Basicially, all he does is have a go at me about 50% of the day hes nice then the other just complaining im not doing this that and the other. When I simply am, I have done tons for him this holiday like put phones on ebay do chores around the house, do things in the garden for him, loads of things. Do I ask for money. NO. All he does wrong seems to relate back to me blaims me for everything IE, im plaiyng maplestory this online game and hes like the internet is being slow coz ur on it get of now. So im not that botherd but then he rings up telewest to see what the problem may be they disconnected it for some reason not because of my game, now hes not letting me play the game again because he doesnt want it to interfere when Ive been playing it for so long now. Like I have about 10 friends I usually see out of school there all away for most of the summer so Ive not really seen alot of friends this holiday. Just because hes arguing with my mum he decides to have a go at me going uve been so unsociable this holiday, why didnt u go on camp (this thing were like u meet up with other people and the organisation takes you away somewhere like scotland or somewhere like that. I dont like the people on it there vile, so opiniated and spoilt rich brats. He thinks im being a brat and making excuses, when im really not!!! He then says ring up ben and joy these people I knew like 5 years ago who I barley even know now and Im like i dont even know them really and hes like all you do is make excuses when am i really going to ring up someone i havnt spoken to properly in that long?!!!!?!?!?! NO. All I say is im a little bored and he just critises me because he wants me to be like my sister who has a ton of friends but its not like im a gimp or anything i do have a good group of friends just theyve mostly been away!!! :@ He wont accept that, he thinks im just making up excuses, also everyday he has something to have a go at me, and sorry i dont mean to be a prat but dont say sit down and talk to him, because i do and he just throws it back in my face and thinks im just lying or have an answer to everything. I really just want to move out and start my own life, but im afraid im 14 so thats not possible atm!!
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I CANT bear my dad any longer now.
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You do realise that most parents do the same things at different levels of intensity?
Conductor of the Runaway Train of Militant Homosexuality
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Parents are *bleeps*
I just ignore my dad, he's a complete *bleep* and sometimes I just want to kill him.
Theres no point in giving him the satisfaction by arguing back though.
All you can do is put up with it. :rolleyes:
I can't wait until I move out haha.Angey.
"Can you feel her burning through your veins?"
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Yeh i want other opinions too, but I guess I should just ignore him its just I have this weekness were eventually ill feel sorry for him and give in and be nice!
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Yeah I'm pretty sure everybody gives in, because you're meant to love your parents.
Originally Posted by Bouncing
But I think I'm past that stage, and would rather just get on with my life without him in it haha
Angey.
"Can you feel her burning through your veins?"
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OMG my step dad is so annoying! he does the exact same thing to me all the time, to the point i just tell him what i think of him, oo and yes it includes a few *beeps* well quite a few but still. You've just got to put up with it, atleast he is thier for you and not left you ect.. He musst care about you even if its a little, he is still there.
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26-08-2008, 07:33 PM #7
If you grunt and mumble every time he asks you to do something, or has a go at you - he's got an excuse to ask you to do it more.
However, if you complete the task(s) quickly, properly and with a smile on your face - this will get to him, and make him notice what you're doing more. In turn, it may make him realise what you do for him.
The other option is to gain support from your mother and ask her to say something, because he's much more likely to listen to her than you.
Good luck!
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Jay x
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26-08-2008, 07:56 PM #8
He's a dad, it's what they do.
Is a hippopotamus a hippopotamus or just a really cool opotamous?
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I see children to parents as a) little angels b) someone you can use untl the age of 18 to do everything that you dont want to do. Eventually he will die
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26-08-2008, 08:45 PM #10
My dad is like this in some ways. When he's not arguing with my mother he picks on me because he thinks i'm too scared to stand up to him. He decides one day he likes me and the next day he hates me and can't wait until he moves out so he can't see me again.
Tbh, i think you should sit down with him and talk to him about the way you feel.
Try not to let him get to you though.
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