How long does it take you to establish if you like someone?

[immense]

Can you do it before chatting to them? Can you decide after a small chat? Or does it take you weeks to build up friendships?

By like I mean as a friend. Not a partner.

To tell you the truth I posted here because I was in new posts and couldn't be bothered to click to the main forum. Can it be moved to relationships forum.

Ta

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[wixard]

lmaooooooooo buying

i can do it just by how they look, i'm a shallow *****
so are my friends. we're repeating our exam year in a place we don't want any other friends
but if we like what someones wearing or if they're ridiculously hot we're like
'ok, i guess we can befriend them'

[immense]

LMAO i just realised it makes it sound like im buying friendships kinda ;l

and hahah i love ur shallowness my new uni friends are so hot i will have to link you but the ones i rly like aren't good looking but i love them. srsly, after like 5mins i was in floods of laughter when i met this girl! one of the first things she asked when she knew i was from devon "i know someone from devon and they said everyone is inbred. is tht true?" LMAO love her

[Imosae]

bolt660 to the rescue!

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[Pyroka]

LMAO i just realised it makes it sound like im buying friendships kinda ;l

and hahah i love ur shallowness my new uni friends are so hot i will have to link you but the ones i rly like aren't good looking but i love them. srsly, after like 5mins i was in floods of laughter when i met this girl! one of the first things she asked when she knew i was from devon "i know someone from devon and they said everyone is inbred. is tht true?" LMAO love her

youd best have replied only in tiverton

[buttons]

i normally don't get on with ~good looking people~ they tend to be boring + stupid (can't have everything like me:S)
i just let people come to me or try get on with everyone. sometimes i think "i'll hate them" then end up being completely wrong so...
i'd say a few weeks personally

[FlyingJesus]

Just insult everyone if they get offended I don't like them, easy. Also if they ming they can go away

[immense]

i think i'm really specific in what i like. if they start a convo with hiii whats ur name i wont like em. best people at uni we've just laughed at the same thing or something. although saying this i have just stopped talking to someone (ok i met them on ll) because they live a hour and half away. not worth it.

[Swearwolf]

every1 wants to be my friend

[ChickenFaces]

Well when you're a horndog like me you get the hots for everyone very quickly.

[KyoraStryker]

I'm a massive introvert. It takes me a little bit of time to befriend someone. I have to get to know them as a person, which normally takes me weeks due to my personality.

[Samantha]

I just generally get along with people after a perio of time.
Like in media I sit with 2 girls and we instantly clicked and stuff, so that was quite a quick friendship.
Whereas, I started chatting to a boy who lives in next town to me but we haven't met before, and it's taken a while to become friends with him. PLus he was an idiot to me, asking me out as a joke, I know this isn't about relationships, and nor did I want to go out with him, but to think I was trying to be friends with him.
And now we don't talk that much.

[Rozi]

lol I can generally tell if I like someone or not pretty quickly, shame though coz it leads me to not liking anyone haha

[nat965]

I get on well with a lot of people, generally, it takes generally weeks to build up a friendship.

[qaxzsw]

I normally decide straight away and influenced by my friends. Im normally wrong about people I dont like, cuz I have made new friends with people I used to hate for no reason xD

[Shar]

It depends, it can be after one conversation or after many, it depends on the person really.

[Panda]

i can like someone just by observing (not like a stalker lol) but sometimes i'll get to know them better and they'll just turn out to be an ass so i tend to take a while before i'll get to a gd friend stage

[immense]

well i found out my new bmfl today identifies herself as conservative

so :l

[Apple]

Can usually tell instantly either by what they look like/who they are hanging around with/the conversation they are having etc.

Although not always, sometimes I am surprised that people are completely different to what I thought.

[Sharon]

I can tell who I'd like by who they are with/what they look like.. if I get talking to them and they are pretty nice I'll talk to them again and take it from there.

[,Lexiilu]

not very long really
i try not to base off of looks but obviously looks is usually what you notice first but when i have a conversation i can usually tell if i'm interested or not
like some people just seem obnoxious based on the way they talk or how much they talk about something (eg: themselves)

[Conservative,]

Very quick for me. After a few convos really. I can by looks, dressand then after a few convos I cAn be sure

[Casanova]

Within a second, and from then I won't change my opinion. I always go with my first thoughts, learned over time there's no point in trying to re-establish if you like someone when you already dislike them.

I don't normally judge on their appearance unless it offends more than one sense. appearance may not be the right word, but if they're dressed terribly, smell funny and/or talk badly then I'd just cut it as a lost cause.

[HotelUser]

It depends, it can be after one conversation or after many, it depends on the person really.

Bingo. This in a nutshell :)

[sophiethenerd]

I talk to them online.Then I start to hang out with them in real life a few times.Then you work up from there and soon you are close freinds.It takes about 5 months to gain a proper freind.

[AlexOC]

Tbf a time can't even be put on this.

I've gone from a stranger to really good mates with somebody in one night, who i've stayed mates with forever.

Then sometimes it has took months to properly become friends with somebody, but we can be broken down within a matter of minutes, never to speak to eachother again.

Its all different really.