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Sharon
04-02-2015, 11:19 PM
i'm friends with one (chinese one for ppl i spk to) because he was my best friend @ time and i just didn't see him like that, so i never was hurt/hated him when we broke up. we don't necessarily speak but that's just because we've moved on in life. i did ring him not long ago n just spoke to him for a good while about what's been going on

current one... i don't know yet we're speaking 'as friends' but let's face it we're not, it's like nothing has happened. for now, that's making me happy but in reality it's just slowing down the moving on process. i'm just not ready to let go though although i do kind of accept that it's never going to be more again and i am single. just not at a stage in life atm family wise to not have someone to rely on

OldLoveSong
05-02-2015, 12:20 AM
Aquaintences i suppose ??

My bf is close with his ex and it kinda bothers me tbh

Brad
05-02-2015, 01:03 AM
I have only seen one person that I used to date. It's not often, but I don't talk with any of my others.. especially when all the other girls I've dated and broke stuff off with became psychos. (Not even joking...)

Joe
05-02-2015, 01:36 AM
My bf is close with his ex and it kinda bothers me tbh

same with my gf, i kinda hate it

Kyle
05-02-2015, 04:37 AM
Yeah man of course. Haven't had a bad breakup yet, majority have been mutual and usually down to daunting prospect of long term commitment to a single person that turns out to restrict who you're able to talk to. Still love them as friends. Jealousy of friendships is born out of insecurity and that's so very unattractive.


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Zak
05-02-2015, 08:49 AM
I still talk to my first serious girlfriend. Although she lives in London now so communication is thin. She's still pretty cool though. I'm wayyy over her and I would like to think she's over me by now.

lawrawrrr
05-02-2015, 09:55 AM
I speak to all mine. 1 is my best friend still and another is up there. I would class myself as "friends" with all of them although I don't speak to the other 3 very often.


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Alysha
05-02-2015, 11:32 AM
I still speak to all of mine occasionally, but to be honest, none were that serious, but there's no bad blood between any of us.

velvet
05-02-2015, 11:46 AM
all of you getting jealous of your partners being mates with their exes needa grow up, deal with it n stop being so insecure. @Kyle (http://www.habboxforum.com/member.php?u=30795) hit the nail on the head there, jealousy is so unattractive. once you get over that insecurity it's so much easier.

but yeah i'm best mates with my most recent ex, we still see eachother every week and stuff. used to be mates with other exes but jealous girlfriends got in the way which is utterly pathetic. if you spend years with someone then clearly it was about more than sex, friendship is the basis of every relationship so i don't see why it's so unreasonable to some people to be mates with people you've dated.
i've had partners try and tell me i can't talk to my exes and boy those relationships ended fast.

Kimmy
05-02-2015, 01:01 PM
Sometimes talk on and off, but I don't consider myself their friend ;l

Derrener
05-02-2015, 03:31 PM
2 i don't talk to at all
1 i talk to often

FlyingJesus
05-02-2015, 04:55 PM
Yarp why not there was obviously something good between us at some point so seems daft to not be friends with them just because we're not together any more

RyRy
05-02-2015, 08:32 PM
I talk with pretty much all my exes at one point or another.

GoldenMerc
05-02-2015, 09:01 PM
Gotta keep them as warm prospects and keep them connected so you can get sex on tap

Lindsey
08-02-2015, 03:08 PM
Only like one of them. I don't talk to them much tho,

Rozi
08-02-2015, 03:44 PM
I don't really talk to anyone I had a thing with in the past

just haven't really felt the need since I've been with my boyf but of course I wouldn't ignore them if they tried to talk to me except for one of them who I really have absolutely no desire to see/speak to/remember they exist

RyRy
08-02-2015, 05:54 PM
I don't really talk to anyone I had a thing with in the past

just haven't really felt the need since I've been with my boyf but of course I wouldn't ignore them if they tried to talk to me except for one of them who I really have absolutely no desire to see/speak to/remember they exist

He's got a baby to look after anyway so there's no way he'd contact you. 8)

A
08-02-2015, 06:15 PM
I'm best friends with one of them, but the other two I don't even speak to tbh.

Samantha
09-02-2015, 12:54 AM
Only really had 2 proper boyfriends and I'm not friends with my previous one. He messed everything up badly and ruined a lot of stuff regarding my family relationships too. However, the only ex I will ever speak to is my first boyfriend - we weren't really ready for a boyfriend or girlfriend, but to this day, although we don't really speak much now I know he's there for me!

Cameron
09-02-2015, 01:35 AM
i've only had two serious relationships, and i still speak to one of them yeah
other one no

Yupt
09-02-2015, 02:05 AM
I'd say I'm on talking terms with most of mine. A couple from earlier years during school and such I don't really talk to but that's only due to how we've just moved apart in general, different friend circles etc. I think it's a sad thing being on complete "ignore that person" terms.

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