I CANT bear my dad any longer now.

[Bouncing]

Basicially, all he does is have a go at me about 50% of the day hes nice then the other just complaining im not doing this that and the other. When I simply am, I have done tons for him this holiday like put phones on ebay do chores around the house, do things in the garden for him, loads of things. Do I ask for money. NO. All he does wrong seems to relate back to me blaims me for everything IE, im plaiyng maplestory this online game and hes like the internet is being slow coz ur on it get of now. So im not that botherd but then he rings up telewest to see what the problem may be they disconnected it for some reason not because of my game, now hes not letting me play the game again because he doesnt want it to interfere when Ive been playing it for so long now. Like I have about 10 friends I usually see out of school there all away for most of the summer so Ive not really seen alot of friends this holiday. Just because hes arguing with my mum he decides to have a go at me going uve been so unsociable this holiday, why didnt u go on camp (this thing were like u meet up with other people and the organisation takes you away somewhere like scotland or somewhere like that. I dont like the people on it there vile, so opiniated and spoilt rich brats. He thinks im being a brat and making excuses, when im really not!!! He then says ring up ben and joy these people I knew like 5 years ago who I barley even know now and Im like i dont even know them really and hes like all you do is make excuses when am i really going to ring up someone i havnt spoken to properly in that long?!!!!?!?!?! NO. All I say is im a little bored and he just critises me because he wants me to be like my sister who has a ton of friends but its not like im a gimp or anything i do have a good group of friends just theyve mostly been away!!! :@ He wont accept that, he thinks im just making up excuses, also everyday he has something to have a go at me, and sorry i dont mean to be a prat but dont say sit down and talk to him, because i do and he just throws it back in my face and thinks im just lying or have an answer to everything. I really just want to move out and start my own life, but im afraid im 14 so thats not possible atm!!

[Technologic]

You do realise that most parents do the same things at different levels of intensity?

[t0tsy]

Parents are *bleeps*
I just ignore my dad, he's a complete *bleep* and sometimes I just want to kill him.
Theres no point in giving him the satisfaction by arguing back though.

All you can do is put up with it. :rolleyes:

I can't wait until I move out haha.

[Bouncing]

Yeh i want other opinions too, but I guess I should just ignore him its just I have this weekness were eventually ill feel sorry for him and give in and be nice!

[t0tsy]

Yeh i want other opinions too, but I guess I should just ignore him its just I have this weekness were eventually ill feel sorry for him and give in and be nice!

Yeah I'm pretty sure everybody gives in, because you're meant to love your parents.
But I think I'm past that stage, and would rather just get on with my life without him in it haha :P

[Quezapell]

OMG my step dad is so annoying! he does the exact same thing to me all the time, to the point i just tell him what i think of him, oo and yes it includes a few *beeps* well quite a few but still. You've just got to put up with it, atleast he is thier for you and not left you ect.. He musst care about you even if its a little, he is still there.

[Jaiisun]

If you grunt and mumble every time he asks you to do something, or has a go at you - he's got an excuse to ask you to do it more.

However, if you complete the task(s) quickly, properly and with a smile on your face - this will get to him, and make him notice what you're doing more. In turn, it may make him realise what you do for him.

The other option is to gain support from your mother and ask her to say something, because he's much more likely to listen to her than you.

Good luck!

;].
Jay x

[Havoline]

He's a dad, it's what they do.

[Imp!]

I see children to parents as a) little angels b) someone you can use untl the age of 18 to do everything that you dont want to do. Eventually he will die

[Nicola]

My dad is like this in some ways. When he's not arguing with my mother he picks on me because he thinks i'm too scared to stand up to him. He decides one day he likes me and the next day he hates me and can't wait until he moves out so he can't see me again.
Tbh, i think you should sit down with him and talk to him about the way you feel.
Try not to let him get to you though.

[Earthquake]

My dad keeps argueing at me and saying I'm going to have to pay for everything I use on sunday as my money runs out, **** sake.

[t0tsy]

My dad is like this in some ways. When he's not arguing with my mother he picks on me because he thinks i'm too scared to stand up to him. He decides one day he likes me and the next day he hates me and can't wait until he moves out so he can't see me again.
Tbh, i think you should sit down with him and talk to him about the way you feel.
Try not to let him get to you though.

Pretty much the same situation as me haha.
Except, mines takes everything out on me because I remind him of my mum.. who he hates :rolleyes:
Hmmm..parents :/

[Abbie.]

my dad picks on me all the time, he yells and argues at me for no reason, it was about the tv this morning, he woke me up 2 yell at me because the red light was on it or something :S? then told me i couldnt have a shower, but i got one anyway and im not allowed pocket money and that he wants me out of his house woo

just ignore him, dotn let him get too u lols.

[t0tsy]

my dad picks on me all the time, he yells and argues at me for no reason, it was about the tv this morning, he woke me up 2 yell at me because the red light was on it or something :S? then told me i couldnt have a shower, but i got one anyway and im not allowed pocket money and that he wants me out of his house woo

just ignore him, dotn let him get too u lols.

that's ridiciulous!
although, if i've been to the toilet and forgot to close the door my dad will wait until i'm at the top of the stairs to shout me back down to close it. he is so annoying! he's trying to "teach me a lesson" and "learn" - sometimes it's just a general mistake?! sake.

it's somewhat reassuring to know that other people experience this too. i thought it was just my dad who was a *****. pfft i can't wait to move out and get on with my life, stress free :/

[Abbie.]

that's ridiciulous!
although, if i've been to the toilet and forgot to close the door my dad will wait until i'm at the top of the stairs to shout me back down to close it. he is so annoying! he's trying to "teach me a lesson" and "learn" - sometimes it's just a general mistake?! sake.

it's somewhat reassuring that other people experience this too...i thought it was just my dad who was a *****. pfft i can wait to move out and get on with my life, stress free :/

ughh and he goes mental if u dont turn off lights, or close doors behind you

i try not to get stressed out though, whats the point, he used to really upset me, but i just live with it now lmao even when hes being a complete *****

[t0tsy]

ughh and he goes mental if u dont turn off lights, or close doors behind you

i try not to get stressed out though, whats the point, he used to really upset me, but i just live with it now lmao even when hes being a complete *****

yes! just like my dad haha.
yeah, recently i've just let it go over my head. i haven't spoke to him in like 3 days.

i once moved out for 8 months because if i had stayed i would've killed him.
i think that may be happening again soon :/

it's so unfair though, parents are suppost to encourage you and support you, but my dad says i'm too old now and that i should know by myself. he buys my brother everything and it's not fair. i mean, when i was his age i didn't get anything bought for me, he wouldn't even think of buying me something i desperately needed, socks or deodrant or something. he thinks the problem's with me, but it's not..he just can't see that, but it's kind of obvious because his other daughter couldn't move out fast enough!

pssht :|

[Mickster]

Eventually he will die

Wow, you should become a psychologist.

[Bef]

Meh, u cant choose ur family. Trust me!! I havnt seen my dad or mum in years and tbh i never want to see either of them again! hope they both drop down dead. harsh but true.

[Nicola]

my dad picks on me all the time, he yells and argues at me for no reason, it was about the tv this morning, he woke me up 2 yell at me because the red light was on it or something :S? then told me i couldnt have a shower, but i got one anyway and im not allowed pocket money and that he wants me out of his house woo

just ignore him, dotn let him get too u lols.

Oh i know the feeling :|
Mines such a hypocrite
I accidently knocked my drink over and he goes "what the hell are you doing?! we're trying to sell this house"
He can't talk, he's got an HUGE stain on the carpet where he left the iron :rolleyes: *sigh* parents.

[Dan2nd]

My dads fine with me =o I can't beleve so many people dislike their parents :(

[cazzah]

Ooooer! My dads just like this! he randomly starts insulting me. i do loads of stuff tht he asks and he still picks on me! and only me. i have 2 brothers and a sister, and its ME that gets asked to do everything, even if im buys or if it would be easyer for someone else to do it. =[ so i know how you feel. best thing is though, he knows im smarter than him. so he will get into an argument with me, ill argue back and then he will jsut say something stupid and expect it to make sense and end the argument. Grr.

[Mint]

Tell him how much he peas you of and he might stop.