sex. You could say it was a default gene but these days whats normal anyway. Alot of older men well into their 40's realise they are gay, they have a wife and kids but just sort of come out the closet and leave everything behind because they arnt happy. Alot of the time you either know your gay or you dont its simple. Alot of ''straight'' people could ''turn'' gay at an older age. I supose its just a delayed thing, not realisign your gay or w.e

:)

[Burns]

atracted to de opsit sex.. lol

[Hopeless]

You know if your attracted to the same sex..

if you dont like it... it still mean your gay.. but just fridgid at the same time..