is this normal?

[-Soph-]

like, recently, i've not wanted to be in ANY serious relationships and I don't want to be tied down by someone (and no, that doesn't mean that I want to sleep around either)

but srsly, I don't think that's normal for my age, i'm 14... to be honest, i'd be perfectly happy if I never met anyone and just had friends till I die...

I think I like my own space a little bit too much.... is this normal? And should I try to stop "liking my own space"?

(i'm not saying by liking my own space that I never go out, because I do... you get me?)

[Callum.]

you're only 14 and if you're not looking to be in one, you may find the right one.

[-Soph-]

I can't see it though, and the other hand, I don't even know if I want to.

[unit]

If you wait a while, you'll find someone who respects your own space and in time you'll enjoy being with them more :)

Don't rush into a relationship, let it come to you

[Nixt]

Lolol that's the complete opposite of not normal :P. You're 14, you shouldn't really want to be getting into a serious relationship yet and it's better that way :).

[Bef]

Im 17 and the idea of a "serious relationship" makes me cringe. Im normalish ;]

[jendog]

i used to be like that. not in a ****** way or anything but i didnt see myself with a long term boyfriend and i felt as though if i got a boyfriend it would tie me down and id have to spend all my time with him. but ive been going out with my current boyfriend for the past year and even though its not like mega serious, its a lot more serious than i thought id ever do. its nice to always have someone there and it might sound silly but hes like my best mate aswell as my boyfriend?!
i guess it is pretty normal for your age but i think when you meet someone it will probably all change anyways. at the end of the day your only 14 just take it as it comes :]

[burton-x]

I know people who are 17 and are guys who are not into girls at all...
things happen at different times for anybodie.

[-Soph-]

idk, it's just when I imagine my future I never imagine a guy in it... I want to travel etc. and if I get a guy who doesn't want to do that, then that's limiting what I can do. I just don't like the thought of being in a relationship.

[burton-x]

Im the same,
I mean I like girls in that way deffo!
But wouldn't let them get in the way of my gap year travels and stuff in a years time...
Got the rest of your life for that.

[Hecktix]

idk, it's just when I imagine my future I never imagine a guy in it... I want to travel etc. and if I get a guy who doesn't want to do that, then that's limiting what I can do. I just don't like the thought of being in a relationship.

everybody is themselves and some people just aren't made for relationships. if you don't want to be in a relationship don't get into one because you feel you have to. live a single life; i guaruntee you'll have fun xP

no arguments with your lover etc etc

[-Soph-]

haha, but the funny thing is that I want a kid, when i'm older obviously.

[Hecktix]

haha, but the funny thing is that I want a kid, when i'm older obviously.

LOL I actually dont know what to say to that. Errrrrrrm have a kid then leave your partner taking your kid?

[-Soph-]

LOL I know it's weird...

Perhaps I will meet someone and like it, but I can't see it, I don't even think I want to.

[Hecktix]

LOL I know it's weird...

Perhaps I will meet someone and like it, but I can't see it, I don't even think I want to.


HERE have some SPERM

-hands soph a test tube-

now you can have a baby.

just don't contact me asking for money.

[-Soph-]

LMAO at you

[Hecktix]

LMAO at you

i mean it babe. i dont do handouts.

so yh. clear off and have your kid and lead a single life

<3

[alexxxxx]

Asexual? it just means you don't like anyone. at all. It's like you're not straight, gay or bi. You're nothing.

[Hecktix]

;3602115']Asexual? it just means you don't like anyone. at all. It's like you're not straight, gay or bi. You're nothing.

Doesnt asexual mean you fancy yourself?

[clarissa !!]

isnt asexual how plants reproduce?

[Jamesy]

i think its that and not being able to have any physical relationships with someone too

[-Soph-]

;3602115']Asexual? it just means you don't like anyone. at all. It's like you're not straight, gay or bi. You're nothing.

Well, i'd actually say that i'm bi...

I've not been in any relationships recently, it's not that i've not been asked out because I have, I don't want to get serious.
Sometimes it's fun to mess around a bit, this is going to make me sound like a total ***, but a serious relationship? I can't see it.


and I thought that too claz LOL

[,Jess,]

I think it's completely normal. If you don't want a serious relationship then that's just how you feel. You never know what might happen in the future things could change but your 14 now Do whatever makes you happy now and live your life the way you want to.

[:Hazel]

you dont need a serius relationship yet, im older than you by a distance and i felt similiar until recently.
most people dont settle down until their mid-late 20's or even early 30's anyway so i bet your opinion will change in time.