Wouldn't usually do this..

[Hiro]

Well, yeah. I don't usually ask for advice (I usually just sit hours on end thinking to myself on what to do).
Broke up with my girlfriend about 18 days ago, it was long distance (grr..). Since then I've had my highs and lows (mainly lows), I've been doing a hell of a lot of thinking on ways to sort things out, but I just don't know. As stupid as it sounds, I just feel lost, I felt so comfortable with her, someone that liked me for me..
Her reasoning was that she hated the fact that she couldn't see me, but I just keep replaying it through my head and it usually goes to other reasons as to why she could have broke up with me, which makes me depressed even more. The fact that I was going to see her the weekend after she broke up with me, bit of a bummer, had a train ticket and everything.
The fact that I haven't told anyone (I've told about 2 friends that I trust the most), I just don't want to let go of the feeling I had when I was with her. I keep getting flashbacks, etc.
It just really hurts, because I've lost hope. I guess the fact that I haven't spoken to her since she broke up with me makes matters worse, but I know what I'm like and I'd just start begging to be back with her, and I don't want to pressurise her..

And now I don't know what else to put 'cause my mind keeps drifting off.
All-in-all, I'm lost, I don't know what to do, I want her back, blah, blah..

some users on here know who she is - don't say anything =/

Thread closed by ,Jess, (Forum Super Moderator): To stop arguments and as it has gone off-topic.

[H]

Well, yeah. I don't usually ask for advice (I usually just sit hours on end thinking to myself on what to do).
Broke up with my girlfriend about 18 days ago, it was long distance (grr..). Since then I've had my highs and lows (mainly lows), I've been doing a hell of a lot of thinking on ways to sort things out, but I just don't know. As stupid as it sounds, I just feel lost, I felt so comfortable with her, someone that liked me for me..
Her reasoning was that she hated the fact that she couldn't see me, but I just keep replaying it through my head and it usually goes to other reasons as to why she could have broke up with me, which makes me depressed even more. The fact that I was going to see her the weekend after she broke up with me, bit of a bummer, had a train ticket and everything.
The fact that I haven't told anyone (I've told about 2 friends that I trust the most), I just don't want to let go of the feeling I had when I was with her. I keep getting flashbacks, etc.
It just really hurts, because I've lost hope. I guess the fact that I haven't spoken to her since she broke up with me makes matters worse, but I know what I'm like and I'd just start begging to be back with her, and I don't want to pressurise her..

And now I don't know what else to put 'cause my mind keeps drifting off.
All-in-all, I'm lost, I don't know what to do, I want her back, blah, blah..


some users on here know who she is - don't say anything =/

I wouldn't go begging for her back.. or even bother drowning her with your sorrows. If she wants you back she knows you're there, you wouldn't be able to force her to feel something she doesn.t

Yeah.. if feels like she was the only one who understood/cared etc but like you said you felt 'comfortable' and that feeling doesn't come around often with just day to day friends. So it's tough to find someone who cares enough to hear about your day.. or if you're upset blabla. However don't think that feeling won't come back with another girl you meet because it will, it's just tough right now because you're lonely.

er not much to cure a broken heart i'm afraid, except.. meeting someone new. so don't mope around GET YOURSELF OUT THERE.

you posting was pointless though, no one ever listens to advice E V E R. you'll probably end up contacting her and sitting there feeling sorry for yourself.

but remember you won't feel like that forever and you WILL find someone else who is just as good, probably even better than your ex.

[Xyper]

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Lol Hmmm, Shes silly for turning sucha hunk like u down!
I know who he's on about, and She'd prefer Satan tbh.



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u say u wud start beggin to be bk with her if u spoke to her..... are u desperate or wt?
sound like she didnt like u that much tbh... she broke up with u the a few day before meeting u again... seems like she didnt want to met u.... she cud of felt sorry for u thats why she met u the first time.... if u did 'stuff' the first time she mite of thought u were rubbish maybe it was too small or bent... perhaps she was embarrased to be seen with u hence why she finished with u before u met up again, she probs didnt want to go through that again....... seems like u didnt think much of her either only telling 'at least 2 friend' ... is she reli ugly.. were u embarrashed ...ashamed? u sed u have been out with her for 18 days and u act like shes the love of ur life and want to end it all... Are u emo or something? Anyway i say turn gay.. and bend over. Its the only way up!

[e5]

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Lol Hmmm, Shes silly for turning sucha hunk like u down!
I know who he's on about, and She'd prefer Satan tbh.



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u say u wud start beggin to be bk with her if u spoke to her..... are u desperate or wt?
sound like she didnt like u that much tbh... she broke up with u the a few day before meeting u again... seems like she didnt want to met u.... she cud of felt sorry for u thats why she met u the first time.... if u did 'stuff' the first time she mite of thought u were rubbish maybe it was too small or bent... perhaps she was embarrased to be seen with u hence why she finished with u before u met up again, she probs didnt want to go through that again....... seems like u didnt think much of her either only telling 'at least 2 friend' ... is she reli ugly.. were u embarrashed ...ashamed? u sed u have been out with her for 18 days and u act like shes the love of ur life and want to end it all... Are u emo or something? Anyway i say turn gay.. and bend over. Its the only way up!

He said they broke up 18 days ago. Read the post properly.

I know how you feel, this girl I like, even falling out with her makes me REALLLLLLY down and sad. I'm lost without her, it's hard, I know how you feel, I wouldn't move on if I liked someone this much.

Anyway, try texting her and seeing if she texts back. Log on msn and talk to her, even call her . Try work it out.

[leah]

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Lol Hmmm, Shes silly for turning sucha hunk like u down!
I know who he's on about, and She'd prefer Satan tbh.



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u say u wud start beggin to be bk with her if u spoke to her..... are u desperate or wt?
sound like she didnt like u that much tbh... she broke up with u the a few day before meeting u again... seems like she didnt want to met u.... she cud of felt sorry for u thats why she met u the first time.... if u did 'stuff' the first time she mite of thought u were rubbish maybe it was too small or bent... perhaps she was embarrased to be seen with u hence why she finished with u before u met up again, she probs didnt want to go through that again....... seems like u didnt think much of her either only telling 'at least 2 friend' ... is she reli ugly.. were u embarrashed ...ashamed? u sed u have been out with her for 18 days and u act like shes the love of ur life and want to end it all... Are u emo or something? Anyway i say turn gay.. and bend over. Its the only way up!

Looks like big Jadez writing tbh dan, you know he couldn't write that much by himself, he'd get a headache.

I recommend talking to her If you really do like her but if she has ended it try and move on, and stop with the comfort eating, you're name doesn't begin with a J

[Hiro]

Nah, I'm giving up with her.
She's not worth it, she won't reply to any of my messages, even when she comes online.
So when she wants talk to me all she's getting is Sweet Fanny Adams.

[Xyper]

Umm another idea i have would be to go for girls that are unnatractive..
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[leah]

aww its a shame to need to insult people to feel good about yourself.
grow up little boy.
and when I say little you know what Im talking about

[Xyper]

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[leah]

Lmao! again having to insult to get your point across.
go back to primary school.
This thread was made by someone asking for advice, not to be mocked by the likes of you.