My Friend

[NintendoFreak]

Well anyway I think ym friend Jack maybe gay, because
He allways does ****** noises in my ear.
He was stroking my leg on the bus
I asked him if he fances any girls and he said no
I asked if he was gay and he just says **** off but he dos'nt deny it.See when I was gonna go on a school trip he said 'Im only going if you go' now I've been thinking that he only wan'ts me to go (I cant anyway btw) so we would have our own room and I wan't to go to see what he "does" incase he does do anything and then I can help him admit hes gay.. his parents don't like me so I cant go to his house and visa-versa but you know.... Oh btw I tried telling him I was gay (Im not btw) to see if he would admit it also so then I can help him and he did'nt belive me. Help Needed thanks

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[Purple]

Heres my reaction..

Don't force him to come out to you. It isn't really your place to demand to know his sexuality, the only one that can make the decision to come out his him.

Tell him what makes you uncomfortable. If he makes inappropriate noises it's a certain line he has crossed, tell him directly how you feel, rather than implying it. Honesty is the best policy.

Don't pretend to be gay. That's just going to make things horrible, especially if he comes out and then to his horror you are not.

Be nice to his parents. If you really want to be a good friend to him, you have to befriend his parents as well. Maybe they have a motive for not liking you. If they don't, just be as friendly as possible, and treat them with a high amount of respect. Keep good eyecontact and be confident, otherwise they will look down upon you.

Best of luck.

[Ed.]

Okay..

He may be gay. But there is nothing wrong with that. He may not even be gay. There are many people I know who pretend to be gay and stroke my leg etc but they are perfectly straight. Many people do it to be jokey. Also tell him what you think...

[dirrty]

hes proberly sexually frustrated.

& you cant force someone to come out. they will on their own terms. not yours.

[DiscoPat]

Stroke your leg? eh? ...

[NintendoFreak]

I have never even spoken to his parents never seen them but the first time I did they were so rude, And If people read I dont want to FORCE him out im saying a way to let him come out so he feels he is not alone.

[Uwe]

I don't really think hes gay... My friends always play on like that... so yeah :-P

[Antallica]

This happened with my mate in year 2 or summin lol, Kept feeling my bum so i said get off, it slowly fades off. Sillyness.

[Russia]

say you love him and if you kiss that means hes gay ....

[NintendoFreak]

Im in year 9 so its not like sillyness..

[Luckyrare]

Heh year 9, it could be sillyness. I powt at this kid as a joke all the time, he thinks I am gay - twas funny

Does it really matter anyway? If you dont like something he is doing just tell him and find it else where.

[PaintYourTarget]

We act gay all the time and we're in Year11.
I've had a girlfriend for the past 8 months, yet I still make gay gestures, hints and actions with my friends.

[Toughened]

Well anyway I think ym friend Jack maybe gay, because

He allways does ****** noises in my ear.
He was stroking my leg on the bus
I asked him if he fances any girls and he said no
I asked if he was gay and he just says **** off but he dos'nt deny it.See when I was gonna go on a school trip he said 'Im only going if you go' now I've been thinking that he only wan'ts me to go (I cant anyway btw) so we would have our own room and I wan't to go to see what he "does" incase he does do anything and then I can help him admit hes gay.. his parents don't like me so I cant go to his house and visa-versa but you know.... Oh btw I tried telling him I was gay (Im not btw) to see if he would admit it also so then I can help him and he did'nt belive me. Help Needed thanks

Edited by Garion (Forum Super Moderator): Please do not avoid the Forum filter, thanks :).

1. Tell him to stop it if it annoys you that much.
2. This is a playful thing, me and my friends do it all the time messing about it doesn't mean you're gay. It's just away of getting close to you but not in the ''gay'' way.
3. He may not like any girls or your year, or he may just be shy about things like that.
4. He probably just thinks you're messing when you say that, and he doesn't really need to deny it to prove that he's not.

In my opinion he's not gay, hes just fooling around. If you really don't like it tell him to stop it. Also don't pressurise him into telling you if he is gay. He will tell you when he wants to and feels comfortable to. All lads go through the stage of acting gay it's just a lad thing. Don't worry about it too much. Anyway, if you're really that bothered sit down and talk to him, if he doesn't want to leave him and let him talk to you.

[Jordie]

Well anyway I think ym friend Jack maybe gay, because

He allways does ****** noises in my ear.
He was stroking my leg on the bus
I asked him if he fances any girls and he said no
I asked if he was gay and he just says **** off but he dos'nt deny it.See when I was gonna go on a school trip he said 'Im only going if you go' now I've been thinking that he only wan'ts me to go (I cant anyway btw) so we would have our own room and I wan't to go to see what he "does" incase he does do anything and then I can help him admit hes gay.. his parents don't like me so I cant go to his house and visa-versa but you know.... Oh btw I tried telling him I was gay (Im not btw) to see if he would admit it also so then I can help him and he did'nt belive me. Help Needed thanks

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lmao you like it really :P

[Thrilled.]

He was stroking my leg on the bus

which leg are you referring to?

[Azza]

As said he can be fooling around etc. i do that alot and im not gay =]
if you think about it, if he was gay and too scared to say he wouldnt be like this close. He would be nervous to do stuff like that but would tend to hang around with u alot if he was gay and not admitting it.
Most likly if he was he would be able to admit if he done this stuff but as said prob is just fooling around.

anyway thats what i think others may want to (dis)agree with it and feel free 2 do so