Friends and relationships?

[Immenseman]

Do you value your friends opinions when you're in or contemplating a relationship? For example, say your friends really hated the guy/gal you want to be with and you liked would you listen to your friends and forget about the guy/gal or would you tell your friends that this is what you wanted and you're going to do it?

[Cashew]

I'd do what I wanted.

[luce]

yeah i do what i want they aren't the ones who have to be with them so idc:eusa_whis

[Immenseman]

what happened to bros before ****

[Meree.]

I'd ignore them and do what I wanted, seeing as it's your life and your in control of it, not your friends.

[Melsia]

If I really wanted to be with the person then I'd see if my friends could come to a compromise but in the past they've always been right about their judgements (well the friends I care about :P) so it would definitely affect my opinion on a person. Probably makes me sound really weak but it's true :(

[Pyroka]

I GUESS IM THE ONLY ONE? LOL

Really though, if its a girl that my mates really dont like then I wont cuz who are you gonna be hanging out with most of the time? :S I wouldnt ditch my mates for the sake of a girl, I'd either try and include her or... ye, dump. new work ethic LOL.

[MrGazet]

Well,I'll only kinda listen to the mates I really care bout.Not listen 100 % but at the sme time try to make them like her.Well,if that girl is really special to me...

[Pyroka]

Yay for this thread sounding like a bad romantic movie... "NOTHING WIL GET IN THE WAY OF OUR LOVE NOT EVEN THE SINKIN TITANI O SH-"

[Immenseman]

Like Melsia, I'd have to find some sort of compromise if my friends didn't like the person I was luvvin, they'd both be very important to me :)

[leah]

I wouldn't be able to, cause no matter what they could say i'd still like the guy and so wouldn't change my mind unless I, myself got bored of him.

[Immenseman]

but when you and the guy finish... then what

[Callum.]

I used to care what my friends thought on who I date, not anymore.

[Richie]

I'd value my friends opinion on the person as I know them longer and trust them.

[chantellehugs]

If my friends had a valid reason for not liking the person, then I'd think about it, but if it was something like, 'Oh he just annoys me', I'd do what I wanted. But as people say, 'Love is blind'? So some people just sorta ignore their friends no matter what, and end up getting hurt..

[buttons]

if my friends don't like them that spurs me on more to go for it, not to prove "LOOK HE'S GOOD ENOUGH" i do it just to spite them

if my family on the other hand don't like them it's a deffo no. kinda hard to impress my brothers though.

[Gibs960]

Althought I'm young my mate went out with a girl and she was kickin me all the time, but my mate wouldn't dump her... mainly because her mum wouldn't let them split up.... She was mad!!!

[Black_Apalachi]

what happened to bros before ****

I hate that cos my mate reckons I'm only mates with his ex through him even though I never even liked him at school (so I was mates with her before I was mates with him) and I go to uni with her so I'm just like fgs sthu :@.

Anyway I'd just do what I want. Although I doubt my friends would have a reason to hate someone without me having the same reason to hate them.

[FlyingJesus]

I'm not likely to be into a girl (personality wise) that my friends won't be friendly with, because my friends and I are very alike. Don't think I've ever had this problem, my bffl however... he makes mistakes.

[Bun]

i'd listen to my mates but if the lass is fit then i'd do what i wanted lol.....

[Nicola]

I'd take into account what they have to say but at the end of the day I'm going to trust my own instincts.