Feeling Suicidal and worse :S

[Moh]

I have ginger hair, and Every sinble day of school I rather get left out cos of it, or Called Ginner etc..
I makes me think that im different, and that i shouldnt be here. I some times want to take a knife into school and Stab every one who has said something about me. Now I know how murderers Start, by getting bullied cos of having a different coloured hair :S
This is the main reason I go on Habbo etc.. cos I know people wont Judge me cos I have Ginger hair, What should I do?

Also, Its not just name calling, I get:
- Pused around (Im small)
- Wacked
- Attacted

Just because Im Quiet and Im a Ginner, well thats there reason :(

[omgDAN!]

Ignore them - tell someone - fightback - dye your hair.

[StainCast]

I wouldn't reccomend dying your hair. A kid from my school did it and it looked ridiculas. Leave it the colour that it is.

I would, however advise that you get yourself a new hairstyle? Many of my friends that have ginger hair find it hard to style their hair. They come to school with it short, orjust left the way it was when they got up - that looks absolutely awful.

Try looking through some magazines and look for a hairstyle that you think would suit your hair. Somthing like a small, discreet mohawk looks good with ginger hair. Have it styled as you like it and ask your hairdresser what they think about it. Try somthing new.

As for the bullies - I know it doesn't sound cool, but seriously dude, tell someone. Tell a teacher. I think that it would probably that it would be a better idea that you see a teacher rather than your parents so they don't blow everything out of proportion. Just ask to remain completey annonymous and get them to sort the bullies out.

Good luckkk! Hope i helped!

Jooo xxx

[king_maxx]

I have ginger hair, and Every sinble day of school I rather get left out cos of it, or Called Ginner etc..
I makes me think that im different, and that i shouldnt be here. I some times want to take a knife into school and Stab every one who has said something about me. Now I know how murderers Start, by getting bullied cos of having a different coloured hair :S
This is the main reason I go on Habbo etc.. cos I know people wont Judge me cos I have Ginger hair, What should I do?

Also, Its not just name calling, I get:
- Pused around (Im small)
- Wacked
- Attacted

Just because Im Quiet and Im a Ginner, well thats there reason :(


I suggest you dye your hair or possibly try the knife idea? :P ;)

[dirrty]

tell a teacher - if its bad but not bad
tell ur parents - if its bad
tell police - if its REALLY bad

dont dye ur hair cause ppl will make fun out of u cause u died ur hair. happened at my school at someone.

stick up for urself. they only pick on u cause they know u wont do anything.

and killing urself is the wooses way out and if u stab urself and dont die, u could be paralyzed or w.e

[Kardan]

Right, I'm ginger, ad I was quiet when I was at school, just don't dye your hair. This ginger kid did it, and you could see the ginger under the black and then the ginger grew back etc.
Just ignore them, names anyway, I got it from kids that were two/three years younger then me...
You could just say something back 'Hey, at least I know your not colourblind' or something cheesy like that... :rolleyes:
If you get bullied (pushed etc) best thing to do is tell a teacher, older sibling, adult etc. If you feel suicidal you could call a helpline up...

[Stephen]

They pick on you because your small i get it and im small and quite quiet. As my mum used to say "they are only jealous" :P If there quite tall then why don't you tell em to pick on soemone their own size? ALso they just pick on you because your small and some taller people think that small people are weak and easy to pick on. I don't think there doing all of this because you have ginger hair, but just because your small and an easy target because as i said they think small people are weak. Maybe just ignore them or just stay right away from them? theres no point dying your hair. My mates ginger and he just jokes around when someone calls him it try doing that maybe they'll ease off on the ginger remarks.. If none of that helps then tell a teacher and im sure they'll keep a good eye on them ;) Hope that helps :)

[Moh]

Its not the name calling, its the point I get attacked for no reason Every Day

[FlyingJesus]

Errrr I'm ginger and I'm one of the most popular kids about, so that's clearly not your problem.

[:Hazel]

I think to bully someone about hair colour is sad, them people must have real issues. Just tell someone if the bullying is that bad. You are you and don't change because of some idiots.

[Overdose]

Dye it, where I am nearly everyone had their har dyed anyway.

[BL!NKEY]

Maybe bleach your hair then dye it so the ginger doesnt show through.

Also maybe change schools so you can start over new.

[joejimbop]

I have ginger hair, and Every sinble day of school I rather get left out cos of it, or Called Ginner etc..
I makes me think that im different, and that i shouldnt be here. I some times want to take a knife into school and Stab every one who has said something about me. Now I know how murderers Start, by getting bullied cos of having a different coloured hair :S
This is the main reason I go on Habbo etc.. cos I know people wont Judge me cos I have Ginger hair, What should I do?

Also, Its not just name calling, I get:
- Pused around (Im small)
- Wacked
- Attacted

Just because Im Quiet and Im a Ginner, well thats there reason :(


I am also a ginger kid
I don't usually get bullied about it.
Just ignore them don't change.
If it's that bad go tell someone.
Don't let them get to you, don't care about their opinion and just be yourself.

[Charlie]

Just ignore them, if they going to take the mick of your hair, obivously they aren't worth your time. So, just laugh it off, and carry on with whatever your doing. If they see that you are laughing it off, they could see it doesn't get to you as much as it use to, and they'll probably just stop doing it.

The same thing happened to me, i use to have the mick taken out of me because of certain things, but i just started to laugh it off, and treated it like a joke, and they started to do it less, because it wasn't as bad as they wanted it to be.

And, if your feeling sucidical because of it, you need to tell someone at school what they're doing, as well as someone at home because of how your feeling before you do something bad because of it.

[beer]

I used to get bullied a lot @ primary school (years and years ago). Also at my first high school. At primary school I ended up on anti depressants and had 2 change schools. Then at high school I ended up getting kicked out cos I got so peed off at everyone. When I got in2 my second high school I made a load of friends and everything died down. Also you're a nice guy. I got u on MSN and ur ace to talk 2 and there when I need a friend. Dont let them get u down. Tell a teacher, ur parents, any1 that could help. Good luck!

[Krusty]

they pick on you.
say summat bak.
someone was callin me names so i called em fat. and he shut up after that =S shows how weak they are

[DiscoPat]

Tell a teacher, and just have a laugh about it - you know there is nothing wrong with being ginger. We have a ginger guy in out school - we say hey ginger etc he knows we're joking etc and we just have a laugh etc.

[omgDAN!]

say:
I could dye my hair but you will be always be an idiot/ugly/stupid/thick/dim.

[Jamie!]

Seriously, don't dye your hair... you will get bullied about it even more!

[Blasted105]

Gosh sorry to hear that Jack.The best thing to do is go to a teacher or someone important like headmaster and report every single one of them.

You should be able to live life without the fear of being bullied or attacked.Stay strong buddy think of yourself as special and cool.Your unique in a good way stay strong :D

[Kanker.]

Dye your hair i laff at ginger's habbit [:

I guess i bully them myself. Ahh well

[T0M]

Stick up for yourself :)

[Moh]

Im Small, so If I do anything, I end up coming out worse, and they all do it in Gangs. I got my sister onto them once, when she saw them push me, but that just made it worse. I wouldnt mind it if it was only once a day, but I get it in:
- Every Lesson
- Dinner
- Break
- Out of School
- In PE, I prefere Computers etc.. than PE, so I get left out. I just fell like I shouldnt Be here :(

[Jamie!]

Im Small, so If I do anything, I end up coming out worse, and they all do it in Gangs. I got my sister onto them once, when she saw them push me, but that just made it worse. I wouldnt mind it if it was only once a day, but I get it in:
- Every Lesson
- Dinner
- Break
- Out of School
- In PE, I prefere Computers etc.. than PE, so I get left out. I just fell like I shouldnt Be here :(

Change schools? Or you could just stick your napper on one of them.. :P

[Caution]

Don't change yourself just cos' of a few losers that have nothing better to do than skyve and annoy people.

[BL!NKEY]

Don't change yourself just cos' of a few losers that have nothing better to do than skyve and annoy people.

Actually It might be a lot better for her if she did dye her hair because obviously that is what people are picking on her the most for.

I know someone who wasnt that popular at our jr high then she dyed her hair to blond and went through puberty and now she has lots more friends in high school and is happier. It might not be morally right but she might be a lot happier.

[Royksopp]

I have ginger hair, and Every sinble day of school I rather get left out cos of it, or Called Ginner etc..
I makes me think that im different, and that i shouldnt be here. I some times want to take a knife into school and Stab every one who has said something about me. Now I know how murderers Start, by getting bullied cos of having a different coloured hair :S
This is the main reason I go on Habbo etc.. cos I know people wont Judge me cos I have Ginger hair, What should I do?

Also, Its not just name calling, I get:
- Pused around (Im small)
- Wacked
- Attacted

Just because Im Quiet and Im a Ginner, well thats there reason :(

meh people tend not to mind me and i'm ginger im quite short but.... i'm really loud so maybee it's that they want you to speak a little more :S

[-Undiscovered]

Hit em back?

Eat cheese and protein to grow aswell, noobs like that dont deserve to live.

[Krusty]

people at my skl call this ginger hair girl
mustard burger


tis fuunny but mean

[TurtleJuice]

Well i know ginger people who have loads of friends so its not the whole hair colour thing thats the reason. The best way to become popular Is start being Funny or joining a sports team. Telling anybody you're suicidal or want to kill people at school won't help , somebody will leak it and you'll look wierd.

[Niall!]

In regards of what you said that you don't feel like you should be here

in the words of a wise hedgehog

"everything exists for a purpose"

[TopManTim]

well one of my best mates is ginger (he is also small) an for christmas one of the things i got him was this book called 'the ginger suvival guide'. i got it sort of as a joke but then it turned out to be really useful for him cos before then when he bumped into like some year11's then they said to him "wow watch out you nearly set me on fire"

o also scotland has the most gingers in so move there if all else fails :P lol

also DONT die your hair this dude in my year did that an it looks AWFULL all the gingers startin to grow back ect.

[Minix]

People don't get bullied because they're ginger.

People get bullied because they aren't entirely sociable or are different for whatever reason, in a lot of cases...

Being ginger just gives another thing to rip on. It doesn't really mean anything. I rip on all my mates for being chubby/curly/short, and they do the same to me (I'm slightly geeky :})

If you are being proper bullied then try and be more sociable. Quoting family guy, "Win your enemies over with implacable kindness". This does actually work, a kid at our school used to be bullied, but then he came into school and started being really sociable and happy. People gave up.

In my opinion, if you really think your hair is the problem, then style it or get a haircut because tbh, no-one can stand a kid with absolutely **** hair among other things. If your hair is at a current mid-length with absolutely no shape, then that's awful, because you should just get it cut short regularly or grow it long rather than getting it cut from mid length to bald every six months.

Stupid idea: Wear a wig.

[yessaJOSH.]

One of my b.m's is ginger. He floored 'em and it didn't happen again. :D

[2hd.]

Not that violence is the best thing, but next time,

Whack one in the groin, one in the mouth and make your face look really angry. You might think that they are going to beat you up, but they won't and they'll just see they've taken it too far.

[Breakfloor]

Errrr I'm ginger and I'm one of the most popular kids about, so that's clearly not your problem.

it can be.. a boy at my school has been bullied ever since junior school because he was ginger. he died his hair not its blonde but it looks even worse. its got brown ginger and blonde bits evrywhere it seriously dont look right. i done a sort of report for extra credit thing in my school and i done bullying and i hang around with some bullys and wrote down evrything they did and then added it all up at the end of the day and seriously they pick on anyone who gets in there way. they're useless when it comes to a teacher tell a teacher if they dont stop tell your parents and if they carry on call the police. if they bully you and you go home with bruises you can get them arrested on assault. and if they keep going you can get them for harrasment. try it, it works. :D

Dont give up on life, you only have one. Good luck with sorting the bullys out!

[Simplicated]

Im Small, so If I do anything, I end up coming out worse, and they all do it in Gangs. I got my sister onto them once, when she saw them push me, but that just made it worse. I wouldnt mind it if it was only once a day, but I get it in:
- Every Lesson
- Dinner
- Break
- Out of School
- In PE, I prefere Computers etc.. than PE, so I get left out. I just fell like I shouldnt Be here :(

No offence but im going to take a wild guess in school are you the quiet type that doesnt talk much rather than the loud person with lots of cofidence because thats more likely the reason you just need to show them that you wont take it, as much as you dont want to do it hit one of them if u dont and just take it everyday it will NEVER stop and i dont mean just for school i mean throughout your whole life.

Also i have to agree with minix 100%

[Metric.]

i have blonde hair.
i don't know what ginger hair looks like

brown
?

[3420]

I got ginger hair too, Look dude.. I know how you feel I was bullied for it for 4 Years... but now they still take the **** obviously but as not as much.. Dude be proud of your hair like meh ^-^.. Your going to have ignore them, like i had to... Plus my ginger hair is long ;P It's a emo cut lmao.. xD But still some people don't really care, just please ignore thats what i had to do.

[Animate]

Personally I suggest suicide. Your life isn't going to get much better with that attitude and if you just killed yourself now it would take away alot of pain.

Not to mention it would make alot of people happy, by the sounds of it people don't like you. If you killed yourself, well they would be a little more happy.

I'm sure your parents would be happy too, you complain to much and spend far to much time on the computer by the sounds of it...

Go to your medicine cabinet, grab pills of every colour... and down them all with a nice cold glass of death.

Best of luck!!!

[lew!]

tbh, if you are REALLY sad ect,

wear horrible clothes ect, then your bound to.
Just wear some nice clothes, Go to the gym now and again and train so when they do have a go at you, just punch them or something, they wont pick on u again! =]

[hit1]

They pick on you because your small i get it and im small and quite quiet. As my mum used to say "they are only jealous" :P If there quite tall then why don't you tell em to pick on soemone their own size? ALso they just pick on you because your small and some taller people think that small people are weak and easy to pick on. I don't think there doing all of this because you have ginger hair, but just because your small and an easy target because as i said they think small people are weak. Maybe just ignore them or just stay right away from them? theres no point dying your hair. My mates ginger and he just jokes around when someone calls him it try doing that maybe they'll ease off on the ginger remarks.. If none of that helps then tell a teacher and im sure they'll keep a good eye on them ;) Hope that helps :)
I lol'd. Whyd they be jealous?

Anyway ignore em, stop in 5/10 years dont dye your hair tho =D You wont be classed A naturaul.

[-Soph-]

I like ginger hair, just act like you find it ammusing, whatever you do, don't show them that it gets to you and upsets you, if you do what I say, they'll soon get fed up and give up.

[Munky]

Ignore them - tell someone - fightback - dye your hair.

Dying his hair would show signs of weakness.

[GoldenMerc]

With the ginger:
The best thing to do is ignore,When was getting bullied i didnt the stupidest things and quitted school for 4-5 months,The hardest thing i have EVER done is went back in,If you just ignore them they will pick on someone else.

With them pushing you and attacking you,Ether ignore,hit them back,tell a teacher and your parents.

[lilvix2k7]

dont dislike ur ginger hair flaunt it! go around school with your head held high ! my mum has ginger hair and im well jealous ! i have 2 die my hair blonde all the time and then you get roots coming through its disgusting! u should be pround of your hair its gorgeous and it will always stay the same colour be proud and when people laugh and call u ginger jus think about their hair and laugh to urself because yours will always be a gorgeous colour

[Ostinato]

I have ginger hair, and Every sinble day of school I rather get left out cos of it, or Called Ginner etc..
I makes me think that im different, and that i shouldnt be here. I some times want to take a knife into school and Stab every one who has said something about me. Now I know how murderers Start, by getting bullied cos of having a different coloured hair :S
This is the main reason I go on Habbo etc.. cos I know people wont Judge me cos I have Ginger hair, What should I do?

Also, Its not just name calling, I get:
- Pused around (Im small)
- Wacked
- Attacted

Just because Im Quiet and Im a Ginner, well thats there reason :(

Okay. First of all, just because you have a certain colour of hair and maybe arn't as confident as other people - it is no excuse to be, or accept, bullying. Deep down, you know yourself you are being bullied - so why are you putting up with it? I suggest you go and speak to someone you can trust - whether it be a parent, teacher or family friend. Just explain the situation to them, that at school you are being pushed and attacked and you feel it is because your hair and because your a bit quiet. Trust me - telling someone will help as I have seen happen with people I know myself.

I understand you may be a bit apprehensive in the sense "If I tell it'll get worse" but a lot of the time that isn't the case. If, after you tell, the bullying does continue then simply go and tell someone again. Eventually, these people will get the message that they can't just bully someone.

Always remember, a bully has usually been bullied themselves. Although physically you may be weaker - mentally you are stronger as you do not need to go around attacking people to make yourself feel big.

Finally, suicide is never the answer to your problems. It is simply the cowards way out and you will not only be hurting yourself, but your family and friends. You need to learn to stand up to, face and overcome your problems in life - and this is the first big chance for you to do so. By commiting suicide it is simply a case of running away and letting the bullies win - so don't. Show them your not going to let them beat you, and tell someone.

Don't worry, thousands of children get bullied every day of their life at school - so you arn't alone. I know it's hard, but you just need to stick in there, tell someone and overcome the lot of it. There IS a whole bigger and much more enjoyable life ahead of you, so please do not give up on it.

[DCeption]

I like having ginger hair :P Makes me differnt. My mates **** around which is funny, and i have a laugh back at them. Just get a decent hair style. I got bullied by a group of lads, cause im ginger, so i just hit the sods :) They soon learnt to stop.

But i dont think being ginger is just your problem. I have alot of mates at skool etc. I think you maybe need to socialise more, and become more outgoing.

[Throne Sofa]

Maybe do something crazy with your hair so people don't see your gingerness when they look at your hair they see and comment on your crazy hairstyle insted.

[plastiKKstars]

they're are idiots.
i'd say worst, but it has a stupid filter.

i love ginger/red hair, whatever you want to call it.
i really want that colour hair and when im older i want to dye it that colour :]
i hope that makes you feel better for a start, because it's the truth.
these people that are making fun of you could be jealous tbh, or just think they are being big and clever.
nobody should get left out because of their colour hair.
you should really tell somebody about it, if you haven't already.
they can really help.
you can call childline on 0800 11 11, to talk about it if you want to.
or you could just go on their website www.childline.org.uk (http://www.childline.org.uk).
tell a close friend, relative, teacher. just talk to somebody about it and how your feeling.
even talk to the bullies about it. it may help. it may make them realise that what they doing is totally wrong and they should NOT be treated ANYBODY the way they are treating you.
learn to stand up for yourself. now i know that is easier said, well, i this case typed than done. but it really will help you and build your confidence up.
next time they push you around, tell them to stop, tell them that what they're doing isn't right, and that they should know what it is like to be in your shoes. and if they did, i'm sure they'd hate it. and realise how much pain they are putting you through.
remember you ALWAYS have us online to help you get through your problems.

look over the people that are bullying you.
be proud to be ginger/red.
and be proud to be who you are.
learn to make new friends.

if you need to, move schools.
dye your hair.
if it makes you feel ANY better.
but you shouldn't have to, just because people are teasing you about it/teasing you.
so just tell someone.
thats the best thing you can do.
and get it sorted out.

xo.

[FlyingJesus]

I some times want to take a knife into school and Stab every one who has said something about me. Now I know how murderers Start, by getting bullied cos of having a different coloured hair :S
This is the main reason I go on Habbo etc.. cos I know people wont Judge me cos I have Ginger hair, What should I do?

Let's face it, being ginger isn't your problem. You're just weird and they use your hair as a way of showing you that they just don't like you. Perhaps if you weren't so unhinged as to feel like stabbing someone just for mentioning that you have ginger hair, people might like you more.

[e5.]

Ignore them, dont let it get to you, just turn around and smile at them, get them confused. Or say something like if you think my hair is ginger you should see my Uncles or something, just make them think wthhhh... and ALWAYS tell someone, never get embarrased of telling someone, just the fact it might back fire on you. Although your not probably that old yer I recommend the gym ;) build your muscles, make them want to think twice before picking on you.

:) Hope you find your way around this :)