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HotelUser
25-06-2010, 01:50 AM
Are genuinely not straight, and know for sure that you're not. Over the past fiveish years it seems like the sexuality of the boys at Habbox has swayed from mostly straight to something else. I know there's another thread with a sexuality poll, but it's not anonymous, and here you can explain as to whether or not you think the Habbox community and people here gave gad an influence on your sexuality?

Moh
25-06-2010, 01:53 AM
There seams to be a lot more gay / bi people in general.

Well, I think there are just more open about it.

FlyingJesus
25-06-2010, 02:12 AM
People often tend to think they "know for sure" even when they don't - we as humans don't like accepting the fact that we don't have total knowledge of anything, let alone of ourselves. Spin back 5 or 6 years and I'd probably have adamantly argued for my bisexuality, whereas now I'm as certain as I can be that I'm simply straight, maybe with a couple of odd tendencies.

lTraditional
25-06-2010, 06:21 AM
Well most people either don't know for sure and they probably want it to be personal. Now, we do get more gay people on the forums and there is totally nothing wrong with that! Anyways, I am straight!

Nemo
25-06-2010, 06:24 AM
Pretty damn sure im straight

Mathew
25-06-2010, 07:25 AM
When going through puberty, it is normal to be attracted to people of the same sex. With the average age of Habbox users getting younger (where they are hitting puberty), more and more people think they are "bi" when indeed, they do not know for sure.

Special
25-06-2010, 07:53 AM
pretty sure i'm bent - if i'm not gay then i'm bi but im sure i'm gay

MrPinkPanther
25-06-2010, 08:14 AM
I used to think I was Bisexual but now I am concretely sure I am Gay.

I don't think its that Habbox has had an impact on anyones sexuality, rather the other way around. On Habbo there is no fixed objective to complete which makes it a game more attractive to girls and perhaps more feminine guys, this means that the kind of guys that play Habbo are more likely to be Gay. This is a large generalisation and of course I'm not saying all guys who play Habbo are feminine just an above average percentage. As for the rise of homosexuals on Habbox I think its because 5 years ago Habbox had a largely younger user base of 12 and 13 year olds who had not yet been through puberty, now a lot of us are older we have recognised our sexuality and come out as it were :).

Jordy
25-06-2010, 09:19 AM
I used to think I was Bisexual but now I am concretely sure I am Gay.

I don't think its that Habbox has had an impact on anyones sexuality, rather the other way around. On Habbo there is no fixed objective to complete which makes it a game more attractive to girls and perhaps more feminine guys, this means that the kind of guys that play Habbo are more likely to be Gay. This is a large generalisation and of course I'm not saying all guys who play Habbo are feminine just an above average percentage. As for the rise of homosexuals on Habbox I think its because 5 years ago Habbox had a largely younger user base of 12 and 13 year olds who had not yet been through puberty, now a lot of us are older we have recognised our sexuality and come out as it were :).Totally agree with this, I don't think a forum can influence a persons sexuality. I don't think Habbo does either, I just think it attracts more homosexuals due to the creativeness and the whole environment. Of course some homosexuals aren't into that and many heterosexuals are so I'm generalising but I think it's fair to say, there is an abnormally high number of gays on Habbo. Bare in mind people are far more likely to come out online, so there will always appear to be more gays online than there in real life. For instance I only speak to about 10 people online, 4 of them are gay. Yet in real life, I only know one person in my year group who is gay :P

I'm unsure whether anyone can be 100% straight, late 90s perhaps? But anyways it's never been an issue for me and I've never thought otherwise.

Nixt
25-06-2010, 09:35 AM
I am 100% not straight. Whilst I don't believe anyone can personally say they are 100% inclined either way, as far as I can say it I am gay. I can see when women are attractive and can see "sex appeal" as it were but don't have any desire to engage in sexual activity with them.

It's not always been that way though, I've flicked from straight to bisexual to a brief straight period and now I am gay. I guess throughout puberty I was always sure I was gay but didn't want to totally identify as gay. I have slept with women in the past but now the idea is not appealing at all and I can't see myself having a sexual relationship with a female at any point in my life.

MrPinkPanther
25-06-2010, 09:39 AM
I am 100% not straight.
What a shocker ;)



It's not always been that way though, I've flicked from straight to bisexual to a brief straight period and now I am gay. I guess throughout puberty I was always sure I was gay but didn't want to totally identify as gay. I have slept with women in the past but now the idea is not appealing at all and I can't see myself having a sexual relationship with a female at any point in my life.

Thats exactly the same as me, I only realised I was gay when I realised I didn't fancy women I just thought i'd like to have sexual intercourse with them ^^. Now I don't even want that, I'd rather be with a guy :).

Sameer!
25-06-2010, 11:17 AM
I am straight yay :)

Con
25-06-2010, 01:37 PM
I've been thinking about my sexuality for the best part of 6/7 years. Even in year 5 I thought I might be gay, and I eventually understood I could be Bi.
So I am 100% sure im not 100% straight :P
I don't think that Habbox community has had an influence on my sexuality, but it has on accepting it and helping me tell other people?

Moh
25-06-2010, 01:54 PM
I still don't understand why everybody says to somebody whos younger that it's probably just puberty. Everybody who had feelings for other guys at a young age still have them when they grow up. Everybody who is gay/bi probably knew they wasn't straight when they was 13, whether or not they were open about it.

Erotica
25-06-2010, 01:56 PM
I'm pretty sure that I'm not straight.

Axel
25-06-2010, 02:00 PM
Well, even if I can tell if a guy is good looking, I never have, or even thought about fancying a guy or anything like that. I know 100% that I'm straight, and that isn't going to change.

MrPinkPanther
25-06-2010, 02:10 PM
I still don't understand why everybody says to somebody whos younger that it's probably just puberty. Everybody who had feelings for other guys at a young age still have them when they grow up. Everybody who is gay/bi probably knew they wasn't straight when they was 13, whether or not they were open about it.
I kinda agree. Sometimes people do have feelings about the same sex and end up straight but I've always thought if you properly fancy the same sex, whatever age, then you are probably gay.


and that isn't going to change.
Orly?

Josh
25-06-2010, 04:34 PM
I am straight.

Homosexual
25-06-2010, 04:38 PM
There seams to be a lot more gay / bi people in general.

Well, I think there are just more open about it.

I definitely agree with you on this.

I think people at Habbox have started becoming more tolerable of gay/bisexual/lesbians, and possibly when Garion became the GM and people found out he was gay also helped others come out? :)

Technologic
25-06-2010, 05:12 PM
always liked willies, always will

Shar
25-06-2010, 10:42 PM
Is anyone 100% straight?! You always see the same sex attractive in one way or another, even if not sexually lol

Nemo
25-06-2010, 10:45 PM
Is anyone 100% straight?! You always see the same sex attractive in one way or another, even if not sexually lol
Not really, i actually can't distinguish what is a 'hot' male. I know an ugly one (most of the time), but not hot.

Aidenn
25-06-2010, 11:17 PM
I am 100% that I am NOT straight

was my answer, and the only thing Habbox done was personnally help me out, i could be open to people and it gave me the confidence about coming out of the 'closet'

Camy
26-06-2010, 01:34 AM
i know myself im totally straight, i've only ever had feelings for girls, ive never thought 'that guys hot' or want to be anywhere near a guy sexually, so it confuses me when people say 'everyone has mixed sexuality feelings when going through puberty'

its surprising how many people claim to be gay/bisexual on here nowadays, i don't remember there being anyone who was openly gay when i started on here. maybe it is because there are others, people feel comfortable coming out on here. although it wouldn't surprise me if some people were doing it for attention. someone i know irl did exactly that, then confessed about it like 2 years later, suffice to say, people were not best pleased when they found out.

gangstaagent1
26-06-2010, 02:16 AM
I am sure that I am not 100% straight... Saying it on HabboxForum made me tell people irl because I know that most people don't think of you any different.

HotelUser
26-06-2010, 03:30 AM
I am sure that I am not 100% straight... Saying it on HabboxForum made me tell people irl because I know that most people don't think of you any different.

I don't talk about anything too personal on the forum because I know my brother knows I use the forum, and he could be watching me!

MrPinkPanther
26-06-2010, 10:00 AM
although it wouldn't surprise me if some people were doing it for attention. someone i know irl did exactly that, then confessed about it like 2 years later, suffice to say, people were not best pleased when they found out.

I know someone who did that as well. He said he was Bisexual until one of my friends tried to set him up with a guy.

.iNova.
26-06-2010, 10:56 AM
Im straight. Although people think i'm gay? I must be kinda camp or something.

dogboy123
26-06-2010, 11:00 AM
not sure, in primary school i was straight but then secondary school its all different

Sameer!
26-06-2010, 03:01 PM
I've been straight all my life wewt

ifuseekamy
26-06-2010, 06:21 PM
i know myself im totally straight, i've only ever had feelings for girls, ive never thought 'that guys hot' or want to be anywhere near a guy sexually, so it confuses me when people say 'everyone has mixed sexuality feelings when going through puberty'

its surprising how many people claim to be gay/bisexual on here nowadays, i don't remember there being anyone who was openly gay when i started on here. maybe it is because there are others, people feel comfortable coming out on here. although it wouldn't surprise me if some people were doing it for attention. someone i know irl did exactly that, then confessed about it like 2 years later, suffice to say, people were not best pleased when they found out.
Me neither, I just knew. I can understand being in denial but I've never known anyone genuinely confused as in they like penis one day then vagina the next.

kuzkasate
26-06-2010, 06:30 PM
Well I am straight but went through the "am I a bi?" time too. Most people have opened up because other members have. You could of been bullied for being gay, but now, more people are open about it so its fine I guess.

But yeah, I am sure I am straight.

Soy
26-06-2010, 07:29 PM
straight mate

gangstaagent1
27-06-2010, 04:20 AM
I don't talk about anything too personal on the forum because I know my brother knows I use the forum, and he could be watching me!

My family is homophobic so it doesn't really help... Me brother hates Habbo also so I think i'm good :P

HotelUser
27-06-2010, 04:28 AM
My family is homophobic so it doesn't really help... Me brother hates Habbo also so I think i'm good :P


Ah, the typical Canadian family Matt :)

Homosexual
27-06-2010, 08:40 AM
My family is homophobic so it doesn't really help... Me brother hates Habbo also so I think i'm good :P

If you are gay, don't you think telling them might change their views?

-:Undertaker:-
27-06-2010, 06:10 PM
If you are gay, don't you think telling them might change their views?

Why take that risk when you dont need to?

kuzkasate
27-06-2010, 06:13 PM
Why take that risk when you dont need to?

I agree with you. Why would you risk loosing your family for that? Just keep it personal & quiet and if you find a moment & decide to tell them, then you will.

buttons
27-06-2010, 09:55 PM
why only guys:S
i'm not 100% with my sexuality and haven't been since i was 11. i rarely like anyone that much, i'm kinda neutral. i don't see myself with anyone when i'm older (i want a massive family though, just without the father >.>) but that's probably just my personality - i value freedom too much. i prefer doing things alone and having a lot of time to myself :/ in my experience guys are too sleazy and insensitive and girls are boring and annoying. i've had relationships with guys and never really felt anything that special, i always tried to force myself with them aswell. i had feelings for a girl before but i dunno if it was just like a sisterly love kinda thing (grew up with older brothers :/). i'm definitely sexually attracted to both but more emotionally attracted to girls, i like girls because they can be cute and innocent and are just generally quite opposite to me, guys are much better for being friends with because we're similar(A). anyway i don't shout about it like a lot of gays/bi's do, i definitely think a lot of it is for attention -.-
either way if i find someone who is my ideal type i won't mind their gender at all.

HotelUser
27-06-2010, 09:59 PM
why only guys:S
i'm not 100% with my sexuality and haven't been since i was 11. i rarely like anyone that much, i'm kinda neutral. i don't see myself with anyone when i'm older (i want a massive family though, just without the father >.>) but that's probably just my personality - i value freedom too much. i prefer doing things alone and having a lot of time to myself :/ in my experience guys are too sleazy and insensitive and girls are boring and annoying. i've had relationships with guys and never really felt anything that special, i always tried to force myself with them aswell. i had feelings for a girl before but i dunno if it was just like a sisterly love kinda thing (grew up with older brothers :/). i'm definitely sexually attracted to both but more emotionally attracted to girls, i like girls because they can be cute and innocent and are just generally quite opposite to me, guys are just better for being friends with. either way if i find someone who is my ideal type i won't mind their gender at all.

I made the thread directed towards males because it's the surplus of non-straight males online versus in real life. Perhaps it's the same with females, but I haven't noticed!

Fehm
27-06-2010, 10:26 PM
I think I'm more Bi than either of them. I don't think you can actually be fully straight or fully gay to be honest.

I'm the kind of person that could, at a long shot find a boy attractive, but never become emotionally attatched... moreso now than ever before. But Girls, I find both the sex appeal, physically attractive and also emotionally? More straight most people would say but... It's still really weird in my head...

FlyingJesus
27-06-2010, 10:31 PM
I think I'm more Bi than either of them. I don't think you can actually be fully straight or fully gay to be honest.

I'm the kind of person that could, at a long shot find a boy attractive, but never become emotionally attatched... moreso now than ever before. But Girls, I find both the sex appeal, physically attractive and also emotionally? More straight most people would say but... It's still really weird in my head...

I'd say that's just being 15 to be honest. That's not meant as an attack on you or anything, it's just that finding a few guys attractive isn't the same thing as being gay/bi

Muct
27-06-2010, 10:49 PM
I'd say that's just being 15 to be honest. That's not meant as an attack on you or anything, it's just that finding a few guys attractive isn't the same thing as being gay/bi

I agree... All i think you're doing is comparing your own looks to another guys or something? I dunno...

Fehm
27-06-2010, 10:49 PM
I'm 17 in a week (Y) ;)

Muct
27-06-2010, 11:02 PM
I'm 17 in a week (Y) ;)

Age has nothing to dow tih your sexual attraction at all, as long as your through or going through puberty you know it's real... I've had attractions before, and at a very early stage of life (Started puberty at 11)
Doesn';t matter about your age as long as you're through or going through puberty.

rnix
27-06-2010, 11:04 PM
The way i look at it is, i aint going to decide my sexuality until i explore everything.
I have had girlfriends and im with my boyfriend now who i love so much but i expect i can have that with a girl as i dream of having a family and a wife when im older.
So :D

Fehm
27-06-2010, 11:26 PM
Aww thats sweet :3

gangstaagent1
28-06-2010, 01:21 AM
Ah, the typical Canadian family Matt :)
ikr... D:

If you are gay, don't you think telling them might change their views?
Not really... Why would they care.... Most parents would just neglect you... Like mine would probably do.

Why take that risk when you dont need to?
My point exactly. I don't plan on staying in contact with them when I become legal age :P

I agree with you. Why would you risk loosing your family for that? Just keep it personal & quiet and if you find a moment & decide to tell them, then you will.
I told like everyone at school, surprised my brother doesn't know yet and then tell my parents... ;l

Muct
28-06-2010, 01:28 AM
Matt I knew you was gay! And you said you was nothing like Justin Bieber when I teased you! :D
(Not that I'm saying you are like him at all, it's just your voice k?)

But yeah, if you tell your parents and they don't accept it, then they aren't good, are they? A real parent would accept their children no matter what.

CrackSplat
28-06-2010, 02:29 AM
100% Straight.

HotelUser
28-06-2010, 02:46 AM
I told like everyone at school, surprised my brother doesn't know yet and then tell my parents... ;l

What's the age difference between you and your brother? What's annoying in a lot of situations is having two siblings that are a similar age. Then you have to always watch what you say, because of mutual friends.

Jahova
28-06-2010, 12:52 PM
Definately straight and I'll admit now slightly homophobic.

gangstaagent1
28-06-2010, 05:24 PM
What's the age difference between you and your brother? What's annoying in a lot of situations is having two siblings that are a similar age. Then you have to always watch what you say, because of mutual friends.
Two years. We have loads of mutual friends though. I hang out with his friends and he hangs out with mine. So you could say that we have mutual friends xD

Homosexual
29-06-2010, 05:05 PM
Two years. We have loads of mutual friends though. I hang out with his friends and he hangs out with mine. So you could say that we have mutual friends xD

Are you sure he don't know, or has he just never said anything? :D

MrPinkPanther
29-06-2010, 05:32 PM
Definately straight and I'll admit now slightly homophobic.
Why? I'm not having a go or anything, just intrigued ^^

Santorefish
29-06-2010, 05:36 PM
Im 13 and completely 100% straight

Im not homophobic or w.e its called but i find wht gay people do a bit sick, same with lesbians, i have nothing against them ..

I cant stand the thought of having any sort of relationship or sexual activities with another man, it just really really doesnt appeal to me.

Kieran
29-06-2010, 06:01 PM
Well my story:

I'd always thought I liked guys but I didn't tell anyone whilst I was in school, not sure if it was because I was scared of what people thought. I even had a girlfriend but knew that I only really had a sexual relationship with her to stay with my mates cause I didn't know what they'd think if I came out. I finally decided to come out when I left school and I wish now I'd come out earlier. No one deserted me or gave me ****.

I do still have doubts about my sexuality, I don't think I'm 100% gay and I do want kids when I'm older so I dunno... all I know is that at the moment I prefer guys :)

ihatehash
29-06-2010, 08:58 PM
I have wondered about my sexuality in my past but I don't think I could ever have a serios relationship with another guy, or sexually either. I just cringe when I think of sex with another guy.

GoldenMerc
29-06-2010, 09:16 PM
I've wondered before but then now iv realised im pretty much obsessed with girls.

Homosexual
29-06-2010, 09:34 PM
Im 13 and completely 100% straight

Im not homophobic or w.e its called but i find wht gay people do a bit sick, same with lesbians, i have nothing against them ..

I cant stand the thought of having any sort of relationship or sexual activities with another man, it just really really doesnt appeal to me.

Why do you find it a bit sick? I'm just wondering, because if you start life thinking that things you don't do are sick, then you'll find a lot of things sick.. not having a go, just wondering.


Well my story:

I'd always thought I liked guys but I didn't tell anyone whilst I was in school, not sure if it was because I was scared of what people thought. I even had a girlfriend but knew that I only really had a sexual relationship with her to stay with my mates cause I didn't know what they'd think if I came out. I finally decided to come out when I left school and I wish now I'd come out earlier. No one deserted me or gave me ****.

I do still have doubts about my sexuality, I don't think I'm 100% gay and I do want kids when I'm older so I dunno... all I know is that at the moment I prefer guys :)

No-one is 100% gay anyway.. and if you want kids, adopt? It depends where you live, but look into it?

Kieran
29-06-2010, 09:37 PM
Why do you find it a bit sick? I'm just wondering, because if you start life thinking that things you don't do are sick, then you'll find a lot of things sick.. not having a go, just wondering.



No-one is 100% gay anyway.. and if you want kids, adopt? It depends where you live, but look into it?

Don't think I'd ever want a kid to have to have two dads... be a tad weird I think.

Axel
29-06-2010, 09:41 PM
not sure, in primary school i was straight but then secondary school its all different

not sure, *REMOVED*

Edited by Cosmic (Forum Moderator) Please don't post comments that could appear to be rude to other members, thanks.

Homosexual
29-06-2010, 09:41 PM
Don't think I'd ever want a kid to have to have two dads... be a tad weird I think.

Ah, I think it'd be a good idea if you wanted kids. I want kids, but girls just don't give me that sexual urge.. so I'm going to adopt. Although, I do see where you're coming from by saying it's a bit weird.. :\

Kieran
29-06-2010, 09:42 PM
Ah, I think it'd be a good idea if you wanted kids. I want kids, but girls just don't give me that sexual urge.. so I'm going to adopt. Although, I do see where you're coming from by saying it's a bit weird.. :\

Yeah... I 100% want kids so I guess I'll just have to see how I feel in a few years time about it.

Homosexual
29-06-2010, 09:44 PM
Yeah... I 100% want kids so I guess I'll just have to see how I feel in a few years time about it.

Why don't you look into surrogate mothers?

Kieran
29-06-2010, 09:44 PM
Why don't you look into surrogate mothers?

The adoption wouldn't bother me... even with a surrogate it'd have two dads if I had a partner...

Homosexual
29-06-2010, 09:46 PM
The adoption wouldn't bother me... even with a surrogate it'd have two dads if I had a partner...

Oh, I get what you mean now. My bad :') I'm not sure then, I guess you'll have to wait!

Kieran
29-06-2010, 09:47 PM
Oh, I get what you mean now. My bad :') I'm not sure then, I guess you'll have to wait!

You say you want kids... d'ya reckon you'll just let it have two dads?

Homosexual
29-06-2010, 09:51 PM
You say you want kids... d'ya reckon you'll just let it have two dads?

Yeah, to be honest. Or I'd foster kids, cause they aren't actually your child..?

Cosmic
29-06-2010, 10:15 PM
I think it's one of those things that I've always known. Sometimes I get the odd doubt about a girl but I think it might just be curiosity over anything. I don't ever wants kid or anything like that as I have quite strong beliefs about it. For me, I wouldn't consider it right to bring up a child in a same-sex relationship. I think this largely comes down to the fact that I would feel so guilty if the child was be bullied through school- which seems likely. No one deserves to be bullied, especially for something that they can't help.

Kieran
29-06-2010, 10:16 PM
I think it's one of those things that I've always known. Sometimes I get the odd doubt about a girl but I think it might just be curiosity over anything. I don't ever wants kid or anything like that as I have quite strong beliefs about it. For me, I wouldn't consider it right to bring up a child in a same-sex relationship. I think this largely comes down to the fact that I would feel so guilty if the child was be bullied through school- which seems likely. No one deserves to be bullied, especially for something that they can't help.

Exactly my thoughts on kids but I want them :l

Muct
29-06-2010, 10:36 PM
Exactly my thoughts on kids but I want them :l
If you're smart enough you could home tutor them, couldn't you? :)

Kieran
29-06-2010, 10:43 PM
If you're smart enough you could home tutor them, couldn't you? :)

Wouldn't want that for my kids... going to school is one of the best parts of your life.

Muct
29-06-2010, 10:49 PM
Wouldn't want that for my kids... going to school is one of the best parts of your life.

True, friends and everything... But then you've got to think about the nasty kids who get their kicks off bullying nowadays, sure there'll be atleast one friend that sticks by them no matter what, but yeah... Bullies :/
I'd send them in for like the first eyar, and if it was to go well then keep them in, if it went really bad and they weren't happy, I'd drag them out and home tutor them... :D

EDIT: how the hell can I talk like this when I'm the youngest of all of you? LOLOL.

BobX
30-06-2010, 01:28 AM
I was 100% sure I was straight, then I did experiment with guys and after doing pretty much everything there is to do found it wasn't for me and now all I can think about is girls... Having done pretty much everything with a girl too I know that its the one I want although I do find some males attractive, I could just never have a relationship with one whereas with a girl I could. And I want.

HotelUser
30-06-2010, 01:38 AM
I was 100% sure I was straight, then I did experiment with guys and after doing pretty much everything there is to do found it wasn't for me and now all I can think about is girls... Having done pretty much everything with a girl too I know that its the one I want although I do find some males attractive, I could just never have a relationship with one whereas with a girl I could. And I want.

I think that's reasonable. I think a lot of males admire other males, but it's within our culture not to express such opinions for--well obvious reasons!

BobX
30-06-2010, 11:56 AM
yeah i mean i tried it but it wasn't really for me, i wouldnt really get anywhere with my life i dont think cause i couldnt have a relationship with another guy really.

Jaiisun
30-06-2010, 12:39 PM
At the end of the day, my view is that there my very well have been a mass increase in the number of openly gay/bi males on the forum, yet it doesn't neccessary suggest that there are more gay/bi males nowadays - surely it may just be due to the acceptance of our modern society, allowing these males to openly admit their sexuality?

Ultimately, it doesn't matter whether you're straight/gay/bi/asexual on this forum, or in life in general, as long as you make the right choice, ensuring you don't try to be something you're not.

Finally, I'll confirm that I'm straight!
:P

Fehm
01-07-2010, 09:15 AM
I guess I can find guys attractive? But would never consider a relationship :S Same as BobX tbh

Arron
01-07-2010, 11:28 AM
I've been bisexual since about 12. I finished with my girlfriend the other day and I think now I'm more into males, so like 75% Gay?

But I don't want to be, I want to have a wife, kids, grandkids when I'm older. I've actually never experimented Gay Sex but I think I will sometime soon...

MrPinkPanther
01-07-2010, 11:40 AM
andI think now I'm more into males, so like 75% Gay?

If you don't mind me asking, how old are you? It could be that your hormones haven't settled.

Kieran
01-07-2010, 12:06 PM
If you don't mind me asking, how old are you? It could be that your hormones haven't settled.

I hate when people say that. It's so patronising. Just because they're younger doesn't mean they don't know what they want in life :l

buttons
01-07-2010, 12:09 PM
I hate when people say that. It's so patronising. Just because they're younger doesn't mean they don't know what they want in life :l
oh god yeah, when people blame hormones it's just stupid. i liked girls (i know it says boys only but sh) when i was 11, way before puberty and got told it was a phase just my hormones when i told my friends aged 16 :/


i read some article before about a study on people who claim to be bisexual, it was titled "gay, straight or lying" apparently you're one or the other but i don't believe that:S yeah probably more inclined to one sex but not necessarily just the one... i'm more asexual than bisexual most the time anyway..

MrPinkPanther
01-07-2010, 12:15 PM
I hate when people say that. It's so patronising. Just because they're younger doesn't mean they don't know what they want in life :l

A significant amount of people who are Gay are first Bisexual, its the way your hormones work. It's nothing to do with "knowing what you want", its that your body hasn't finished developing. Not all Gay people go through the process but a lot do, I for one did :/

Kieran
01-07-2010, 12:17 PM
A significant amount of people who are Gay are first Bisexual, its the way your hormones work. It's nothing to do with "knowing what you want", its that your body hasn't finished developing. Not all Gay people go through the process but a lot do, I for one did :/

I'd say the majority of people say they're bi instead of gay is for a bit more acceptance. To them it doesn't seem as bad to say their bi as much as it does to say they're out right gay. Yet when they come out as bi, they realise everyone stands by them and so just come out as being gay.

MrPinkPanther
01-07-2010, 12:23 PM
I'd say the majority of people say they're bi instead of gay is for a bit more acceptance. To them it doesn't seem as bad to say their bi as much as it does to say they're out right gay. Yet when they come out as bi, they realise everyone stands by them and so just come out as being gay.

I'd disagree. Quite a lot of Gay people will come out as Gay later on in life but will have gone through the same "Bisexual" phase. I mean I am certain that I am Gay but just a few years ago I was physically attracted to Women as well as Men. I don't think anyone really understands how the body works because things like sexuality are almost impossible to prove, we can only speculate.

FlyingJesus
01-07-2010, 12:25 PM
When I was 13/14 it was the in thing with my friends to be "bi" and I think nearly all of us experimented, but most of them are fully straight now. I still have my tendencies but I still call myself straight because I'm fairly sure if I got with a guy now it'd be a purely sexual thing or at most just an unfulfilled need to be loved coming through :P think there's only ever been 1 guy that I was romantically into

Arron
01-07-2010, 12:36 PM
Well, I'm 17, seventeen.

Jamiie
30-07-2010, 12:00 AM
I think it's one of those things that I've always known. Sometimes I get the odd doubt about a girl but I think it might just be curiosity over anything. I don't ever wants kid or anything like that as I have quite strong beliefs about it. For me, I wouldn't consider it right to bring up a child in a same-sex relationship. I think this largely comes down to the fact that I would feel so guilty if the child was be bullied through school- which seems likely. No one deserves to be bullied, especially for something that they can't help.

Where you say You wouldn't consider it right to bring up a child in same-sex relationship, i was bought up in one since i was 10 im now 17
My mum went through a couple of women and was one of the first women to marry in england Anyways off that..
Tbf i got the odd thing shouted at me in school "Your mums a dyke" But now days people are more understanding of that tbf
So i don't think people really are bothered and Tbh i think all kids should be taught about same sex relationships because
for some people its part of life and there is some kids out there bought up to be Homophobes which i think is wrong
And my sexuality i'm straight and i agree with some of the people 99% of guys probally look at another guy and comment on what he looks like
and stuff. i will admit i have but that don't change who you are its normal i think. But i think my friends from school think im gay But ohwell
Just thought i would add my part to this sorry if i didn't make much sense

Apple
30-07-2010, 01:37 AM
I am positive that I am straight.

RedStratocas
30-07-2010, 04:16 AM
admittedly ive never experimented with males lol, but ive honestly never been interested/curious in doing so. ive had plenty of sexual interactions with girls, and ive never doubted my sexuality. its not that im that confident in it, its just never even crossed my mind, so ive just assumed im straight.

i see a lot of people on this thread who worry about a child with gay parents being made fun of, but i think by the time you're going to have a child and that child goes to school, homosexual parenting will be widely accepted. if you think about it, 30-40 years ago it was completely unacceptable in most peoples' minds to have a mixed race child, those kids probably were tortured in school. but for a while now no one even thinks twice about that anymore. social progress happens pretty quickly. even right now, i have a friend whose mom (maternal) became a lesbian when he was younger. other than the occasional gossip about it, no one ever made fun of him for it. our generation is overwhelmingly accepting of homosexuality, id say in about 20 or 30 years time, maybe even less, we'll be looking at homophobics the same way we do segregationists now.

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