I have no idea what I am...

[Henson]

Well, I don't know where to begin so I'm just going to start...

I'm male. I'm a college student. I just got out of a long term (2+ year) relationship with a woman. I've never had a boyfriend or had any homosexual encounters. I would guess that I'm a "normal" guy...

However, since my senior year in high school I've noticed how I find certain men attractive. I'm a theatre major in college, and I've been around A LOT of gay men. I've been mostly unatrracted to them, but there's a few stray guys who I'll find attractive. The thing is...I'm also attracted to women. In fact, I would say that I'm attracted to women 90% of the time and men about 10% of the time. It takes a very specific type of man before I'll be physically attracted to them, but the same is not true for women. In short, I have no idea of I'm bisexual or not.

I wish this was easier for me to express in writing....

I looked for a forum where I could talk openly about myself without fear of judgement and where I could also find someone to talk to...if you have any advice/similar stories please post. If I need to clear anything up just let me know.

Thanks.

[e5..]

If you find yourself both attracted to women and men then you'll most definately be bisexual... Im attracted to women only, so I wouldn't know that much, sorry [:

[Cwmbran]

How old are you?
Also I think you could be Bisexual from what you have told us, it is normal for teenagers to have these feelings due to hormones. This could just be a phase or you could be Bisexual.

Would you ever consider going out with a guy, or doing intermate stuff with them?

I myself can say that guys are attractive, but I know that I would not go out with one or do anything intermate with a guy (unless it was like spin the bottle and I'm with friends.)

[Henson]

How old are you?
Also I think you could be Bisexual from what you have told us, it is normal for teenagers to have these feelings due to hormones. This could just be a phase or you could be Bisexual.

Would you ever consider going out with a guy, or doing intermate stuff with them?

I myself can say that guys are attractive, but I know that I would not go out with one or do anything intermate with a guy (unless it was like spin the bottle and I'm with friends.)

I'm 18, i'm not sure if it's a phase or not i'm so confused at the moment.

As for doing intermate stuff, yes i would, i find myself watching gay **** nearly all the time now and wishing it was me. i would really like to have sex with another guy.

[dirrty]

your bi then.

[clarissa !!]

bisexual..

[Mikkaoz]

Just because you like the look of them doesn't mean that you would want to go out with them or go any further. I think some men are attractive. But I would never date a man for that matter, or do anything.

[&]

Well, if youre attracted to both male and females; and youll happily have sexual experiences with both sexes, then congratulations - youre bisexual. Have fun x)

[Cwmbran]

I'm 18, i'm not sure if it's a phase or not i'm so confused at the moment.

As for doing intermate stuff, yes i would, i find myself watching gay **** nearly all the time now and wishing it was me. i would really like to have sex with another guy.

Doesn't sound like a phase no more.

Do you still want to do intermate stuff with a girl?
If you find the answer to that question is no then you could be Gay, but I would say your Bisexual.

[Charlie]

Don't be so quick to label yourself.

But, if you find yourself watching gay movies, and looking at ladies at the same time, then your probably bisexual.