Girls- Opinions Needed

[Joemaphobe]

Okay..

Well I have'nt had a girlfriend for over 2 years now.
I'm 14
& I dont think im bad looking, not meaning to sound arrogant.
Could you check this.. via myspace.
What you cant see is im 5ft 10 nd high end of 9st is that fat?
it's just annoying.
i have such bad self confidence & asking a girl out really puts me under pressure.
& my past choices havent been that great...
nd I dont want a repeat of those.
I keep got told by some girls im more friend material than boyfriend
there are a couple of girls I like but I dont want to ruin our friendship..

thanks in advance x

[@K]

I know I'm not a girl, but I was reading this thread because I was bored, for one, nine stone ISN'T fat, I wear 10 and a half stone, and I'm skinny as anything, through having a very high matablism (sp). And most girls who I know have said the same thing to me, more of a friend and that, but now, I ahve a wonderful girlfriend :D So don't get yourself down mate.

[Leeroy]

Be confidant .. belive in your self :)

[beth]

you're not bad-looking. [:
if you're looking to get a lady though, i think you definitely need to have more confidence in yourself. if you can be confident more girls will be drawn to you, definitely.

[BellyButtons]

im not a girl but u have cute hair :D

oh and dont call them ***** all the time cus its not nice!!!!!!!!

[.Nickie]

You aint ugly so thts no problem :)
Maybe just get know the girl and maybe drop hints that you like her, and would like to be more than a friend. And sayin you have 2 girls you like.. maybe focus on one. You will probably put more effort into it.
But.. not being funny but your 14.. you shouldnt be worrying about girlfriends :) the best relationships are out of the blue.. dnt force yourself into one just cause you want one.

[VPSwow]

I feel much like this.

Most lasses say im too much of a friend :( But now i think i found the right lass.

[Elkaa]

Back when I was a wee nipper, around your age, I used to fancy someone who was my friend. I asked her out, in a rather stupid way, and we didn't talk for about... 45 minutes. After that, we just went back to being friends, but it turned out to be more than friends, and we'd randomly do things, such as hug, "touch" each other (not rude) and on the occation kissed - But, with all that said, we never dated. After I asked her, we just became even closer. Friend with privlidges, if you like?

I wasn't the most confident kid, either. :)

[Meticulous]

Weeell.
You're not bad looking.
Pretty good looking actually..:P
And did you say you thought you were fat?!
Well you're not.
As everyone else has said. Have a bit of confidence in your self. It does attract girls. Definately.
And I think the reason why they say you're more friend material is probably the image you give when you meet them. Girls can tell if a guy wants to be more than friends from the minute they meet so maybe you should take that into account.
And also, You need to do what I need to do. Extend your frienship circle. Cause all the boys I know are good friends so I wont be getting a boyfriend any time soon. I was thinking of going to this club Stairways but cba..
AND. Two years isn't that long to be single. You're only 14! I only just turned fourteen and I had my first proper boyfriend about two weeks ago until he turned into a stoopid idiot ;l
Anyway. Don't worry. Pleanty of time. Enjoy it while you can :P

[Kissed]

Aww cutie.
Uhm well some lads aren't flirty enough so that sometimes gives the impression they're more friendly than sexy. Might be your problem?
Or this might sound rate gay but..
Some girls are like in to the "bad boy" types, and if you're really nice and kind and whatever (which some girls would jump at) other girls also see that as a sign of more friendly rather than sexy.
I'm not saying you need to get the motorbike and leathers out but like if you are over-nice, try being a bit more "mean keep them keen".
I don't know if this helped and I hope I don't get you hated by the entire opposite sex. but yeh :)

[Elkaa]

As above, I didn't get my first serious girlfriend until I was just short of 16 years old. I was with her for... 2 years 3 months. When the right person comes along, you'll know, and you'll know what to do. :)

Edited: Damn, that gives away my age now.

[unit]

Im not a girl but aww your cute ^_^

[Joemaphobe]

Thanks for all the replies :]!
I met her tonight nd might be seeing here tomo...
Ill try too seem more confiedent but not have a different personality..

[beth]

Thanks for all the replies :]!
I met her tonight nd might be seeing here tomo...
Ill try too seem more confiedent but not have a different personality..
yeahh. you don't need to change, you just need to maximise what you already are. "sell yourself" as they say [: make the most of what you have.

[Nixt]

yeahh. you don't need to change, you just need to maximise what you already are. "sell yourself" as they say [: make the most of what you have.

Am I the only person that found the sexual innuendos in that sentence?!

[Hecktix]

Aww cutie.
Uhm well some lads aren't flirty enough so that sometimes gives the impression they're more friendly than sexy. Might be your problem?
Or this might sound rate gay but..
Some girls are like in to the "bad boy" types, and if you're really nice and kind and whatever (which some girls would jump at) other girls also see that as a sign of more friendly rather than sexy.
I'm not saying you need to get the motorbike and leathers out but like if you are over-nice, try being a bit more "mean keep them keen".
I don't know if this helped and I hope I don't get you hated by the entire opposite sex. but yeh :)

stop trying to turn him into a rebel katie, it's harsh, just cause you like bad boys :P


As above, I didn't get my first serious girlfriend until I was just short of 16 years old. I was with her for... 2 years 3 months. When the right person comes along, you'll know, and you'll know what to do. :)

Edited: Damn, that gives away my age now.

i was 15 when I had my first "reasonably" ok relationship, yet my first seriousish relationship started when I was 15 too, but yeah no too far away from 16, and i've been in that relationship 3 and a half months (and counting) and its great.

And haha, you just admitted you are a grandad xo


Am I the only person that found the sexual innuendos in that sentence?!

yes, pervert.

[beth]

Am I the only person that found the sexual innuendos in that sentence?!
garion please remove yr perverted self from this thread. xo.

[madmike666]

Am I the only person that found the sexual innuendos in that sentence?!

Yes you are.

[jordang16]

Not being funny but why does ur myspace say male 16 years old ?

[Jamesy]

I keep got told by some girls im more friend material than boyfriend
there are a couple of girls I like but I dont want to ruin our friendship..

Tell me about it...

[Nixt]

Yes you are.


garion please remove yr perverted self from this thread. xo.

Oh dear.

[Kissed]

I can't help the fact I like the bad boys :P
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