This Girl! (Current Situation)

[Karma]

Hey Guys,

Well there is this girl I like and she some how found out that I liked her from her mates because they noticed me flirting with her!

So yesterday I texted her telling how I felt and what she thought of it and she text me saying that she maybe likes me aswell and she thinks its more of a Yes than a No but the only problem is she has never been out with anyone! so shes had no previous experience.

I replyed saying that I will give her time to think and then just tried to get deeper with her by telling her how beautiful she looks and that I miss her and stuff and she was like maybe im thinking of you aswell and all that.

I told her to keep it between ourselves but she wanted to tell her best friend who is like a sister to her so I said thats fine and she was like I think can trust you now and stuff. She normally doesn't give anyone "Xs" on MSN or through texting and now shes started giving them to me.

Does this mean im going out with her or not? Or we are still friends or we are seeing each other or something lol? How can I move myself foward like by getting her to like me more and impressing her so it becomes a definite "Yes"?

Please post relevant advice/comments below! :D

Thanks

[DieselShaq]

Okay wait, she found out from her mates but you want her to keep it between you two? With girls, it's a bit hard... Gossip just spreads like water in an open field.

Anyway, I don't think she's really "going out" with you yet. If she's still somewhat confused and unclear on her own feelings, it's not definite.

The way I did it earlier on was just by talking. Keep on talking to her for now, but don't overdo it by talking for straight hours. You don't want her to think that you're annoying. Start off slow and then gradually talk to her more. Not sure that she'll tell you when it's a "yes", though.

[RockyHorror]

Just...Ask? If your confused on the situation, just ask her to clarify if anything is going to happen, is happening.

To impress her, you've done as much as you can through texts and msn. Meet up with her, take her to the cinema, just get to know her more, make her take notice of you but don't crowd her.

[Auspice]

Take it from me it's dfficult to know how a girl is feeling because it's difficult when it's the first time for anything. The person above is right though, just keep gradually talking to her and throwing the odd compliment in, but don't go too over the top otherwise you'll scare her off. If someone is confused like this girl sounds, it's a very gradual process for her to realise her own feelings.

[BlueTackle]

you arnt going out untill she asks you or you ask her

Send her "X" back

and ask if she'l go out with you :D

[BaybeeElin]

If this could be her first relationship, i'm pretty sure she doesn't want to be rushing into things. So let her take her time and think it though. She sounds quite shy, so don't over do it or you may scare her off.

Basically just talk to her, win her over by being yourself.

[Tristan]

She normally doesn't give anyone "Xs" on MSN or through texting and now shes started giving them to me.

Yes because I'm sure that you look in her phone's text message outbox and check her msn logs all the time. :rolleyes:

[Niall!]

All I have to say is you're not getting any for awhile.

[Diqu]

i like girls too

[ItsDave]

Ask her if shes ready to be your girlfriend and say that the time you've shared over the past week or so has been so much fun. Good luck buddy

[BlueEyedSarah]

Just give her some time to think about it first. After a week if there is still nothing said about it then ask her out again. Give her some time don't over crowd her with kisses and telling her you miss her a lot as for a girl it gets a bit overwelming and annoying.

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[5,5]

Talk to her in person and she what she wants to do. Also go slow with her since its her first relationship.

[leah]

Give her time, continue with whatever you're doing and maybe ask her to clarify in a few weeks, she may have made up her mind by then. :P

[Paulio]

How do you know she dosen't send other people X's on MSN and ****. I wouldn't get your hopes up about that because sending X's is what most lasses and even lads do. I somtimes get an ear full for not putting an X on the end of my texts lol.

As others have said, if it's her first relationship and you arn't just after one thing, then take it slowly. Maybe you can take her too the cinima or somthing else that you know she enjoys doing. Make sure you don't act different now that you're seeing her btw as she likes you for you (or however you have bee acting whilst with her).

Good luck!

[Loqo]

I dont think your together yet. Just ask her out, all you can do and what's the worst that can happen? And about the "X's" thing. Everyone does that, I know you feel as if your special but seriously, ask her out! :)

[Karma]

Its all been ended today! :(Im well annoyed and upset! :(

Thanks for all your help guys!

[BlueEyedSarah]

Sorry to hear :(

[BaybeeElin]

Its all been ended today! :(Im well annoyed and upset! :(

Thanks for all your help guys!

What happened? :S

[e5]

It takes time. You just keep talking to her laughin at her jokes or making her laugh. Gradually you'll build a strong relationship, BUT YOU HAVE TO GIVE IT TIME! Never try dive straight in there, I promise you it won't work.