rawr,

[beth]

i've been feeling pretty bad the last few weeks. i think it kinda stems from the fact that like, my best friend of a couple of years abondoned me in november, pretty much didnt contact me, avoided me & never contacted me. and then when i finally got a reply (three months later) he told me avoided me cus i was too clingy and i made him feel trapped.
it kinda scrapped my self confidence, cus i proper loved that guy & sometimes it was more than just 'best friends' but nvm.
now we never speak & i'm having a proper hard time adapting to life without him because he promised me alot of things & now i've gotta make plans over plans we had made & it just makes me feel really bad.
& i also like this other guy but i'm almost certain he doesn't feel that way about me, & uh.. i'm just bored with everything. i'm bored with myself but i don't have the motivation for an image change, which is weird... because i'm always up for change but now, nar.
heh. i just really needed to rant. end.
any suggestions to anything? xo.

[summer]

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well you know how i feel about it and stuff but i dunno what you can do at the moment.

[:Hazel]

if your fed up the only way you can feel better is change. maybe join a club or get a new hobby where you can meet new people so that this will take your mind off your old friend.

[Charlie]

As for losing your friend, i'm sure you've got other friends right? Well, you should make plans with them, and just try and forget about your old friend, if he just went and abandoned you like that without talking to you about it first, then they don't seem like much of a great friend, whereas you probably have others that wouldn't do it. So, just go out and have a great time with your friends and see how that goes, i'm sure if you have enough fun it'll help you forget about your past friend, as much as it must suck.

I guess, you can't really make the other guy you like like you back, but if you hang out with them and spend time with them, you never know, feelings can change and you might be in with a chance. You just gotta try and keep positive and think of the positive outcome that will come if you do something instead of the negative and i'm sure it'll be a whole lot better.

I hope that helps you in some way, and sorry for the lengthy message.

[DiscoPat]

Seems like your going through a tough time, I aint sure what you can do but I can wish you good luck..

[-L!NK!N-P@RK-]

i've been feeling pretty bad the last few weeks. i think it kinda stems from the fact that like, my best friend of a couple of years abondoned me in november, pretty much didnt contact me, avoided me & never contacted me. and then when i finally got a reply (three months later) he told me avoided me cus i was too clingy and i made him feel trapped.
it kinda scrapped my self confidence, cus i proper loved that guy & sometimes it was more than just 'best friends' but nvm.
now we never speak & i'm having a proper hard time adapting to life without him because he promised me alot of things & now i've gotta make plans over plans we had made & it just makes me feel really bad.
& i also like this other guy but i'm almost certain he doesn't feel that way about me, & uh.. i'm just bored with everything. i'm bored with myself but i don't have the motivation for an image change, which is weird... because i'm always up for change but now, nar.
heh. i just really needed to rant. end.
any suggestions to anything? xo.

Well, I know this might sound bad but its help so here it is. You and him not talking or being so close is probably good for both of you, try making new friends, get out, join some clubs. Meet people online, long distance friends can be good to talk to. Other than that, focus on you, school/studies/job, focus on that, the right person for you will come along when you least expect it. Yea it hurts but dont beat yourself up over it. Ive been through the same thing, just dont think about it and in no time you will be back on your feet with new friends and people to talk to.

Good luck with everything.

[MattyTheOne]

I know what u feel but it aint half bad! Just sorta go up to them and be like 'u know what? ur a -Bad Swear Words Removed-! You know that!' Or summat like that.

Idk! Just tell them to stuff it. then go like flirt with evry1 else in front of dem and even tho they were 'just friends' then they will be all like 'i didnt mean all that stuff, bla bla bla, i think we shud b friends again.' problem solved.

If that doesnt work, try mr psychiatrist (Linkin Park)'s idea above.