My Stepdad Rubbing me the Wrong Way

[CrazyLemurs]

I'm finally sick of my stepdad who oftens stoops down to a childish level and treats me inferior to his own children who visit some weekends.
Like this evening:
Most of the time, his son and daughter spend the whole day in my room, on and off my bed. The sheet on my bed is usually completely off by 4-5pm and each evening I ask my mother to put it back on, as I have not contributed towards the mess and I dont feel I should clear it up. My stepdad SNAPPED back with "Well when you leave crumbs in the kitchen when you make a sandwich, should I just leave it?"
Is he just being childish and saying this to spite me?
And his daughter is my age, yet his son is only 11. He tries to get me and his daughter to involve to son in what we do, as if we're all the same age. Yet today, when he was sick in the toilet, my stepdad was treating him like a child, offering him drinks and toast. This is completely unfair, and I'm close to barring them from my room and getting a lock to give myself a weekend without them.
What do I do? If I talk to my stepdad, he will just talk down to me and practically verbally bully me into submission. I just wish he would hit me so I can call the police and remove him from my depressing life. I just want to ask my mother if it got that bad, would you be on my side or his? If she were to say his then I would go and live with my sister or my dad in Scotland. Combined with the bullying I get at school I've contemplated suicide multiple times. I'm not having a happy life, why the *REMOVED* is that fair? How about you give me my privacy, my happiness and my soul back and just let me live without having you talking down to me like I'm less valuable than you? I bet you wish me away, wouldn't that be perfect. No annoying stepson who can only do bad to get under your feet. If he hates me so much why doesn't he just go?

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[Casanova]

first advice: become a *******.
if he's being like this then tell your mum to go **** herself, tell him to go back to the dirty hole he crawled out of. do this for three months, make them realise in you're own way you've been good.

secondly: stand up yourself man!
bit your lip and fight with everyone need be if you're being bullied. if you lose, you lose. that way you can hold your head up high and accept you tried. giving up is pointless! you'll just sink into a pit.

[CrazyLemurs]

first advice: become a *******.
if he's being like this then tell your mum to go **** herself, tell him to go back to the dirty hole he crawled out of. do this for three months, make them realise in you're own way you've been good.

secondly: stand up yourself man!
bit your lip and fight with everyone need be if you're being bullied. if you lose, you lose. that way you can hold your head up high and accept you tried. giving up is pointless! you'll just sink into a pit.

Not the advice I was looking for, but thanks for reading and helping. The question isn't IF I lose, but WHEN. I'm not abusing my mum because she is perfect in every way and is just a bit lost with him as a partner...

[Stephen]

the user named flyingjesus brought me here and i wet myself

and now im gonna get a 2 day caution for pointless posting

i blame tom oh yes i do

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okay i get it fgs dont need to make it that big!

[@K]

How old are you? I'm asking because you ask your mum to make your bed as your step brother and step sister messed it up and you don't want to sort it out as you didn't mess it up? Guess what, your mum didn't do it either, so do it your ******* self! You want advice? For a start, your coming across as extremely lazy to me, I have my niece and nephew mess up my room when they're round mine, I don't make my brother clean up their mess, I do it myself! So start doing things for yourself! You have come across as selfish to me, coming across as 'me, me, me', this may not be the case of course, but take a look at yourself and maybe you might be doing something wrong. Also, set boundaries, if your room is YOUR room, as in no one else sleeps in there, tell everyone it is your personal space and no one should enter. If, on the other hand, you are sharing this room, then get used to it, all I can say is TOUGH.

Wait until you get out into the real world, life is hard, not pleasent and people are nasty. You said you've contemplated commiting suicide because of bullying, stand up for yourself, I was bullied for about six months, I bit back, it stopped. If you don't stand up against people, you will be bullied for life, in school, in work, all the same.

I know I will get modded for this, but frankly, I couldn't give a toss, your post has pissed me off, just for the simple fact that you get your MUM to make YOUR bed, because an 11 year old messed it up! Wait until you've moved out, your going to cry. Now I have a feeling you are going to turn around and say your 14, this post is nasty, oh well, you need to know what you have at the moment, isn't hard, life gets worse kid!

[Inseriousity.]

Your post makes no sense tbh.

He has a point, if you leave mess in the kitchen, should he ignore it cos it's not his mess? No he wouldn't cos he seems to be proud of having a tidy house and by the sounds of it you also want a tidy bed because you got your mum to tidy it up.

It's not very fair but as he only gets to see his children some weekends I think you can expect them to have him wrapped round his little finger.

He wants his son to get involved with things, perhaps unfairly expecting you to show him how to be mature and be an older role model for him.

I'm 19 and when I'm ill, my mum fusses over me too. "Would you like an extra pillow", "how about you have some toast, it'll help you out" etc etc.

[Neversoft]

I know this isn't what you want to hear, but to be fair, it's your room and your mum shouldn't have to put the sheets back on your bed just because you weren't the one who removed them. You have to grow up a little. If your step-dad is annoying you, then talk to your mum about it. If she isn't any help, then talk to your dad. Or just rise above it. I never used to get on with my step-dad, we were mortal enemies, but now having him around has become the most natural thing ever and we get on fine. Man up. Go watch Rocky or something. Life isn't about how hard you hit, it's about how much you can get hit and keep moving forward. How much you can take and keep moving forward. If you're being bullied then tell someone, do something about it. Here is another quote for you: "Never give in to despair. Allow yourself to slip down that road and you surrender to your lowest instincts. In the darkest times, hope is something you give yourself. That is the meaning of inner strength." I hate to be so very blunt but it's a cruel world out there and you're still wrapped up in cotton wool by the sound of it. What @K said is absolutely right.

[AgnesIO]

With all due respect, from what I have read, you are in the wrong *REMOVED*.

Your step dad is right. Should he just leave your mess that yo seem to make in the kitchen? And why the **** should your mum have to make your bed - I don't give two flying ***** if it was your two step-siblings - it certainly wasn't your mum!

Also, instead of locking yourself in your room why not go outside? It would mean you get away from your two step-siblings, and get some fresh air. Sorry, but from what you have said, I think you are being really unfair and need to get a grip. There are worse things in your life than having to make a bloody bed - to be quite honest I think it is insulting that you really want him out of your life over such a tiny thing..

However, why not kindly ask them to not go on your bed? Why not talk to your mum and explain your feelings - although to be honest I think you just don't like the step dad - so want him gone.

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And lastly, the thread title is seriously misleading LOL. I thought your step dad was a paedo (rubbing as in rubbing a leg) :L

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[Judas]

omg at the title ouch

in all seriousness i just think you don't like this man very much and are looking for a reason to hate him. i understand, you're not very happy with your life right now so i think you want to be angry but you have no real reason to be at home so the little things get to you and you put it on your step dad. obviously none of us know him and if he really is that bad, but from what you've said, he just sounds maybe a little short tempered, if that.

if you don't want the kids in your room, tell them it's your personal space and you need time alone, or just tell them you're doing homework or something and need to concentrate.

on the other hand, people in this thread need to calm down, you don't even know the guy and most of you are just being plain rude to him over something that actually doesn't concern you. give your opinions but calling him names and stuff is just out of order tbh

[TheEclipse]

I don't see what's wrong with treating an 11 year old nicely when he throws up. :s I'd expect him to be offering drinks and toast etc to a family member who is ANY age who has been throwing up.

You can tell your step siblings, nicely, to please not mess up your bed. Problem solved.

[beth]

the thread title...


i don't think yr stepdad is in the wrong at all. and surely you can put yr own sheet back on yr bed? you sound a bit spoilt if i'm honest.

[Eric]

My sister used to mess up things and in the end im the one who's cleaning it. ( my mum ordered me to do so ) You can simply put your own sheet back to your bed and problem solved.

Furthermore i also don't see what's wrong with your dad treating his 11 year old son when he's sick. :L

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Is it just me that interpreted the Wrong story by looking at the title the wrong way?

[AgnesIO]

Is it just me that interpreted the Wrong story by looking at the title the wrong way?

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[Red]

Well if my sister is getting ready in my room or had friends round and left the place looking like a tip/ took the sheet of the bed, there would be no way on earth, I'd be cleaning up her mess. I let her use my room and she can put it back in the state she found it. I think your just annoyed with your step dad and when anger has built up like that, even wee things like this can seem monumental. Maybe you should explain how you are feeling to your mum and ask for them to be kept out of your room if its annoying you that much.

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Well considering the title says 'My Stepdad Rubbing me the wrong way'
And I did say
Is it just me that interpreted the Wrong story by looking at the title the wrong way
It looks wrong so infact, I can read thank you very much.

[Lamz]

like you said... its your room so unfortunatly... you have to clear it. It's like having a house party... the house is obviously going to be a mess & eventually you will have to tidy it... putting a bed sheet back on the bed :S My little sister is 4 & she can make her own bed.

If his children are annoying, just be honest and have a male to male convo... Tell him that you don't like the way he treats you.
Not being funny [HIS NAME HERE] but you're not by dad and I dislike the way you talk to me as if you are. I would also like some free time to myself on the weekends without [SON AND DAUGHTER'S NAME HERE] invading my room and my private space. Isn't there some way where they can just sit in the living room and play a games console of something. etc etc...

I'm sure if you are dead honest & don't come across angry (even though you are) he should understand. If he doesn't then that's when you take Casanova's advice.

[Jordy]

I have caught an unbelievable amount of joke off the thread title, definitely one of the best I've ever seen.

[beth]

I have caught an unbelievable amount of joke off the thread title, definitely one of the best I've ever seen.

completely agree. best thread title in a good few months.

[Becca]

get a lock in your room.
simple.

[DPS]

Want my honest advice? show your step dad whos boss, knock the crap out of him... im being srs btw. show him he cant treat you like ****. If he then hits you pow go to the police, no matter the age he shouldnt be hitting teens goodgame step dad.

[Arron]

If I was you I'd speak to you're mum and tell her that you think you're step-dad needs to back off a little because it does seem clear that you don't have a good relationship with eachother. I'd also tell her that you get bullied if you haven't already. If you're mum is taking no action then speak to a teacher/headteacher and see if they can put you in a different form for the beginning of the new School year.

Are you close with your Dad? If so why not spend a week with him before you go back to School? It will enable you to clear your mind and possibly talk to him about things, although depending on the relatioship between you're Dad and Stepdad, it might not go down too well.

If you ever need a 1 to 1 talk just send me a private message.

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to all other users who misinterpret the title, please don't comment about it.

Just read that you're from Senegal, so I don't know if you currently live there or not, but only travel the Scotland to see your Dad if you desperately need him.

[beth]

i can't believe people think the step-dad needs any kind of talking to. he's completely right in his actions.

[FlyingJesus]

The sheet on my bed is usually completely off by 4-5pm and each evening I ask my mother to put it back on, as I have not contributed towards the mess and I dont feel I should clear it up. My stepdad SNAPPED back with "Well when you leave crumbs in the kitchen when you make a sandwich, should I just leave it?"
Is he just being childish and saying this to spite me?

Wow are you kidding? You ask your mum to sort out mess with the excuse that it's not your mess, yet it's clearly not hers either. Take some responsibility for your stuff, it's not her problem and you sound ridiculously rude and ungrateful. Especially if you're leaving messes in the kitchen and not clearing up like that


And his daughter is my age, yet his son is only 11. He tries to get me and his daughter to involve to son in what we do, as if we're all the same age. Yet today, when he was sick in the toilet, my stepdad was treating him like a child, offering him drinks and toast. This is completely unfair, and I'm close to barring them from my room and getting a lock to give myself a weekend without them.

How dare you look after his child?! No really what are you on about. Of course he doesn't want his son to be left out of things and of course he'll tend to him when he's ill. You come across as extremely selfish here


Genuinely shocked at how some people are telling him to "fight back" when there's no fight to begin with, especially those of you who are suggesting physical violence.

[AgnesIO]

Want my honest advice? show your step dad whos boss, knock the crap out of him... im being srs btw. show him he cant treat you like ****. If he then hits you pow go to the police, no matter the age he shouldnt be hitting teens goodgame step dad.

Could the quoted post quite possibly be the most ridiculous post ever to be published on HabboxForum?

[beth]

Could the quoted post quite possibly be the most ridiculous post ever to be published on HabboxForum?

i'd go with yes. brb smacking my dad.

[CrazyLemurs]

If I was you I'd speak to you're mum and tell her that you think you're step-dad needs to back off a little because it does seem clear that you don't have a good relationship with eachother. I'd also tell her that you get bullied if you haven't already. If you're mum is taking no action then speak to a teacher/headteacher and see if they can put you in a different form for the beginning of the new School year.

Are you close with your Dad? If so why not spend a week with him before you go back to School? It will enable you to clear your mind and possibly talk to him about things, although depending on the relatioship between you're Dad and Stepdad, it might not go down too well.

If you ever need a 1 to 1 talk just send me a private message.

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Just read that you're from Senegal, so I don't know if you currently live there or not, but only travel the Scotland to see your Dad if you desperately need him.

Lol I'm not Senegalese, I just say Senegal to confuse you, seems to have worked ;) Great advice, but the bullying I get isn't from my form. They're comparably nice, it's just others who I share classes with... And my Dad isn't worth talking to, he's **** at parenting really. +rep, sorry it's only like 1-2.

@Becca, I've spoken about that with my mum anyways. And when I move tomorrow, my stepbrother (the annoying one) is sharing my room. Which is a completely different matter.

@Those mentioning the bed, it's not I cant do my bed, I can and do sometimes. It's the fact that it's got nothing to do with me.

@Whoever said my room is my mess, that's not fair, because they made the mess. If I went in to their room and messed it up, then I'd still be clearing it up.

@FlyingJesus, go home please. I want advice and suggestions, not someone to argue with. Plus I dont make a mess in the kitchen, he just thinks I do. I spend so little time out of my room I dont have the chance to make other mess.

And am update, I sent the original post to my mum in a text, and she really hates that I feel like that. She may talk to him about it, not sure if she has/ will do.
Stop being dirty with the thread name, you sickos!!!

[beth]

i cannot even fathom why you think flyingjesus isn't right. it's probably because yr a teenager and you think the whole world owes you something. lemme give you a little hint, if yr mom not putting yr sheet on yr bed is the biggest annoyance you have in yr life, you have a fantastic life.
you sound so spoilt it's unreal.

[CrazyLemurs]

i cannot even fathom why you think flyingjesus isn't right. it's probably because yr a teenager and you think the whole world owes you something. lemme give you a little hint, if yr mom not putting yr sheet on yr bed is the biggest annoyance you have in yr life, you have a fantastic life.
you sound so spoilt it's unreal.

Oh are you in my head? I didn't think so... The world doesn't owe me anything. It's prolly the other way round but... It's not the largest annoyance in my life either. I'm not spoilt as we, so please learn about the person you're talking to first Bethie. I'm not a normal ******* teenager, believe me. I dont follow the same pattern...

[FlyingJesus]

Go home? Are you kidding me? You say you want advice, my advice is to stop being an ungrateful little kid who actively looks for things to complain about. Your stepdad is being 100% reasonable in every situation that you've written about, and if you don't like being told anything other than "YEAH HE'S IN THE WRONG THAT'S SOOOOOOO UNFAIR!!!" then don't ask for genuine advice, just talk to the mirror. I'm not trying to make an argument I'm trying to show you that there is absolutely nothing wrong with anything that you've said has happened and that you're the one who needs to change, not your stepdad.

[beth]

Oh are you in my head? I didn't think so... The world doesn't owe me anything. It's prolly the other way round but... It's not the largest annoyance in my life either. I'm not spoilt as we, so please learn about the person you're talking to first Bethie. I'm not a normal ******* teenager, believe me. I dont follow the same pattern...

if yr not spoilt why are you so ungrateful? frankly yr lucky to have a bed, to have yr own room, to have access to a computer, to have parents who allow you to actively whinge so much. actually in a way i do feel like yr parents are wrong. because they're obviously letting this happen. let me tell you, if i'd ever asked my mom to put my sheet back on my bed or tidy up (since the age of around 10) i would be told to get my **** together and get on with my life and my dad would give me a quick sharp smack if i ever decided to think i am above their instructions.

[Kyle]

Are you that much of an invalid that you can't put your own bed sheet on? Your stepdad is right for sticking up for your mum when you're ordering her about like that. He is completely justified and you're just blowing everything out of proportion. Tending to a sick child isn't babying, it's called being a parent.

You being unhappy with your life is nothing to do with your stepdad, you're clearly just looking for someone to pin the blame on. Fair enough if you want a bit of privacy but staying cooped up in your room without any contact with anybody isn't going to help you tremendously. Have a chat with your mum and tell her how you feel because it may come to a surprise to you but not everybody can read minds.

U seem like such a brat lol even the way you're replying to people in this thread. Grow up.

[@K]

Go home? Are you kidding me? You say you want advice, my advice is to stop being an ungrateful little kid who actively looks for things to complain about. Your stepdad is being 100% reasonable in every situation that you've written about, and if you don't like being told anything other than "YEAH HE'S IN THE WRONG THAT'S SOOOOOOO UNFAIR!!!" then don't ask for genuine advice, just talk to the mirror. I'm not trying to make an argument I'm trying to show you that there is absolutely nothing wrong with anything that you've said has happened and that you're the one who needs to change, not your stepdad.

THIS!

Cannot believe my post got over looked lol. Kid seriously, you are a *REMOVED* just because you cannot see YOU are in the wrong here. Step parents aren't always nice, woopty do, you aren't ******* helping either. Your running away from your problems, and in life, your going to be everyone's ***** who goes running home crying. Think I'm being horrible? Get a grip, these 'problems' you have are nothing compared to others. These people are telling you that you are in the wrong because you ARE, those saying to hit your stepdad are just winding you up, *REMOVED* Learn to do stuff for yourself, you make your bed...SOMETIMES, wow, you should be doing it every morning like most. I seriously want to know how old you are! You are pathetic!

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[Spuds]

I only read the this thread because I initially read "My stepdad rubbing me" but then after finishing reading the initial post I was gobsmacked. Grow up girl, you're acting like a small child, hell you're acting like an eleven old, perhaps you should involve your step-brother in your activities. You start off by telling us your step-dad stoops to childish levels and then give us an example where you ask your mother to make your bed because you didn't make the mess, this being after you've told us the mess wasn't created by your mother either! Don't you see the hypocrisy in this? Or do eleven year olds not know what that is yet?

Your step-dad is completely within his own right to say the things he's said, just like he's within his own right to look after his sick child. You wish he'd hit you? You've contemplated suicide? You do realise how childish you've come across, you've made a fool of yourself. Grow up and join the real world otherwise you'll be in for a shock later down the line.


How old are you? I'm asking because you ask your mum to make your bed as your step brother and step sister messed it up and you don't want to sort it out as you didn't mess it up? Guess what, your mum didn't do it either, so do it your ******* self! You want advice? For a start, your coming across as extremely lazy to me, I have my niece and nephew mess up my room when they're round mine, I don't make my brother clean up their mess, I do it myself! So start doing things for yourself! You have come across as selfish to me, coming across as 'me, me, me', this may not be the case of course, but take a look at yourself and maybe you might be doing something wrong. Also, set boundaries, if your room is YOUR room, as in no one else sleeps in there, tell everyone it is your personal space and no one should enter. If, on the other hand, you are sharing this room, then get used to it, all I can say is TOUGH.

Wait until you get out into the real world, life is hard, not pleasent and people are nasty. You said you've contemplated commiting suicide because of bullying, stand up for yourself, I was bullied for about six months, I bit back, it stopped. If you don't stand up against people, you will be bullied for life, in school, in work, all the same.

I know I will get modded for this, but frankly, I couldn't give a toss, your post has pissed me off, just for the simple fact that you get your MUM to make YOUR bed, because an 11 year old messed it up! Wait until you've moved out, your going to cry. Now I have a feeling you are going to turn around and say your 14, this post is nasty, oh well, you need to know what you have at the moment, isn't hard, life gets worse kid!
Much love for this post.

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P.S - If you're a guy and you're wondering why I've referred to you as a girl it's because you're a crying little kid, *REMOVED*

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[Judas]

@Those mentioning the bed, it's not I cant do my bed, I can and do sometimes. It's the fact that it's got nothing to do with me.

I'm confused, are you implying that it has something to do with your mum then? Why should she do it? Really puzzled here.

And really, it does have something to do with you as you're the one that sleeps in it every night.

[RyRy]

I think you should just man up if I'm honest? Sounds like youre making something out of nothing imo.

But this thread title yeah, oh my god, just lol. Sounds like what you really need is a lock on your door LOLLL

[CrazyLemurs]

If a mod sees this, close this thread because all these *REMOVED* aren't helping at all.

@Judas, I make it each morning when I get up.

@Everyone saying life gets harder, Yeah I do kind of know that. And I know regardless of what I do I'm going to have a **** adulthood.

@@K, 6 months isn't bad. That's a light amount really. Try 6 years, from 10-15 different people. And if I tell them to get out my stepdad will just tell me off for being nasty to them. Because it's his fault they have nothing else to do.

@Kyle, I am no invalid. So what if I was? They're still equal people ffs. And I dont ******* order my mum around. I ask her if she will and some nights she'll say no. Dont put words into my mouth that I evidently did NOT say.

@Spuds, Not got anything to say really, except that yes, he is allowed to tend to his sick child. When I'm ill he actually tells me off because I'm causing hassle and missing school.

If it will make you lot feel better *REMOVED* I'm going to put a notice to knock before coming in, and that those two can have 3 hrs a day in my room.

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[RyRy]

I guess somebody really has been rubbed up the wrong way.

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[beth]

I guess somebody really has been rubbed up the wrong way.

winner, winner, chicken dinner.

no but seriously, you want this thread closed now cause we all told you the truth?

[FlyingJesus]

You know the most annoying kind of person with problems is one who not only refuses to be helped but asks for help then rejects it

[Judas]

@Judas, I make it each morning when I get up.

That has nothing to do with what I said, I'm not having a go at you I'm just really curious as to why you think your mum should be the one to make your bed? Even if you didn't ruin it, you're the one that sleeps in it, so if you're not gonna ask them two to make it, then have some responsibility and do it yourself. You act like it's a chore, when it's only going to benefit you.

[AgnesIO]

With all due respect, from what I have read, you are in the wrong.

Your step dad is right. Should he just leave your mess that yo seem to make in the kitchen? And why the **** should your mum have to make your bed - I don't give two flying ***** if it was your two step-siblings - it certainly wasn't your mum!

Also, instead of locking yourself in your room why not go outside? It would mean you get away from your two step-siblings, and get some fresh air. Sorry, but from what you have said, I think you are being really unfair and need to get a grip. There are worse things in your life than having to make a bloody bed - to be quite honest I think it is insulting that you really want him out of your life over such a tiny thing..

However, why not kindly ask them to not go on your bed? Why not talk to your mum and explain your feelings - although to be honest I think you just don't like the step dad - so want him gone.


I thought my post was giving good advice, and you seem to have missed it. SO here you go.

[Niall!]

Hahahahahahahahahahahahahaha

Oh my god, can't believe I've just found this thread hahahahahahaha

But seriously you're a selfish brat. Make your own bed, clean your own room and shut up about it.

[@K]

If a mod sees this, close this thread because all these *REMOVED* aren't helping at all.

@Judas, I make it each morning when I get up.

@Everyone saying life gets harder, Yeah I do kind of know that. And I know regardless of what I do I'm going to have a **** adulthood.

@@K, 6 months isn't bad. That's a light amount really. Try 6 years, from 10-15 different people. And if I tell them to get out my stepdad will just tell me off for being nasty to them. Because it's his fault they have nothing else to do.

@Kyle, I am no invalid. So what if I was? They're still equal people ffs. And I dont ******* order my mum around. I ask her if she will and some nights she'll say no. Dont put words into my mouth that I evidently did NOT say.

@Spuds, Not got anything to say really, except that yes, he is allowed to tend to his sick child. When I'm ill he actually tells me off because I'm causing hassle and missing school.

If it will make you lot feel better *REMOVED* I'm going to put a notice to knock before coming in, and that those two can have 3 hrs a day in my room.

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I have no idea what your on about with 6 months and 6 years, I'm drunk and lazy, but if it is to do with bullying, isn't that showing you something? Grow a pair between the legs, because if you don't you are going to be eaten alive, mentally. And maybe you are being nasty to them when you TELL them to get out, try asking politely. I'm not being funny kid, you think you have problems, I worked 45 hours last week, and was taxed a THIRD of my wages, that is a REAL problem. You have asked for advice, people have told you that you are in the wrong, take that advice, stop being dumb, don't throw it back. If I get modded again for posting in this topic then wow, this isn't being nasty, but kid, stop being a *****, life is harsh, hard, and a lot more depressing than what you are experiencing right now. I'd hate to think what you are going to be like when your first girlfriend dumps you, you will come running back here saying 'ohhh I'm contemplating suicide again', and no one will care, because this topic is going to stick in everyone's mind. I am also still waiting to hear how old you are, and my bet is on 13/14, you come back and say your older, you will be lying or just EXTREMELY immature for your age, as you are acting like a 6 year old.

Starting with your comment to Judas and working down, you make it every morning, so you say, it takes 2 minutes, do it again.
Yes, you will have a **** adult life, because you are not helping yourself.
Already answered above.
Invalids are equal yes, but the implication was that you are lazy. By the sound of it, you attempt to order your mother around, she just wises up on occassions and doesn't give in to your ****.
I am willing to bed when you are 'sick' you are faking 90% of the time as you are being bullied at school, am I wrong? Doubt it.

WISE UP KIDDO LIFE IS A *****!

Also, any mods who would like to 'warn' me again, be my guest, but this is the only way people listen =)

[CrazyLemurs]

I have no idea what your on about with 6 months and 6 years, I'm drunk and lazy, but if it is to do with bullying, isn't that showing you something? Grow a pair between the legs, because if you don't you are going to be eaten alive, mentally. And maybe you are being nasty to them when you TELL them to get out, try asking politely. I'm not being funny kid, you think you have problems, I worked 45 hours last week, and was taxed a THIRD of my wages, that is a REAL problem. You have asked for advice, people have told you that you are in the wrong, take that advice, stop being dumb, don't throw it back. If I get modded again for posting in this topic then wow, this isn't being nasty, but kid, stop being a *****, life is harsh, hard, and a lot more depressing than what you are experiencing right now. I'd hate to think what you are going to be like when your first girlfriend dumps you, you will come running back here saying 'ohhh I'm contemplating suicide again', and no one will care, because this topic is going to stick in everyone's mind. I am also still waiting to hear how old you are, and my bet is on 13/14, you come back and say your older, you will be lying or just EXTREMELY immature for your age, as you are acting like a 6 year old.

Starting with your comment to Judas and working down, you make it every morning, so you say, it takes 2 minutes, do it again.
Yes, you will have a **** adult life, because you are not helping yourself.
Already answered above.
Invalids are equal yes, but the implication was that you are lazy. By the sound of it, you attempt to order your mother around, she just wises up on occassions and doesn't give in to your ****.
I am willing to bed when you are 'sick' you are faking 90% of the time as you are being bullied at school, am I wrong? Doubt it.

WISE UP KIDDO LIFE IS A *****!

Also, any mods who would like to 'warn' me again, be my guest, but this is the only way people listen =)

Yes, I am 14 in 2 weeks, good guess :l
I dont fake being ill, I never have. So dont be so sure in your posts that everything is going to be true...
Life's a *****, and I know it will be, but that's not now. I'll never get dumped because I'll never have a girlfriend. Who the **** would like me?
I'd prefer if comments I say to someone else, you keep your nose out of. They are not directed at you. And what is with you people and ordering? No I dont order my own mother around to do this. I ask her, there is a difference. Once again, you areputting words in my mouth that I did not say.

This is why I want this thread closed, because more people are taking the chance to ***** on me and tell me I'm weak and useless than to actually help me.

[@K]

You don't fake being ill, yet your 'bullied' at school, from the majority of cases I have seen with people being bullied, they fake being ill to get time off of school...
So because life is hard when you are an adult, that doesn't mean life is going to be hard for teenagers, is that what you are implying? I do not understand that. Life is hard from day one, it just gradually gets worse. Are you also implying that you are gay? Or are you just lacking that much self belief? If it's the latter, yeah, no one will like you, not because you are a whiny little *****, but also because self confidence is one thing that attracts people to you. Maybe this is your problem, you do not believe in yourself. Keep my nose out of what you say to other people? LOL, we are on the interwebzzzzzzzzzz, if I have my own views and opinions to get across, I WILL do it freely, because guess what, you cannot stop me. This is also yet MORE childish behaviour, saying you do not want people to comment on what you are saying to other people. I am not convinced that you ASK your mum, I think you whinge and whine at her, neither can you nor myself prove you do or don't. You haven't even replied to half of what I wrote previously, so I must have been right on certain things, like when I said to ASK your step siblings POLITELY to leave, instead of (what you are most likely doing) shouting at them.

You do know that suicide is a sin right? Nothing comes of it, only cowards (bar those terminally ill or paralysed) commit it. You hear stories of someone dying and their partner commits suicide, cowardness, can't handle life, cowardness, being bullied, cowardness. See where I am going with this? It is the easy way out. Sure, I have contemplated it, all because I wasn't able to find a job, but why would I do that? When I'd always get a job, it would just take time and now I'm working and happy.