I have no idea what I am...

[Henson]

Well, I don't know where to begin so I'm just going to start...

I'm male. I'm a college student. I just got out of a long term (2+ year) relationship with a woman. I've never had a boyfriend or had any homosexual encounters. I would guess that I'm a "normal" guy...

However, since my senior year in high school I've noticed how I find certain men attractive. I'm a theatre major in college, and I've been around A LOT of gay men. I've been mostly unatrracted to them, but there's a few stray guys who I'll find attractive. The thing is...I'm also attracted to women. In fact, I would say that I'm attracted to women 90% of the time and men about 10% of the time. It takes a very specific type of man before I'll be physically attracted to them, but the same is not true for women. In short, I have no idea of I'm bisexual or not.

I wish this was easier for me to express in writing....

I looked for a forum where I could talk openly about myself without fear of judgement and where I could also find someone to talk to...if you have any advice/similar stories please post. If I need to clear anything up just let me know.

Thanks.

[e5..]

If you find yourself both attracted to women and men then you'll most definately be bisexual... Im attracted to women only, so I wouldn't know that much, sorry [:

[Cwmbran]

How old are you?
Also I think you could be Bisexual from what you have told us, it is normal for teenagers to have these feelings due to hormones. This could just be a phase or you could be Bisexual.

Would you ever consider going out with a guy, or doing intermate stuff with them?

I myself can say that guys are attractive, but I know that I would not go out with one or do anything intermate with a guy (unless it was like spin the bottle and I'm with friends.)

[Henson]

How old are you?
Also I think you could be Bisexual from what you have told us, it is normal for teenagers to have these feelings due to hormones. This could just be a phase or you could be Bisexual.

Would you ever consider going out with a guy, or doing intermate stuff with them?

I myself can say that guys are attractive, but I know that I would not go out with one or do anything intermate with a guy (unless it was like spin the bottle and I'm with friends.)

I'm 18, i'm not sure if it's a phase or not i'm so confused at the moment.

As for doing intermate stuff, yes i would, i find myself watching gay **** nearly all the time now and wishing it was me. i would really like to have sex with another guy.

[dirrty]

your bi then.

[clarissa !!]

bisexual..

[Mikkaoz]

Just because you like the look of them doesn't mean that you would want to go out with them or go any further. I think some men are attractive. But I would never date a man for that matter, or do anything.

[&]

Well, if youre attracted to both male and females; and youll happily have sexual experiences with both sexes, then congratulations - youre bisexual. Have fun x)

[Cwmbran]

I'm 18, i'm not sure if it's a phase or not i'm so confused at the moment.

As for doing intermate stuff, yes i would, i find myself watching gay **** nearly all the time now and wishing it was me. i would really like to have sex with another guy.


Doesn't sound like a phase no more.

Do you still want to do intermate stuff with a girl?
If you find the answer to that question is no then you could be Gay, but I would say your Bisexual.

[Charlie]

Don't be so quick to label yourself.

But, if you find yourself watching gay movies, and looking at ladies at the same time, then your probably bisexual.

[5,5]

I'd say bisexual becuase you watch gay ****.

[Henson]

Do you still want to do intermate stuff with a girl?

I think i do, but they don't turn me on as much as other men do, if that makes sense?

Argh.... I'm so confused at the moment!

[Cwmbran]

I think i do, but they don't turn me on as much as other men do, if that makes sense?

Argh.... I'm so confused at the moment!


I'd say it's best if you experimented with both guys and girls, see which you prefer.
If you can't make a choice which you don't have to then you're bisexual.

[hobo]

Don't be so quick to label yourself.

But, if you find yourself watching gay movies, and looking at ladies at the same time, then your probably bisexual.

comteplating that he might be bi is not labeling himself :/
i hate people who're obsessed with "labels"

[Eamonn]

comteplating that he might be bi is not labeling himself :/
i hate people who're obsessed with "labels"
ye exactly whilst helen may finger herself to l.lo nightly shes still not a les obv. ;)

[ViRgIn]

You need to actually try something with a man then instead of just wishing you could, then see how you feel afterwards.

[Henson]

I'd say it's best if you experimented with both guys and girls, see which you prefer.
If you can't make a choice which you don't have to then you're bisexual.

i did just that i took it in my bumhole it hurt, but strangly i liked it

:D