are you friends with any of your exs?

[Sharon]

i'm friends with one (chinese one for ppl i spk to) because he was my best friend @ time and i just didn't see him like that, so i never was hurt/hated him when we broke up. we don't necessarily speak but that's just because we've moved on in life. i did ring him not long ago n just spoke to him for a good while about what's been going on

current one... i don't know yet we're speaking 'as friends' but let's face it we're not, it's like nothing has happened. for now, that's making me happy but in reality it's just slowing down the moving on process. i'm just not ready to let go though although i do kind of accept that it's never going to be more again and i am single. just not at a stage in life atm family wise to not have someone to rely on

[OldLoveSong]

Aquaintences i suppose ??

My bf is close with his ex and it kinda bothers me tbh

[Brad]

I have only seen one person that I used to date. It's not often, but I don't talk with any of my others.. especially when all the other girls I've dated and broke stuff off with became psychos. (Not even joking...)

[Joe]

My bf is close with his ex and it kinda bothers me tbh

same with my gf, i kinda hate it

[Kyle]

Yeah man of course. Haven't had a bad breakup yet, majority have been mutual and usually down to daunting prospect of long term commitment to a single person that turns out to restrict who you're able to talk to. Still love them as friends. Jealousy of friendships is born out of insecurity and that's so very unattractive.


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[Zak]

I still talk to my first serious girlfriend. Although she lives in London now so communication is thin. She's still pretty cool though. I'm wayyy over her and I would like to think she's over me by now.

[lawrawrrr]

I speak to all mine. 1 is my best friend still and another is up there. I would class myself as "friends" with all of them although I don't speak to the other 3 very often.


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[Alysha]

I still speak to all of mine occasionally, but to be honest, none were that serious, but there's no bad blood between any of us.

[velvet]

all of you getting jealous of your partners being mates with their exes needa grow up, deal with it n stop being so insecure. @Kyle hit the nail on the head there, jealousy is so unattractive. once you get over that insecurity it's so much easier.

but yeah i'm best mates with my most recent ex, we still see eachother every week and stuff. used to be mates with other exes but jealous girlfriends got in the way which is utterly pathetic. if you spend years with someone then clearly it was about more than sex, friendship is the basis of every relationship so i don't see why it's so unreasonable to some people to be mates with people you've dated.
i've had partners try and tell me i can't talk to my exes and boy those relationships ended fast.

[Kimmy]

Sometimes talk on and off, but I don't consider myself their friend ;l