Should I or Shouldn't I

[Derrener]

There's this guy who I started to talk to a few days back and I really like him, but he's currently in a relationship with someone. Should I tell him how I feel or not :S because I thought it might ruin his current relationship. What should I do?

[Empired]

Go for it if you think he likes you back! Hanging back will just make you feel awkward and will end up damaging your relationship with him, better to jump in while the pan's still hot x
Do it slowly though 'cause I can see there's a lot to lose here :P

[Kyle]

No... He's in a relationship. Find someone else.

[Samantha]

Is he in a relationship with a man or a woman? Also I'd wait a while he has someone and you don't want to hurt your friendship or anything do you?

[Jurv]

i'm probably not the best person to give advice about relationships but if i were you, i wouldn't say anything. there's honestly no point if he's already in a relationship. there's a chance he'll reject your feelings and not want to speak to you again. how long have you known him btw? if it's only a few days then i suggest you get to know him a bit more before saying anything :P

[Absently]

i don't see the point in telling him. he might just turn around and say he doesn't like you and it'd really ruin your friendship.

[Inseriousity.]

You've got a good name so youve got an advantage there. No he's dating someone, wait til he's single or you're just going to add an enemy before you've started.

[LiquidLuck.]

Thing is. What is more important t you: his friendship or trying to date him?
If you value his friendship a lot and you think it's one of those friends with whom you'll hang out for years to come then I wouldn't say anything because friends need to stay in that friendzone if you want to keep them around. Maybe when he breaks up with that person you could give it a shot, just make sure he likes you back or bye bye friendship.
If you think it's just a casual friendship then go for it and see what it brings to you. You might get lucky.

In any case, go slowly because like said above, you don't want an enemy.

Good luck anyway!

[Zak]

There's this guy who I started to talk to a few days back and I really like him, but he's currently in a relationship with someone. Should I tell him how I feel or not :S because I thought it might ruin his current relationship. What should I do?

Now if you were talking to my girlfriend. She'd tell you to go for it, as I was in a relationship. She ruined it and now we've happily been together for over three years.

However, if you want my answer. It depends on your age. Its been a few days, I'm guessing you're not too old? If this is still a school relationship, I'll tell you to go for it. If you're 17/18+ don't bother, he can't have his cake and eat it too. If I'm also being honest, if I was in a relationship and a girl wanted me, I'd think hmmm easy **** :P But I'm sure you're not at this stage yet :P

[David]

no dont be a ****, you'll cause **** between them

[buttons]

hmm well if its going to ruin their relationship ie he finishes his relationship with the current person for you, then he shouldn't be with current person anyway. however, also means he's easily 'stolen' and the same could happen to you ;)

idc what people say i think if you like someone let them know but be tactful about it, tell them you're interested but realize they have a partner then back off. people don't belong to others so yknow take the chance, he could be with his current person because he feels he has no-one else. even though he has a partner, he doesn't belong to them and you never know could like you back then you'd miss out cause you didn't tell them but idk I say you should

WAIT U ONLY STARTED TO TALK TO HIM A FEW DAYS AGO? DON'T TELL HIM UNLESS U WANT TO CREEP HIM OUT AND MAKE HIM RUN FOR GOOD.

[Eric]

No you shouldn't. Find another person or wait til he's available.

[iCandy]

That's a pretty difficult question tbh.
I mean, he might like you..and so if you think he does, then go for it.
But you have to remember, that maybe he's just being friendly..and you telling him you like him may ruin that friendship because he may feel he can't be friendly anymore towards you..
If I was in that situation, I think I would wait until he was out of a relationship!:)

[MKR&*42]

If it's a few days, I'd advise you to wait a while (weeks > months) to see whether you are going to 'fall in love' with this guy or just find the feelings disappear after a few weeks.

[Yupt]

I agree with most of the comments here. Wait a while, feeling can come and go very quickly. Plus, if he's in a relationship then chances are he likes his partner... kinda the idea ennit. So it's unlikely he'll just throw everything away and ride off into the sun set. soz.