Feeling Suicidal and worse :S

[Moh]

I have ginger hair, and Every sinble day of school I rather get left out cos of it, or Called Ginner etc..
I makes me think that im different, and that i shouldnt be here. I some times want to take a knife into school and Stab every one who has said something about me. Now I know how murderers Start, by getting bullied cos of having a different coloured hair :S
This is the main reason I go on Habbo etc.. cos I know people wont Judge me cos I have Ginger hair, What should I do?

Also, Its not just name calling, I get:
- Pused around (Im small)
- Wacked
- Attacted

Just because Im Quiet and Im a Ginner, well thats there reason

[omgDAN!]

Ignore them - tell someone - fightback - dye your hair.

[StainCast]

I wouldn't reccomend dying your hair. A kid from my school did it and it looked ridiculas. Leave it the colour that it is.

I would, however advise that you get yourself a new hairstyle? Many of my friends that have ginger hair find it hard to style their hair. They come to school with it short, orjust left the way it was when they got up - that looks absolutely awful.

Try looking through some magazines and look for a hairstyle that you think would suit your hair. Somthing like a small, discreet mohawk looks good with ginger hair. Have it styled as you like it and ask your hairdresser what they think about it. Try somthing new.

As for the bullies - I know it doesn't sound cool, but seriously dude, tell someone. Tell a teacher. I think that it would probably that it would be a better idea that you see a teacher rather than your parents so they don't blow everything out of proportion. Just ask to remain completey annonymous and get them to sort the bullies out.

Good luckkk! Hope i helped!

Jooo xxx

[king_maxx]

I have ginger hair, and Every sinble day of school I rather get left out cos of it, or Called Ginner etc..
I makes me think that im different, and that i shouldnt be here. I some times want to take a knife into school and Stab every one who has said something about me. Now I know how murderers Start, by getting bullied cos of having a different coloured hair :S
This is the main reason I go on Habbo etc.. cos I know people wont Judge me cos I have Ginger hair, What should I do?

Also, Its not just name calling, I get:
- Pused around (Im small)
- Wacked
- Attacted

Just because Im Quiet and Im a Ginner, well thats there reason

I suggest you dye your hair or possibly try the knife idea?

[dirrty]

tell a teacher - if its bad but not bad
tell ur parents - if its bad
tell police - if its REALLY bad

dont dye ur hair cause ppl will make fun out of u cause u died ur hair. happened at my school at someone.

stick up for urself. they only pick on u cause they know u wont do anything.

and killing urself is the wooses way out and if u stab urself and dont die, u could be paralyzed or w.e

[Kardan]

Right, I'm ginger, ad I was quiet when I was at school, just don't dye your hair. This ginger kid did it, and you could see the ginger under the black and then the ginger grew back etc.
Just ignore them, names anyway, I got it from kids that were two/three years younger then me...
You could just say something back 'Hey, at least I know your not colourblind' or something cheesy like that... :rolleyes:
If you get bullied (pushed etc) best thing to do is tell a teacher, older sibling, adult etc. If you feel suicidal you could call a helpline up...

[Stephen]

They pick on you because your small i get it and im small and quite quiet. As my mum used to say "they are only jealous" If there quite tall then why don't you tell em to pick on soemone their own size? ALso they just pick on you because your small and some taller people think that small people are weak and easy to pick on. I don't think there doing all of this because you have ginger hair, but just because your small and an easy target because as i said they think small people are weak. Maybe just ignore them or just stay right away from them? theres no point dying your hair. My mates ginger and he just jokes around when someone calls him it try doing that maybe they'll ease off on the ginger remarks.. If none of that helps then tell a teacher and im sure they'll keep a good eye on them Hope that helps

[Moh]

Its not the name calling, its the point I get attacked for no reason Every Day

[FlyingJesus]

Errrr I'm ginger and I'm one of the most popular kids about, so that's clearly not your problem.

[:Hazel]

I think to bully someone about hair colour is sad, them people must have real issues. Just tell someone if the bullying is that bad. You are you and don't change because of some idiots.