would you break up with your gf/bf if you found out they cheated?

[wixard]

inspired from grahams thread


i probably wouldn't, depending on how bad it was though

[lawrawrrr]

probably not, depending if it was a one-off, depending on other factors (like drunkeness, whether it's the first time etc).

but then again it might be (probably would be) something that plays on my mind a lot and it might ending up harming the relationship and being the reason we broke up anyway

[Kardan]

Yes. It's inexcusable.

[buttons]

if it wasn't a serious relationship id prob dump them and move on but maybe forgive my partner if i loved them as a ONE OFF only. but then I think I'd bring it up every time we argued and try get back at them n flirt with people etc n end up breaking up with them anyway

[GoldenMerc]

yes lol

[Kardan]

So from everyone so far we've established that girls will forgive you if you cheat once and guys won't :P

[Yawn]

probably. i dont think i would take it v well at all tbh

[e5]

Happened to me and I did at first, but then took her back lol
altho not together now

[buttons]

So from everyone so far we've established that girls will forgive you if you cheat once and guys won't :P
only if they beg for forgiveness for months and take me out on dates, buy me shoes etc first... n depends who they cheated with, if it was someone who they've had feelings for in past or a workmate w.e then no prob not but if a random chick they'll never see again, MAYBE

[FlyingJesus]

idk I've been cheated on by 4 different girlfriends yay and all of them I stayed with but then broke up soon after, obv something fundamentally wrong with the relationship if it's supposed to be monogamous and people aren't sticking to the rules. That said I didn't know about one of them until after we'd broken up but yeah the relationship is obv in trouble if people aren't happy with just their partner - either make it a polyamorous relationship, become swingers, or break up

[Catchy]

I'd like to say I'd break up with them but I don't know lol. I guess it depended. Obviously something would be wrong with the relationship, I cheated once and it was purely because I was so unhappy in the actual relationship.

[Cerys]

Depends on how much I like them and what they did

A little kiss I'd be fine with, but the full deal...lol get out of my life

[HE-Joshua]

It could work but I mean the dynamics of the relationship would be very interesting... and would probably eventually fail...

[The Don]

No, I'd rather find someone else.

[Eoin247]

Depends on the circumstances. If it was a once off and they told me up front then I'd probably not mind too much.

[Mark]

Yes, in a heart beat

[Rozi]

if they had a full on affair then I would dump them
if it was just a one night stand with someone they didn't know, then I'd let it slide if they felt really really bad about it
don't really care about kissing or anything else

[geo]

honestly not sure. depends how the relationship was going, how sorry they were, what they did (like what state they were in)

i'd probably give them a chance lol

[sex]

yes probably, depending how much i liked them lol

[karter]

yeah i would

[Shar]

Yes I would. It would be hard to trust them again.

[.:Wahu:.]

I believe I would yes, of course I have never been in that situation. But cheating is a major no no. I think if it happened the trust I would have in that person would diminish instantly.

[Zelda]

I probably wouldnt unless I didn't like them that much anyway and just used it as an excuse to break up with them. To be honest I don't massively agree with the idea of monogamous relationships anyway which is probably part of the reason

[kasi]

obviously
anyone who would stay is a ******* idiot and deserves to be cheated on

[Yupt]

depends, if it wasn't a very serious thing then i'd probably end it v quickly. if it was more serious then i guess its more complex, required discussion and such but it would probably play on my mind and i would end up finishing it anyway as i would use it and find another reason to do it.

[Phil]

Yeah I defo like to think I would. As much as I love my gf I don't think I could let it slide but knowing me I'll probs end up taking her back ;lll

[StevenWinehouse]

Yes, I would break up with them. I wouldn't want to take the chance to get hurt by them again if I took them back. I know people who have taken back a cheater, and you know what the cheater did? They proceeded to cheat again after they were taken back.

Why willingly cheat on someone who you supposedly love?

[Sho]

I'd like to think that I would, but I'd probably take them back. I suppose if it happened more than once I'd end it though.

[Ekelektra]

I probably would yes, I would be so hurt if my boyfriend/husband cheated on me

[LiquidLuck.]

I'd like to say obviously yes, but I probably wouldn't. I believe that like Jen though, I'd bring it up every single time since that's already something I always do with the little stuff so cheating would be even worst.. And I'd never trust him again so yeah wouldn't last long.

[Aiden]

Depends if I like them a lot. I know some of my friends would rather die then breakup... girls jeez... :P

just kidding, girls are fab.

[Narnat,]

I think it depends on how serious your relationship is in all honesty if my girlfriend done it to me I probably wouldn't providing it was an absolute one off but our trust would go back down to zero.

[Futz]

Yeah, I usually try to find reasons to bail anyway :(

[Daltron]

Yes of course. Cheating is one thing I will never stand for.

[Liva]

Depends on the circumstance.
I'm in a long term relationship, and I feel that if I was cheated on, I would end it on the reasoning that obviously I wasn't enough for them (and obviously because they cheated.)
But if they were drugged or something where they weren't conscious, I'd forgive them.

[ARTPOP]

yes

[Succubus]

probably, i don't think i could trust them again tbh, i mean it takes forever to build that trust man

[Special]

defiantly although it would be hard, if they cheat on you they don't love you so what's the point in the relationship?

[Gibs960]

Yeah, you forgive them once and they'll think they can get away with it and carry on doing it. Not worth being in a relationship where you can't trust your partner.

[Zak]

Yes I would .. simple as

[!x!dude!x!2]

yes

[Craptarded]

I've been Cheated on before and it sucks so I would never do that and I would break up with him right away. No excuse. Cowards way out.


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