Friend zoning

[-Moniquee.]

When/ if you have ever put someone into the friend zone have you been nice about it?
Have you been discrete about it and try to cover it up?

[wixard]

there is no such thing as the friendzone

[Futz]

I don't think I've ever been with good friends with a girl where after we've maintained a friendship for a long period of time they've wanted to be more than "just friends"

Usually if you meet someone new I think it quickly becomes apparent that you're both interested in more

but if you meet someone new and you slowly build up a friendship over a period of time it usually stays as a goodfriendship - but I guess this is where one person in some situations wants more

so I guess I haven't


but yolo ennit im friends with a few girls that i could love but i know i aint gonna make that happen
damn yeezy

[OldLoveSong]

always discreet lmao

[karter]

there's no such thing as friendzone and if you say you're in the friendzone you're probably in the 'why is this dude annoying me' zone

[-Moniquee.]

For those who don't believe in a friend zone, let me introduce you to Urban Dictionary's definition.
http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=friendzone
karter wixard

[karter]

let me introduce you to a term made by fedora wearing guy who can't handle rejection

[FlyingJesus]

There's no such thing, it's just called not being attracted to someone

[Futz]

let me introduce you to a term made by fedora wearing guy who can't handle rejection

lmao

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[Sho]

Yeah I don't believe it exists. If they're not attracted to you then then they're not gonna date you :P.
Someone said this up there but I'm too lazy to scroll up to check, but yeah I agree with what they said.

[buttons]

yeah there's no such thing >_> ive had guys say ive friend zoned them because i hung with them a lot but never fancied them? forgot boys n girls can't be friend. anyone who says they're friend zoned is a douche

[Inseriousity.]

friend zoning = a nicer way of someone saying they've been *REMOVED*. urgh.
Despite that, it really depends on how you handle rejection. I don't really see how someone saying no thanks to taking it to the next level means you still can't be friends but I know some people get really hurt and the friendship shatters as well.

[TheShawnChg]

I think putting someone in the friendzone is something people do to avoid real feelings and not having to explain and tell the why's and what's of their relationship.

[scottish]

I think putting someone in the friendzone is something people do to avoid real feelings and not having to explain and tell the why's and what's of their relationship.

or because they don't have feelings and don't have to explain why they don't have real feelings for another person and want to remain in a friendship with the person but don't want to be in a relationship with someone they don't have feelings for, and results in the person on the other end saying they've been friend zoned when in reality the other person just doesn't have the same feelings for the person.

[Hanimal$]

I can't say I believe in the friend zone, at all. You either like someone or you don't.

[Yawn]

friendzone exists whether u like it or not

being friends with some1 = friendzone duh!!!!!

[scottish]

by that logic you've friendzoned everyone you've been in a friendship with then.

if you go from friends to relationship then they temporarily/permanently moved from friendzone to relationzone then either disappear or back to friendzone ok

[Yawn]

well yes cos u have transitioned from the will we/wont we stage of ur getting to know this person to friend zone them

[karter]

what if you're friends with your mum!

[-Moniquee.]

what if you're friends with your mum!

Unless you have a different relationship with your Mum then it doesn't work. A friend zone is a zone that happens when someone wants something more from another person but the other person just wants to be friends. It makes perfect sense to me.

[buttons]

Unless you have a different relationship with your Mum then it doesn't work. A friend zone is a zone that happens when someone wants something more from another person but the other person just wants to be friends. It makes perfect sense to me.
that's not a zone. that's a friendship where one person likes the other, it's nothing to do with the other person placing them anywhere, it's the person with feelings problem alone. friend zone is used for guys to ***** about how girls go for crappy guys instead of good guys like them who are nice to the girls ( which is what friends should be instead of assuming they should be more). don't think ive heard of much girls saying they've been friend zoned by a guy loool

[buttons]

right i had a male BFF all throughout high school, i assumed he was gay. anyway in 5th yr he got a mutual friend to ask me out, i didn't see it coming at all n I said no because wasn't attracted to him, preferred guys who weren't all up in my face etcetc. he started ******** bout how he was much better than every guy ive liked, how he bought me alcohol and sometimes lunch even though he did it on his own accord not because i asked him, even told him I was uncomfortable with it. then preceded to bully me out of school all bc I rejected him despite the fact we had been really good friends 5 years prior.

so went to college to do my highers, become close friends with a guy as i always do (had male bffs since i can remember, still do). he told me he fancied one of our friends so was all cool but then one day someone told me he liked me n after that he stopped talking to me n even insulting me because again i "only ever go for **** heads". in the end they both proved to be ********* themselves!! deleted me on fbook n we never spoke again.

had2 other male bffs since. first one told ppl we were dating when we weren't then insulted us all n left college lol him n the second one used 4chan so that says it all. my new one has had girl bffs before cause ive known him a bit n people assume we're dating but I rly doubt he fancies me we just get along well

ive never thought oh **** im friendzoned. ive had guys say they only like me as a friend n yeah ive thought I'm better than some of the girls they like but I don't ***** about it, say every guy is a ****** or stop being their friend??

[Liva]

I once told a guy that my dad didn't approve of relationships just so I could get out of it. In my defence though, I was trying to not hurt his feelings and he did say 'ily' to me. :/

[Yawn]

an example of friend zone

"u become friend zone too quickly with guys"

it refer to a point EARLY in getting to know stage with potential to go different direction and become relationship
i.e. it can always go 1 of 2 ways when u 1st meet some1. friend or more. thats where u hear the term friend zone mostly

[karter]

kill this word

no seriously stop using it, coz thirsty losers who get rejected by girls use this word.

"oh dude i was nice to her all this time now she friendzoned me *tips fedora*"

NO YOU WERE ACTUALLY ANNOYING HER AND SHE WANTS YOU GONE DONT U GET IT YOU'RE NOT IN THE FRIEND ZONE YOU'RE IN THE LEAVE ME THE **** ALONE ZONE

[velvet]

the phrase friend zone pisses me off to no end

[Yupt]

I don't think you have to be "placed" in the friend zone. If you like someone as more than a friend but they don't like you the same way back, whether or not they know about your feelings, doesn't matter. It's just a general term for when you have feelings for a friend.

Also, I think it's unfair to say that it's only for when guys want to ***** about girls. It's just a term, perhaps it does happen but only in some cases.

[FlyingJesus]

jfc it literally does not exist. You either fancy someone or you don't, and someone not fancying you is not some evil move that you can trick them out of by being nicer or whatever. If someone actually says the words "we're too good friends" it's just a nice way of saying that they are not attracted to you

[Futz]

kill this word

no seriously stop using it, coz thirsty losers who get rejected by girls use this word.

"oh dude i was nice to her all this time now she friendzoned me *tips fedora*"

NO YOU WERE ACTUALLY ANNOYING HER AND SHE WANTS YOU GONE DONT U GET IT YOU'RE NOT IN THE FRIEND ZONE YOU'RE IN THE LEAVE ME THE **** ALONE ZONE

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[Vodafone]

Yeah friendzone doesn't excuse it's a euphemism for rejection.

[Matt]

I still don't get what a friendzone is even after looking at Urban Dictionary ...

[MKR&*42]

I still don't get what a friendzone is even after looking at Urban Dictionary ...

Person X wants to date Person Y and tries to form a relationship with Y by being all flirty and nice and all that.
Person Y doesn't feel that way for X and says something along the lines of "you're a really good friend."
Person X realises that all his/her efforts have resulted in forming a friendship with Y instead of a relationship - he/she is in the "Friendzone"

That's what the friendzone is meant to be i believe.

[Zelda]

i was always labouring under the impression from definitions people irl and online have given me in the past that it can also include when you fancy a friend and they don't know about it as well, whether or not they are interested in you because nothing is happening because neither of you are speaking up, just leaving it as a friendship while you still have feelings for them, in which case surely it exists lol?

if we go by including that definition though then yes i am currently in it lol

[buttons]

jfc it literally does not exist. You either fancy someone or you don't, and someone not fancying you is not some evil move that you can trick them out of by being nicer or whatever. If someone actually says the words "we're too good friends" it's just a nice way of saying that they are not attracted to you
IF IT EXISTED UD BE IN IT ALL DAY ERRYDAY HAHHA
@subo (http://www.habboxforum.com/member.php?u=112144); it can go 3 ways: don't develop friendship, friends or potential for more. when i meet someone I JUST KNOW if i could fancy them and if i don't but still like them we can be friends. but sometimes they end up liking you, it's not really a zone.
i think it's kinda rude for ppl to say its a zone, as tho ur friendship isn't good enough. idk how to explain rly but yeah. Monique is being very contradictory asking have u placed anyone in the zone then saying it's simply when one person likes the other who doesn't like them. so is being friends with someone who likes u placing them in the zone? u might not even realise they like u? so idgi. do u only place them in 'the zone' when u reject them n say sorry we're only friends?

N @FlyingJesus (http://www.habboxforum.com/member.php?u=24753); and @wixard (http://www.habboxforum.com/member.php?u=64175); do u remember that theory about boys and girls can't be friends without wanting to **** each other? cause if u saw the guys I rejected ud understand why they were only friends. or was it that eventually one person wants to **** the other?

[FlyingJesus]

You just called me a good friend you **** lol and yeah the theory was that at least one party will want it, which means my bff's gf totally wants my rhythm stick omf I've nearly eaten this whole chocolate orange in like 5 minutes

[buttons]

we're not friends sorry... you're just like a brother to me :S /brozoned
found it http://www.laddertheory.com

[wixard]

i saw on tumblr once a girl debating the friendzone and said 'a woman is not a machine you put nice coins in until she has sex with you' lol

[Futz]

at the end of the day

i love buttons

[buttons]

at the end of the day

i love buttons
aww we should be friends!

[Futz]

i like it

[karter]

aww we should be friends!

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[Empired]

I guess it's possible to have like a mutual friendzoning. Where both of you got feelings but neither of you know so you're both too afraid to say something in case the other one doesn't feel the same way and you jeopardise your relationship. But that's not what the friendzone is actually meant to be so idk.