My Friend

[NintendoFreak]

Well anyway I think ym friend Jack maybe gay, because

1. He allways does ****** noises in my ear.
2. He was stroking my leg on the bus
3. I asked him if he fances any girls and he said no
4. I asked if he was gay and he just says **** off but he dos'nt deny it.

See when I was gonna go on a school trip he said 'Im only going if you go' now I've been thinking that he only wan'ts me to go (I cant anyway btw) so we would have our own room and I wan't to go to see what he "does" incase he does do anything and then I can help him admit hes gay.. his parents don't like me so I cant go to his house and visa-versa but you know.... Oh btw I tried telling him I was gay (Im not btw) to see if he would admit it also so then I can help him and he did'nt belive me. Help Needed thanks

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[Purple]

Heres my reaction..

Don't force him to come out to you. It isn't really your place to demand to know his sexuality, the only one that can make the decision to come out his him.

Tell him what makes you uncomfortable. If he makes inappropriate noises it's a certain line he has crossed, tell him directly how you feel, rather than implying it. Honesty is the best policy.

Don't pretend to be gay. That's just going to make things horrible, especially if he comes out and then to his horror you are not.

Be nice to his parents. If you really want to be a good friend to him, you have to befriend his parents as well. Maybe they have a motive for not liking you. If they don't, just be as friendly as possible, and treat them with a high amount of respect. Keep good eyecontact and be confident, otherwise they will look down upon you.

Best of luck.

[Ed.]

Okay..

He may be gay. But there is nothing wrong with that. He may not even be gay. There are many people I know who pretend to be gay and stroke my leg etc but they are perfectly straight. Many people do it to be jokey. Also tell him what you think...

[dirrty]

hes proberly sexually frustrated.

& you cant force someone to come out. they will on their own terms. not yours.

[DiscoPat]

Stroke your leg? eh? ...

[NintendoFreak]

I have never even spoken to his parents never seen them but the first time I did they were so rude, And If people read I dont want to FORCE him out im saying a way to let him come out so he feels he is not alone.

[Uwe]

I don't really think hes gay... My friends always play on like that... so yeah :-P

[Antallica]

This happened with my mate in year 2 or summin lol, Kept feeling my bum so i said get off, it slowly fades off. Sillyness.

[Russia]

say you love him and if you kiss that means hes gay ....

[NintendoFreak]

Im in year 9 so its not like sillyness..