Wouldn't usually do this..

[Hiro]

Well, yeah. I don't usually ask for advice (I usually just sit hours on end thinking to myself on what to do).
Broke up with my girlfriend about 18 days ago, it was long distance (grr..). Since then I've had my highs and lows (mainly lows), I've been doing a hell of a lot of thinking on ways to sort things out, but I just don't know. As stupid as it sounds, I just feel lost, I felt so comfortable with her, someone that liked me for me..
Her reasoning was that she hated the fact that she couldn't see me, but I just keep replaying it through my head and it usually goes to other reasons as to why she could have broke up with me, which makes me depressed even more. The fact that I was going to see her the weekend after she broke up with me, bit of a bummer, had a train ticket and everything.
The fact that I haven't told anyone (I've told about 2 friends that I trust the most), I just don't want to let go of the feeling I had when I was with her. I keep getting flashbacks, etc.
It just really hurts, because I've lost hope. I guess the fact that I haven't spoken to her since she broke up with me makes matters worse, but I know what I'm like and I'd just start begging to be back with her, and I don't want to pressurise her..

And now I don't know what else to put 'cause my mind keeps drifting off.
All-in-all, I'm lost, I don't know what to do, I want her back, blah, blah..

some users on here know who she is - don't say anything =/

Thread closed by ,Jess, (Forum Super Moderator): To stop arguments and as it has gone off-topic.

[H]

Well, yeah. I don't usually ask for advice (I usually just sit hours on end thinking to myself on what to do).
Broke up with my girlfriend about 18 days ago, it was long distance (grr..). Since then I've had my highs and lows (mainly lows), I've been doing a hell of a lot of thinking on ways to sort things out, but I just don't know. As stupid as it sounds, I just feel lost, I felt so comfortable with her, someone that liked me for me..
Her reasoning was that she hated the fact that she couldn't see me, but I just keep replaying it through my head and it usually goes to other reasons as to why she could have broke up with me, which makes me depressed even more. The fact that I was going to see her the weekend after she broke up with me, bit of a bummer, had a train ticket and everything.
The fact that I haven't told anyone (I've told about 2 friends that I trust the most), I just don't want to let go of the feeling I had when I was with her. I keep getting flashbacks, etc.
It just really hurts, because I've lost hope. I guess the fact that I haven't spoken to her since she broke up with me makes matters worse, but I know what I'm like and I'd just start begging to be back with her, and I don't want to pressurise her..

And now I don't know what else to put 'cause my mind keeps drifting off.
All-in-all, I'm lost, I don't know what to do, I want her back, blah, blah..


some users on here know who she is - don't say anything =/

I wouldn't go begging for her back.. or even bother drowning her with your sorrows. If she wants you back she knows you're there, you wouldn't be able to force her to feel something she doesn.t

Yeah.. if feels like she was the only one who understood/cared etc but like you said you felt 'comfortable' and that feeling doesn't come around often with just day to day friends. So it's tough to find someone who cares enough to hear about your day.. or if you're upset blabla. However don't think that feeling won't come back with another girl you meet because it will, it's just tough right now because you're lonely.

er not much to cure a broken heart i'm afraid, except.. meeting someone new. so don't mope around GET YOURSELF OUT THERE.

you posting was pointless though, no one ever listens to advice E V E R. you'll probably end up contacting her and sitting there feeling sorry for yourself.

but remember you won't feel like that forever and you WILL find someone else who is just as good, probably even better than your ex.

[Xyper]

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Lol Hmmm, Shes silly for turning sucha hunk like u down! ;)
I know who he's on about, and She'd prefer Satan tbh.



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u say u wud start beggin to be bk with her if u spoke to her..... are u desperate or wt?
sound like she didnt like u that much tbh... she broke up with u the a few day before meeting u again... seems like she didnt want to met u.... she cud of felt sorry for u thats why she met u the first time.... if u did 'stuff' the first time she mite of thought u were rubbish maybe it was too small or bent... perhaps she was embarrased to be seen with u hence why she finished with u before u met up again, she probs didnt want to go through that again....... seems like u didnt think much of her either only telling 'at least 2 friend' ... is she reli ugly.. were u embarrashed ...ashamed? u sed u have been out with her for 18 days and u act like shes the love of ur life and want to end it all... Are u emo or something? Anyway i say turn gay.. and bend over. Its the only way up!

[e5]

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Lol Hmmm, Shes silly for turning sucha hunk like u down! ;)
I know who he's on about, and She'd prefer Satan tbh.



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u say u wud start beggin to be bk with her if u spoke to her..... are u desperate or wt?
sound like she didnt like u that much tbh... she broke up with u the a few day before meeting u again... seems like she didnt want to met u.... she cud of felt sorry for u thats why she met u the first time.... if u did 'stuff' the first time she mite of thought u were rubbish maybe it was too small or bent... perhaps she was embarrased to be seen with u hence why she finished with u before u met up again, she probs didnt want to go through that again....... seems like u didnt think much of her either only telling 'at least 2 friend' ... is she reli ugly.. were u embarrashed ...ashamed? u sed u have been out with her for 18 days and u act like shes the love of ur life and want to end it all... Are u emo or something? Anyway i say turn gay.. and bend over. Its the only way up!
He said they broke up 18 days ago. Read the post properly.

I know how you feel, this girl I like, even falling out with her makes me REALLLLLLY down and sad. I'm lost without her, it's hard, I know how you feel, I wouldn't move on if I liked someone this much.

Anyway, try texting her and seeing if she texts back. Log on msn and talk to her, even call her :). Try work it out.

[leah]

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Lol Hmmm, Shes silly for turning sucha hunk like u down! ;)
I know who he's on about, and She'd prefer Satan tbh.



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u say u wud start beggin to be bk with her if u spoke to her..... are u desperate or wt?
sound like she didnt like u that much tbh... she broke up with u the a few day before meeting u again... seems like she didnt want to met u.... she cud of felt sorry for u thats why she met u the first time.... if u did 'stuff' the first time she mite of thought u were rubbish maybe it was too small or bent... perhaps she was embarrased to be seen with u hence why she finished with u before u met up again, she probs didnt want to go through that again....... seems like u didnt think much of her either only telling 'at least 2 friend' ... is she reli ugly.. were u embarrashed ...ashamed? u sed u have been out with her for 18 days and u act like shes the love of ur life and want to end it all... Are u emo or something? Anyway i say turn gay.. and bend over. Its the only way up!
Looks like big Jadez writing tbh dan, you know he couldn't write that much by himself, he'd get a headache.

I recommend talking to her If you really do like her but if she has ended it try and move on, and stop with the comfort eating, you're name doesn't begin with a J ;)

[Hiro]

Nah, I'm giving up with her.
She's not worth it, she won't reply to any of my messages, even when she comes online.
So when she wants talk to me all she's getting is Sweet Fanny Adams.

[Xyper]

Umm another idea i have would be to go for girls that are unnatractive..
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[leah]

aww its a shame to need to insult people to feel good about yourself.
grow up little boy.
and when I say little you know what Im talking about ;)

[Xyper]

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[leah]

Lmao! again having to insult to get your point across.
go back to primary school.
This thread was made by someone asking for advice, not to be mocked by the likes of you.

[Xyper]

Stop insulting geez :(

"I GET JEALOUS ALL THE TIME TOO.
IF I WAS YOU, ID JUST TRY TO CHILLLLL!"
"Try to ignore them,
most bullies bully people because they're Jealous;
They aren't worth you worrying if bullying is something they call a hobby."

Looks like Jealousy is the reason for al the dissing, and i know who ur jealous of :D

[leah]

Lirl obsessed much, looking at my posts, bless.
where have I insulted you exactly?
If I had insulted you it would have been my posts that got edited not yours.

[scott]

~ When you copy from msn it stays there text and font - funnily enough thats the same font as someone else we know eh?

Anyway IMO ignore kieran everyone else is, he needs the advice not you ;)!
Maybe go to bed at night boy! Get some sleep, if shes ended it do something to take your mind off her. Its not easy i know but your going ot have to try :(

[Xyper]

lol :(

Hmm Dan u shud try like a dating service or like find a girl off habbo.. that cud help :D

[leah]

He's tried habbo already :rolleyes:

[H]

Umm another idea i have would be to go for girls that are unnatractive..
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LOL this is a fair point, I hardly see it rude?! If you go for someone less attractive than you they're going to appreciate being with you more. 'WOOOOW i've got this hot stunning bf i'm so lucky' see you can even picture it.

[scott]

I think its where it says "REMOVED" the bit that was removed was rude :).

Dan theres "Plenty more fish in the sea!" ;)

[Digital]

If you love her and she loves you then you could make it work? If not then You'll live it's not the end of the world there loads of other girls in the world and I bet they'd love you for who you are. ;]

[Hiro]

Nice to see Kieran is back on board with reality, yet he hasn't changed. I didn't get to see what he posted and tbh I don't really care.
I've already said that I don't give a Sweet Fanny Adams about her already. She chooses to ignore me, and I really don't care anymore..
But yeah, I'm gonna keep this thread open so this child can keep insulting me of whatever he's been putting.

[leah]

Lool Dan and yah scott is right :D

[Xyper]

Dan, You cud allways like date a doll?

That cud be good :D

Inflatable Barbies FTW! :8

[leah]

Or he could go for a larger woman.
Hows the mrs kieran?

[Xyper]

Fine thanks :D

She is the one for me! :eusa_danc
Were moving onto the next stage soon >;]

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[Alexicles.]

Maybe leave it for a while and see how you feel. :)

Hope this helps.

[leah]

Fine thanks :D

She is the one for me! :eusa_danc
Were moving onto the next stage soon >;]

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oohhh the next stage..
whats that *hug* and *kiss*
or have you gone net further? :O

[Xyper]

;) Yeh Net marriage coming up next week, fancy coming :D

Dan why not try dating dogs? :8

[leah]

;) Yeh Net marriage coming up next week, fancy coming :D

Dan why not try dating dogs? :8

oh yes, me and Kate will go together.. Do up our hair like nests to match the brides. ;)

[Xyper]

Nah you cud never match the bride, shes just stunning! ;)

What you gonna give me as a wedding present? :D Dont give us food, we know how important food is to you :P

and this better not be removed.. some absolutely weird mods tbh.

[leah]

we couldnt match the brides hair.. its HUGE.. It clashes with her HUGE stomach too.. Bless.. does she use her nesty head as a frigde?

[scott]

This thread is getting way off topic ~ Kieran why turn other peoples jokes and use them to *try* offend someone else? pathetic imo ;)

Hope everythings better dan :)!

[Hiro]

Nah, I'm giving up with her.
She's not worth it, she won't reply to any of my messages, even when she comes online.
So when she wants talk to me all she's getting is Sweet Fanny Adams.

Did anyone actually read this and take notice that I don't give a flying **** about her anymore...

[Xyper]

Soz farm boy.

[scott]

Farm boy? Dont quite get that...

[Xyper]

:) Btw, on habboxlive.... when u DJ i cant understand *** ur saying lol, its that accent.

I ent being harsh, but i reli cant understand... any advice of what i shud do? i want to tune in but i cant understand what ur saying.