This Girl! (Current Situation)

[Karma]

Hey Guys,

Well there is this girl I like and she some how found out that I liked her from her mates because they noticed me flirting with her!

So yesterday I texted her telling how I felt and what she thought of it and she text me saying that she maybe likes me aswell and she thinks its more of a Yes than a No but the only problem is she has never been out with anyone! so shes had no previous experience.

I replyed saying that I will give her time to think and then just tried to get deeper with her by telling her how beautiful she looks and that I miss her and stuff and she was like maybe im thinking of you aswell and all that.

I told her to keep it between ourselves but she wanted to tell her best friend who is like a sister to her so I said thats fine and she was like I think can trust you now and stuff. She normally doesn't give anyone "Xs" on MSN or through texting and now shes started giving them to me.

Does this mean im going out with her or not? Or we are still friends or we are seeing each other or something lol? How can I move myself foward like by getting her to like me more and impressing her so it becomes a definite "Yes"?

Please post relevant advice/comments below!

Thanks

[DieselShaq]

Okay wait, she found out from her mates but you want her to keep it between you two? With girls, it's a bit hard... Gossip just spreads like water in an open field.

Anyway, I don't think she's really "going out" with you yet. If she's still somewhat confused and unclear on her own feelings, it's not definite.

The way I did it earlier on was just by talking. Keep on talking to her for now, but don't overdo it by talking for straight hours. You don't want her to think that you're annoying. Start off slow and then gradually talk to her more. Not sure that she'll tell you when it's a "yes", though.

[RockyHorror]

Just...Ask? If your confused on the situation, just ask her to clarify if anything is going to happen, is happening.

To impress her, you've done as much as you can through texts and msn. Meet up with her, take her to the cinema, just get to know her more, make her take notice of you but don't crowd her.

[Auspice]

Take it from me it's dfficult to know how a girl is feeling because it's difficult when it's the first time for anything. The person above is right though, just keep gradually talking to her and throwing the odd compliment in, but don't go too over the top otherwise you'll scare her off. If someone is confused like this girl sounds, it's a very gradual process for her to realise her own feelings.

[BlueTackle]

you arnt going out untill she asks you or you ask her

Send her "X" back

and ask if she'l go out with you

[BaybeeElin]

If this could be her first relationship, i'm pretty sure she doesn't want to be rushing into things. So let her take her time and think it though. She sounds quite shy, so don't over do it or you may scare her off.

Basically just talk to her, win her over by being yourself.

[Tristan]

She normally doesn't give anyone "Xs" on MSN or through texting and now shes started giving them to me.

Yes because I'm sure that you look in her phone's text message outbox and check her msn logs all the time. :rolleyes:

[Niall!]

All I have to say is you're not getting any for awhile.

[Diqu]

i like girls too

[ItsDave]

Ask her if shes ready to be your girlfriend and say that the time you've shared over the past week or so has been so much fun. Good luck buddy