Should I or Shouldn't I

[Derrener]

There's this guy who I started to talk to a few days back and I really like him, but he's currently in a relationship with someone. Should I tell him how I feel or not :S because I thought it might ruin his current relationship. What should I do?

[Empired]

Go for it if you think he likes you back! Hanging back will just make you feel awkward and will end up damaging your relationship with him, better to jump in while the pan's still hot x
Do it slowly though 'cause I can see there's a lot to lose here

[Kyle]

No... He's in a relationship. Find someone else.

[Samantha]

Is he in a relationship with a man or a woman? Also I'd wait a while he has someone and you don't want to hurt your friendship or anything do you?

[Jurv]

i'm probably not the best person to give advice about relationships but if i were you, i wouldn't say anything. there's honestly no point if he's already in a relationship. there's a chance he'll reject your feelings and not want to speak to you again. how long have you known him btw? if it's only a few days then i suggest you get to know him a bit more before saying anything

[Absently]

i don't see the point in telling him. he might just turn around and say he doesn't like you and it'd really ruin your friendship.

[Inseriousity.]

You've got a good name so youve got an advantage there. No he's dating someone, wait til he's single or you're just going to add an enemy before you've started.

[LiquidLuck.]

Thing is. What is more important t you: his friendship or trying to date him?
If you value his friendship a lot and you think it's one of those friends with whom you'll hang out for years to come then I wouldn't say anything because friends need to stay in that friendzone if you want to keep them around. Maybe when he breaks up with that person you could give it a shot, just make sure he likes you back or bye bye friendship.
If you think it's just a casual friendship then go for it and see what it brings to you. You might get lucky.

In any case, go slowly because like said above, you don't want an enemy.

Good luck anyway!

[Zak]

There's this guy who I started to talk to a few days back and I really like him, but he's currently in a relationship with someone. Should I tell him how I feel or not :S because I thought it might ruin his current relationship. What should I do?

Now if you were talking to my girlfriend. She'd tell you to go for it, as I was in a relationship. She ruined it and now we've happily been together for over three years.

However, if you want my answer. It depends on your age. Its been a few days, I'm guessing you're not too old? If this is still a school relationship, I'll tell you to go for it. If you're 17/18+ don't bother, he can't have his cake and eat it too. If I'm also being honest, if I was in a relationship and a girl wanted me, I'd think hmmm easy **** But I'm sure you're not at this stage yet

[David]

no dont be a ****, you'll cause **** between them